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I'm with you. I usually try to tease my guy into attacking (I can't think of a better word right now). This is after we've been together for a while, though. At the beginning of a relationship I usually let the guy seduce me, that way I know when he's comfortable moving forward.
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Happy Camper
Seduce him enough so that I catch his interest and then turn cold. Make him work for it a little. But...playing hard to get is a sort of seduction. I don't know. It really is best when both people are doing it. Maybe the question is clearer
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Seduce him enough so that I catch his interest and then turn cold. Make him work for it a little. But...playing hard to get is a sort of seduction. I don't know. It really is best when both people are doing it. Maybe the question is clearer if you like to hook them and then be chased or if you like to chase them and take them down. They're two sides to the same coin.
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My first seduction attempt was really awkward, though. It was my first serious relationship, we were both firsties, hadn't even gotten to actual sex yet. He had been giving me oral for a while and I wanted to finally return the favor (he never even brought it up). Through the entire kissing and stuff he went along with it, but he didn't get WHY I was being so up front about it (pawing and everything) until I was fumbling with his zipper (really hard to unzip first try like that). Then he just paused for a second with this deer-in-headlights look before quickly starting to help me. So I figure that's why now I usually just do the light teases and let the guy get to the point himself.
