Generally I would say I wouldn't sleep with someone I found to have terrible personality, but there are exceptions. Sarah Palin for example; I can't stand her politics, but given the chance I'd have to, especially for the story.
Would you sleep with someone, who you found disagreeable, or off-putting, personality-wise, just because they're attractive?
06/19/2012
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I wouldn't sleep with someone I didn't find attractive, personality-wise.
Originally posted by
Errant Venture
Yesterday, a friend of mine and I were watching a TV show - a singing/talent show - where a singer I absolutely cannot stand was a guest. I seriously cannot stand her music. However, my friend pointed out that, despite this hatred, I'd still
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Yesterday, a friend of mine and I were watching a TV show - a singing/talent show - where a singer I absolutely cannot stand was a guest. I seriously cannot stand her music. However, my friend pointed out that, despite this hatred, I'd still sleep with her. I laughed, and snorted, and denied it all I could, yet it was true. She wasn't all that unattractive, and I've been known to jump anything that moves, and many things that don't.
I've a friend, too, who disagrees vehemently with the policies of one Sarah Palin, yet he happens to have a bit of a crush on her.
This got me thinking. Maybe this is more widespread than I thought? We all say that it's what's inside that counts (trying not to make a sex joke, here), and physical beauty may not be all that important, but I can't deny that there are some women I'd happily sleep with, despite their being dead behind the eyes.
So would you sleep with someone, who you found disagreeable, or off-putting, personality-wise? And is this a guy-only thing?
Sorry, one other thing I was interested in but forgot to add: Who is the one person you find most disgusting, yet would still sleep with? less
I've a friend, too, who disagrees vehemently with the policies of one Sarah Palin, yet he happens to have a bit of a crush on her.
This got me thinking. Maybe this is more widespread than I thought? We all say that it's what's inside that counts (trying not to make a sex joke, here), and physical beauty may not be all that important, but I can't deny that there are some women I'd happily sleep with, despite their being dead behind the eyes.
So would you sleep with someone, who you found disagreeable, or off-putting, personality-wise? And is this a guy-only thing?
Sorry, one other thing I was interested in but forgot to add: Who is the one person you find most disgusting, yet would still sleep with? less
06/19/2012
I would fuck a snake if it had ears
06/20/2012
Off-putting/icky personality equals unattractive, to me. I guess I have done it, but only with women, and I think it had to do with my lack of confidence re: finding a woman who was both likeable and who would like me.
Sleeping with a guy who is also a jerkface is one of the scariest things I can think of. I don't care how fucking pretty the world things you are.
Sleeping with a guy who is also a jerkface is one of the scariest things I can think of. I don't care how fucking pretty the world things you are.
06/26/2012
I would.
Disgust and hatred (to an extent) Can sometimes enhance things.
Disgust and hatred (to an extent) Can sometimes enhance things.
07/05/2012
Hell no.
07/07/2012
No, I would be angry with myself afterward.
07/07/2012
Yes!
If they are attractive, and we are both into each other at least from a physical standpoint - why not?
I have slept with men/women who are attractive physically, but have zero in the chemistry department. They were great in the sack, but I'm not looking to date these individuals, just looking for hot sex.
If they are attractive, and we are both into each other at least from a physical standpoint - why not?
I have slept with men/women who are attractive physically, but have zero in the chemistry department. They were great in the sack, but I'm not looking to date these individuals, just looking for hot sex.
07/09/2012
For me it is all about personality.
If our personality's crash were not getting in the sack.
If our personality's crash were not getting in the sack.
07/12/2012
If I don't like someone's personality, then I'm not physically attracted to them, either. The two things are very closely linked for me. A nasty personality is a huge turn-off.
08/07/2012
Absolutely not
08/08/2012
I seem to be incapable of being sexually attracted to someone I'm not intellectually/emotion ally attracted to.
08/09/2012
I would have to consider the whole package.
11/04/2012
Not only is personality important. No matter how attractive someone is, dumb is a major turn off. Smart is just so damn sexy.
11/04/2012
I happen to find Tom Cruise somewhat attractive, despite the fact that I think most of his views are loony to the point of being ridiculous. I think he's enough of a nut that it would give me pause. However, I have to admit that if he showed up at my door asking for a night with me, I'd be tempted, and I would expect my husband to understand. There's a particular scene in Interview with a Vampire (the film, though I did read the book first) that has stayed with me a long time and influenced who I am sexually.
