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First Anal Experience

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Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
For me it was with a partner (and I never had it with a toy).
It was more pleasurable than my other anal experiences (I have no idea why - just happened that way).
I was memorable for good reasons - I like to try something new and I was glad I tried that, even though I'm not really a fan of it.
02/01/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Getting geared up now for the first time. These experiences helped!
02/01/2011
Contributor: sinfullysweet1 sinfullysweet1
My first anal experience I was with a man that wasn't packaged very well to say the least there was a lot of faking going on by my part lol so its not really the way i want to remember being introduced to anal play. My second was very well experienced at at and i really couldn't the the difference between the vaginal and anal its seem to just all come together like and well tuned orchestra there was no pain what so ever just pleasure i am very much an anal girl but only with the right type of ppl if you feel you have to rush into and hurt me in the process then you might as well find someone else to play with cause i am out the door
02/01/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by Nashville
I'm just curious when everyone had their first anal experience.

Was it with a toy or with a partner?

Was it memorable- for good reasons or bad reasons?

Do you enjoy anal more or less since that very first fated ... more
I was 15, with my boyfriend of that time. It wasn't a particularly good time. Now it's great though.
02/03/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Can't believe I missed this!

It was with a toy (although it is very possible to combine the two), and now I definitely like it better because I know more about how to do buttplay and my body. It was memorable - I didn't do a very good job of it (no proper lube, no proper toy), but it still felt good.
02/03/2011
Contributor: marcarlo marcarlo
As a strictly hetero male, I have no perspective of what it feels like to be anally penetrated, but for me anal sex is by far the most enjoyable of the three ways to have male/female sex. I won't try to force it on someone who can't or won't try, but if she also refuses oral sex, I'm gone! I don't need to deal with anyone's dysfunctional past - resolving my own was difficult enough.
I can say that every woman I know who has tried anal sex without fear or prejudice has eventually come to prefer it to either vaginal or oral sex. Those who admit to being able to come that way say that it's the most intense orgasm they've ever experienced. One woman said that she only did it for me, but ya' know, at some point every time we had sex, she wanted to put her legs up and have it in her ass. When she would come, it was like a rodeo, try to stay on for eight seconds.
03/08/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by marcarlo
As a strictly hetero male, I have no perspective of what it feels like to be anally penetrated, but for me anal sex is by far the most enjoyable of the three ways to have male/female sex. I won't try to force it on someone who can't or ... more
The "strictly hetero" part doesn't disqualify you by any means (although the "don't want to" part can be valid). It doesn't have to be a penis or even penis-shaped, as many of us here will attest.
03/08/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
First time was with my partner. It hurt. We stopped. Now I have to practically beg him for it, I love anal so much.
03/08/2011