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Do you prefer to seduce or be seduced?

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Contributor: KnK KnK
I can't help it, I'm addicted to making polls
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I love to seduce, it's where half the fun is
JayBack , NaturalWoman , Eden C. , Steve of Eden , LennaKieran , ms.anon
6  (4%)
I'm freaked out at the idea of seducing someone/I'm too scared to
shelly8791 , Sohotdinosaur
2  (1%)
I like to be seduced
LicentiouslyYours , DeliciousSurprise , nolongerhere , Airekah , Love Buzz , Taylor , desyfa , sasweetheart89 , That Guy , PinkPedal , sixfootsex , DCorrelle , MsGoosie , nicole07 , bayosgirl , wetone123 , cburger , Harpina is gone , Subska , SparklyGlitter , Gracie , caligaliber , Kittybit
23  (17%)
I like to let it go both ways; flirting is a little tit for tat
KnK , Emma (Girl With Fire) , Lady Venus , Naughty Student , ShanShan83 , Lindz86 , Coralbell , LavenderSkies , fghjkl , SexyTabby , Andromeda , Shellz31 , lamira , Hallmar82 , Kindred , HisLittleGirl , leatherlover , Anne Ardeur , El-Jaro , Selective Sensualist , Dusk , darthkitt3n , Adriana Ravenlust , TeaganChase , Fuzzycow , Ajax , Joie de Cherresse , Kikicrystal , sbon , Happy Camper , RonLee , UnknownGirl , LikeSunshineDust , MattBryant , Cats Meow , Mr.RightNow , jaimijacklin , Stephanie Marie , bunny love , Eliza , ninaspinkturtle , 0 , Scarlette , cec578 , Liz2 , tffnyandrs , Lady Marmelade , yes yes yes , Splendwhore , lesbianlesbian , Spring , Sweet-Justice , MaryExy , *HisMrs* , SexyStuff , Sock Monkey , link82 , Upskirt , cherie2188 , eggiweg , zeebot , froggiemoma , Cedarlooman , Rossie , KennyMister , Judas Iscars , Evenlei , LadieWithSwagg , Miss T , DJBounder , K101 , GravyCakes , angel142stx , Wildchild , Dear Ruby , Ghost , kellyg , LostBoy988 , newfoundlust , Apirka , Beck , Rahel , CindyH , Secret Pleasure , SeductivelyCute , SexyRayne , Sexy Housewife , BiJess , potstickers , lillmiss5054 , yummyos , Trysexual , WhoopieDoo , tortilla , mpfm
95  (69%)
I don't want to be seduced. I don't want a predator, and I'm not prey
IrishLassie
1  (1%)
Seducing is unnecessary
I've never seduced anyone, but I'd like to
VictoriaWest
1  (1%)
I've never been seduced, but I'd like it if someone seduced me
Chilipepper , Darling Jen , Tart , Hadespark , LittleBird
5  (4%)
Seducing is too sexual for me
Other...why not. Feel free to comment please.
Gunsmoke , HoneyHoney , Lolla Munz , Cream in the Cupcake , Redboxbaby
5  (4%)
Total votes: 138
Poll is closed
11/29/2010
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Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
I have rarely had anybody attempt to seduce me, I am usually doing the seducing. On occasion it is nice to get it back though
11/29/2010
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Maybe something a little classier than "I want you" and a clothed cock-poke against my thigh. (That was the extent of Mulder's technique.)

I tried doing it myself to my ex-husband. He said it scared him. Our marriage was celibate. I don't see how kisses along the neck and playing with the earlobe could scare anybody. Pointless to say he never did it to me.

In the end - yeah, I want the romance of being seduced. He doesn't have to work too hard (I'm willing), just be classy about it.
11/29/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
Maybe something a little classier than "I want you" and a clothed cock-poke against my thigh. (That was the extent of Mulder's technique.)

