cheating is a horrible thing to do to someone!

When I was younger and in less serious relationship I cheated. Not any more, though.

Now, I have been cheated on. And I thought about cheating as payback in a 'hey, i'm hot enough, i could if i wanted to' way, but really I think it would just make the bad situation worse, so i didn't. yay morals, lol

I have in a previous relationship. He abused me before it happened, so meh.

I have never cheated and would never want to. I would feel to guilty at the thought that I was hurting someone that I love or possibly once loved. If I once loved the person, I would end the relationship before I potentially start another one with another person.

Haven't cheated, or even thought about it in a serious manner.

nope.

When my wife cheated on me, I thought about it as retribution. I never did, of course. Two wrongs don't make a right, and it wouldn't have made anything easier. Still, it's hard not to think about it when it's happened to you.

I cheated as more of a revenge thing but I know that still does not justify it.

I would never.

Never have, never will

I did a long time ago

he cheated first!!!

Never! Everything about me goes against cheating, but I do not judge those who have (unless they've done it to me! Lol) I am dealing with a family member who had an affair and this week her bf was put in ICU and is very badly injured. And her husband just got out of jail (you can probably put 2 and 2 together here) and her husband is not a horrible person, neither is she. They're both people who are my rock and they both are the closest family members I have. I love them more than anything, but I don't blame either one of them. I hate that her husband is hurting over this and I don't blame him for losing his temper the other night. I don't judge her for having an affair and it's killing me that the both of them are hurting so badly right now. I actually just made a post on how to help them. This entire thing happened a day before tornadoes hit our area so we're all a little shocked still.

I understand things happen. I would not be OK if my partner cheated. It would devastate me and I would blame him and probably forever if he cheated. I however, do not place judgement on others. I do think though, that if a person continues to cheat that is terrible! Just get out of the situation, break things off or fix things. One or the other.

i did in the past if i could go back and change it i would , but happy where im at now and who im with and wouldnt do anything to screw it up so cheating is not even a thought now

I cheated on my ex-husband. He just didn't satisfy me at all. If I wouldn't have cheated on him, I never would have found my soul mate who is my husband now. I would never cheat on my husband now. I have no reason to.

I don't have it in me. I don't cheat, I dislike cheating, I've never considered it, nor would I. (Even in really, really bad relationships in the past.) I feel like if you want to be with other people, you can - there is no law against it - you should just get out of the relationship you're in first. (Unless you're in an open relationship, but then I guess it wouldn't be cheating.)

I am now kind of in the same situation I was in the one time I did cheat. I was 16 and so it wasn't like it was a real serious relationship. Still, feelings were hurt. Very hurt. We had differences, and even though I loved him I was on a very different path sex wise than he was. I wanted anal sex, and yes I could have asked him and I'm sure he would have. At the time though I just didn't understand why I didn't want it with him, or for him to be the first guy to do that to me.

It turned out like it was all meant to be. He was planning on going to my cousin's wedding reception with me and a few of my friends and then changed his mind. I ended up dancing and flirting quite a bit with this guy who was there with my friend's brother. He was several years older and the more he came off in the take charge way the more I couldn't wait to finally get what I'd been wanting for quite awhile. He seemed like the guy to do it, you know, like really deliver. I did have to sneak some drinks to get the nerve to ask him to do it to me. And then it happened. I loved it, and looking back yes I'm still glad it was him for my first anal because I know had it been my boyfriend it would have been over before it started, and I'd wanted it for so long I REALLY didn't want a disappointing experience like that. But I felt terrible for cheating and for how I'd gone about it.

I told him right away the next day. I mean I didn't tell him details, I didn't want to hurt him like that. But we had the typical state of the union, "let's be friends" talk that high schol couples have when one of them has started having sex with someone else. But of course he eventually heard what happened. I never did find out exactly who had to be so wonderful to go and make sure he knew all the juicy details. My friend certainly knew because I was on cloud nine and told her, and I know others could have overheard us talking. It was easily one of my worst days ever, when my boyfriend called. He cried horribly. I'd never heard a guy cry like that. I'll never forget that sound of his voice and will never EVER go behind a guy's back again knowing I'm capable of hurting a guy bad enough to make him feel a pain that resulted in him sounding like that. Seriously, to this day when something, maybe a song or something in a movie I'm watching reminds me of that I can start crying remembering his voice even now four years later.

It's not like I cheated to hurt him. But I have admitted to myself it was a pretty horrible move. The only good part was the anal sex itself, and how it showed me how even early I was pretty good at judging whether or not a guy would make a suitable anal partner for me since I lean that way much more than vag sex.

Which brings me to present. My friends w-bennies is older than me (he jokingly calls me his little "butt buddy" which I love btw! lol) and we are doing fine and having lots of fun. Nothing serious or complicated. And then this other guy I work with that I'd been sizing up half heartedly asked me out the weekend after my special older friend and I hooked up. So, shit lol. For now I've decided to put him off. He talks with me everyday but hasn't asked me to go do anything specifically, like a date.

Ok----well that was funny. Been thinking about this and then he actually called not long ago and asked if I wanted to go to lunch and a movie today. Up until he's just been all, hey we should do something sometime. Guess he was feeling me out? I agreed to go but told him I'm not looking to begin anything other than just being friends. If he asks if I'm seeing someone else I'm not sure what to tell him? Because if I say yes it makes it look funny that I'd go to lunch and a movie with him, and if I say no he will probably wonder why I'm not interested and take it personally. And then do I tell my "friend with bennies" when we get together tonight that I went to a movie today with some guy I work with? Have to play it by ear.

I never cheated before but have thought about kissing somebody else many times before.

No and no. When I think about cheating, it's time to get to a counselor because something in our relationship isn't working and we need to figure it out and repair it.

No.
If I'm happy in a relationship, I'm happy.
If I'm unhappy I would either try to find a way to fix it, or just break up.

I've been cheated on and been the 'other woman', but I've never cheated.