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Contributor: evie.amor evie.amor
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Originally posted by cgartman1989
I think that cofidence makes you sexy! you can be fat or skinny, black or white, blonde or redhead, but i you dont carry yourself with confiendence people wont see that attractiveness
And confidence is absolutely the most important thing!
04/13/2013
Contributor: XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
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Originally posted by twelve13
I used to think I had a preference. At this point, I have dated men, women, brown-haired, blondes, black-haired, tall and larger built/muscular, naturally extremely thin. And they have all been beautiful to me.
I like your answer.
04/15/2013
Contributor: Jaybird Jaybird
I have a type I typically like, but honestly it's just a preference and I'm incredibly flexible. I like bright red hair and somewhat muscular or slimmer women, but looks in the end don't matter to me too much.
04/15/2013
Contributor: Bme Bme
I prefer brunettes but I fell in love with a blonde. When you fall in love preferences no longer matter.
04/15/2013
Contributor: apple4me apple4me
My dream guy is pretty much a bear, but I'm open to all sorts of guys.
05/09/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
I thought I had a type -guys who are mid-height and very skinny- but I've found that that was just a pattern and I'm flexible; my boyfriend is outside of that type (he's tall and has a wider, squarish frame), but I am very attracted to him.
06/05/2013
Contributor: CutiePatootie CutiePatootie
I've never really considered myself to have a "type." I'm actually still a little surprised I married a man who is classic-attractive. He gets hit on a lot by women, but that's fine by me!
06/05/2013
Contributor: dancingduo dancingduo
As the guy, I like taller girls, that are fit. If fit is slender because it is their frame fine, if its muscular because they are built more big, fine. I just want a healthy partner! Hair color doesn't matter to me that much, but when I did date I liked brunettes more than blondes.
06/05/2013
Contributor: mr115393 mr115393
I find a lot of different people attractive, but I am more often than not attracted to women who are kind of on the heavier side. I have no idea why, but that's just how I've always been.
07/01/2013
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
My man fits into my preferences XD But I can be flexible.
07/01/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Tall, dark, and handsome, that's my type.
07/29/2013
Contributor: stacylyn12 stacylyn12
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Originally posted by raffi
I know everyone likes different things, but a lot of females and males out there are very very self conscious about their shape and size. So, how important are these features to you? What do you find most attractive? (choose as many as you wish to!)
I like character depth
07/29/2013
Contributor: TransMarc TransMarc
I like muscular women, but only women. Not muscular men.
08/08/2013
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
Not very important, but I wish mine were different.
08/08/2013
Contributor: Lavender*Moon Lavender*Moon
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Originally posted by raffi
I know everyone likes different things, but a lot of females and males out there are very very self conscious about their shape and size. So, how important are these features to you? What do you find most attractive? (choose as many as you wish to!)
In general, my preferences are pretty important when looking for someone. I will date those outside of my preferences, but I do have a "type". My type is tall (around 6'), average to slim, dark hair, and tattoos. When I find a guy like that and he likes me too, I go all school girl. lol.
08/20/2013
Contributor: stacylyn12 stacylyn12
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Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
I've never allowed my preferences get in the way of anything, but fortunately my husband fits into all of them!
That is very lucky for you
08/20/2013
Contributor: stacylyn12 stacylyn12
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Originally posted by BrittaniMaree
the happy medium and I am 5 foot 1 with long blonde hair
I wish I had blonde hair
08/20/2013
Contributor: stacylyn12 stacylyn12
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Originally posted by raffi
hehe, i met my man online (13 years ago!!) and fell in love with him before i even had any idea what he might look like. fortunately for me he turned out to be very sexy.
that is cool
08/20/2013
Contributor: stacylyn12 stacylyn12
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Originally posted by AmethystQueen
I think as long as someone is happy in their skin that makes a huge statement. I do have preferences, but they're not hard and fast rules. You can miss out on some wonderful relationships because you're closing yourself off through your preferences.
that is true if you are happy in your skin that is very sexy
08/20/2013
Contributor: stacylyn12 stacylyn12
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Originally posted by bog
I am VERY into long hair on any gender, but body type and hair color don't matter so much to me.
long hair is so fun to play with
08/20/2013
Contributor: stacylyn12 stacylyn12
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Originally posted by surreptitious
I don't have any specific preferences for any specific features, though that's not because appearance means nothing to me. I just think that personality and how people carry themselves has a lot to do with what makes them attractive. Certain ... more
I love personality
08/20/2013
Contributor: stacylyn12 stacylyn12
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Originally posted by SourAppleMartini
For girls I like skinny. Not anorexic skinny, but Taylor Swift skinny, which is probably still below healthy BMI.
I like healthy
08/20/2013
Contributor: Holly Wood Holly Wood
Mmmmmm.... redheads. I'm TOTALLY into my own kind. Ginger me NOW!

Oh, yeah... the other stuff, uh... I've dated all types (but mostly redheaded!) and I just like what I like! Muscular, middle-of-the-road, slightly pudgy, even really big dudes. Sure, I prefer them taller (and either Irish or Scottish - even MORE preferably with an accent - *DROOL*), but my last few have been an inch or two shorter and just as fun, as well!

I'm just having a blast right about now. I deserve it!
10/22/2013
Contributor: Badass Badass
The one quality I am really about is long hair on a man... so hawt.
10/22/2013
Contributor: CinnamonNights CinnamonNights
Body type does matter to me a bit, I'm not picky but I do have some preference. I don't care about skin color, height, hair color and length.

The only boy type I'm a bit picky on is weight. Thin, average, or muscular--they can even be a little chubby--but I have a hard time being attracted to someone who's too chubby or too thin. I'm more attracted to healthier seeming body types. If someone's overweight it doesn't make them unattractive at all, the body type just doesn't do it for me personally. If someone's too underweight then I don't feel safe or attracted to that, a person has to be alive for you to be attracted to them.
10/22/2013