I tried doing it myself to my ex-husband. He said it scared him. Our marriage was ... more
Ah, the traditional cock-poke never goes out of style does it, so classy! LOL

We are constanlty seducing each other! We are very passionate flirters within the relationship. We do kind of flirt outside the relationship but it isn't sexual flirting, it is more like sly flirting, read between the lines kind of flirting, or EGO stroking type of flirting. I wouldn't call it seducing though.
11/29/2010
Contributor: ShanShan83 ShanShan83
Quote:
Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
I have rarely had anybody attempt to seduce me, I am usually doing the seducing. On occasion it is nice to get it back though
We need to hang out more baby wink wink lol
11/30/2010
Contributor: ShanShan83 ShanShan83
I love being seduce but also love giving lap dances or really doing anything to turn my man on.
11/30/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Had to go with infamous 'other'. We've been married over 20 years - seduction just doesn't seem an appropriate term. I'm always ready for sex - so she can't really seduce me - after all seduction is alluring someone whose at least a little reluctant. As for her, she's either on or off - there is rarely a 'maybe' - so I suppose for that 1-2% of the time when she can be enticed, she can be seduced.

I know it sounds boring - but since 'on' is way more common than 'off' - I'm not complaining.
11/30/2010
Contributor: Lindz86 Lindz86
I've only ever been seduced (or had someone attempt seduction on me) very few times in my life...some were cheesy some were really well thought out...
I also find seducing someone else is quite simple, especially when it's a man...no offense sir's, but if you have a penis, it's not that hard to have my way with you
11/30/2010
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
At the start he did most of the seducing, but now I do. I like it both ways
11/30/2010
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Such a tough question Definitely both!
11/30/2010
Contributor: fghjkl fghjkl
Both for sure! I loveee being a seductrice but I feel sexy and wanted when someone else is doing the seducing.
11/30/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Give and take! I go with both.
11/30/2010
Contributor: lamira lamira
I love both!!
11/30/2010
Contributor: KnK KnK
Aw I love it when you guys do my surveys!! It makes me feel all warm and fuzzy. Lol

I like seducing because sometimes it can be fun. Currently the guy I'm talking to and I are too awkward, so there's like no seduction period. I don't usually get embarrassed easily, but I do with him!!
11/30/2010
Contributor: HisLittleGirl HisLittleGirl
Mmmmm both!
12/01/2010
Contributor: Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
When I was single and dating, I was seduced a few times (ended up having sex despite trying to resist, LOL!).
12/01/2010
Contributor: That Guy That Guy
I suppose being capable of seducing somebody else might make a person feel powerful, but having to work for it makes me feel pretty unsexy. I've always enjoyed being seduced a lot more than being the seducer.
02/15/2011
Contributor: HoneyHoney HoneyHoney
Quote:
Originally posted by KnK
I can't help it, I'm addicted to making polls
I could go both ways. I could seduce someone who's trying to seduce me. The tables have been turrrned haha
02/24/2011
Contributor: sbon sbon
Both. I think flirting/seduction should go both ways.
02/26/2011
Contributor: Happy Camper Happy Camper
Seduce him enough so that I catch his interest and then turn cold. Make him work for it a little. But...playing hard to get is a sort of seduction. I don't know. It really is best when both people are doing it. Maybe the question is clearer if you like to hook them and then be chased or if you like to chase them and take them down. They're two sides to the same coin.
02/26/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
I like it both ways, but I'm by far the better seducer in our relationship.
02/26/2011
Contributor: Mr.RightNow Mr.RightNow
both
03/02/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
mmm... That was tough to decide, but I think I will go with being seduced, as I am SOOO not good at doing it. When he puts effort into it, my husband is amazing at seducing me.
03/02/2011
Contributor: Stephanie Marie Stephanie Marie
I like it both ways, but I tend to be the seducer usually.
03/10/2011
Contributor: Eliza Eliza
I think it has to go back and forth for me. I like being seduced, but I am usually the seducer.
03/11/2011
Contributor: 0 0
It's a great game, huh?
03/11/2011
Contributor: Scarlette Scarlette
Seducing is a great fun. Flirting is empowering in its own right, or is in my own opinion.

BUT- I like it much better if he initiates it first.
03/12/2011
Contributor: tffnyandrs tffnyandrs
I like both! Depends on the mood! (ps I'm married so it naturally goes both ways!)
03/24/2011
Contributor: jaimijacklin jaimijacklin
Needs to go both ways... but more often then not I'd like to be the one seduced!
03/24/2011
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
I like to give and get.
03/26/2011