The same is true of Johnny Depp, though I think he is a little less crazy (and therefore more tempting.)
My husband and I often have these discussions. I find it interesting to see which celebrities make his hot list. I wouldn't change who I am to suit his tastes, though. It just lets me know more about him as a person.
The same is true of Johnny Depp, though I think he is a little less crazy (and therefore more tempting.)
My husband and I often have these discussions. I find it interesting to see which celebrities make his hot list. I wouldn't change who I am to suit his tastes, though. It just lets me know more about him as a person.
12/10/2012
I think I answered this question with a 'no' but I keep thinking about it. It really depends on the trait that I find annoying but I actually think I could. As long as I knew it was a one time thing.
I had a huge crush on this girl whom I knew was playing me, but at the time I would have done ANYTHING for her. I was totally obsessed, even though I knew she was a player. So it is hard for me to say that I absolutely wouldn't.
I had a huge crush on this girl whom I knew was playing me, but at the time I would have done ANYTHING for her. I was totally obsessed, even though I knew she was a player. So it is hard for me to say that I absolutely wouldn't.
01/13/2013
i have
01/13/2013
It would depend on the person and the flaw. We're they disgusting in their beliefs and actions or was there just something about their personality or demeanor I didn't care for. By your example, there are several female singers and actresses I don't care for based on their abilities, but I'd still sleep with them. So I guess my answer is yes, although being a married man, I'm answering this question as a purely hypothetical one.
01/14/2013
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i am a woman and as soon as i discover a good-looking person has a disgusting personality, they become just as ugly on the outside.
Originally posted by
Errant Venture
Yesterday, a friend of mine and I were watching a TV show - a singing/talent show - where a singer I absolutely cannot stand was a guest. I seriously cannot stand her music. However, my friend pointed out that, despite this hatred, I'd still
...
more
Yesterday, a friend of mine and I were watching a TV show - a singing/talent show - where a singer I absolutely cannot stand was a guest. I seriously cannot stand her music. However, my friend pointed out that, despite this hatred, I'd still sleep with her. I laughed, and snorted, and denied it all I could, yet it was true. She wasn't all that unattractive, and I've been known to jump anything that moves, and many things that don't.
I've a friend, too, who disagrees vehemently with the policies of one Sarah Palin, yet he happens to have a bit of a crush on her.
This got me thinking. Maybe this is more widespread than I thought? We all say that it's what's inside that counts (trying not to make a sex joke, here), and physical beauty may not be all that important, but I can't deny that there are some women I'd happily sleep with, despite their being dead behind the eyes.
So would you sleep with someone, who you found disagreeable, or off-putting, personality-wise? And is this a guy-only thing?
Sorry, one other thing I was interested in but forgot to add: Who is the one person you find most disgusting, yet would still sleep with? less
I've a friend, too, who disagrees vehemently with the policies of one Sarah Palin, yet he happens to have a bit of a crush on her.
This got me thinking. Maybe this is more widespread than I thought? We all say that it's what's inside that counts (trying not to make a sex joke, here), and physical beauty may not be all that important, but I can't deny that there are some women I'd happily sleep with, despite their being dead behind the eyes.
So would you sleep with someone, who you found disagreeable, or off-putting, personality-wise? And is this a guy-only thing?
Sorry, one other thing I was interested in but forgot to add: Who is the one person you find most disgusting, yet would still sleep with? less
01/14/2013
If someone's personality grated on my nerves, I just couldn't do it. It wouldn't matter how attractive I found them physically.
01/14/2013
I wouldn't. its always a physical attraction first. but if they have an ugly personality I could easily look over it
01/14/2013
I'm mostly attracted to personality. If you got a bad one I don't care if you're the best looking person on earth, you're not getting in my pants.
01/14/2013
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im currently sleeping with a guy that I find a bit annoying and clingy but he's good in bed so meh
Originally posted by
Errant Venture
Yesterday, a friend of mine and I were watching a TV show - a singing/talent show - where a singer I absolutely cannot stand was a guest. I seriously cannot stand her music. However, my friend pointed out that, despite this hatred, I'd still
...
more
Yesterday, a friend of mine and I were watching a TV show - a singing/talent show - where a singer I absolutely cannot stand was a guest. I seriously cannot stand her music. However, my friend pointed out that, despite this hatred, I'd still sleep with her. I laughed, and snorted, and denied it all I could, yet it was true. She wasn't all that unattractive, and I've been known to jump anything that moves, and many things that don't.
I've a friend, too, who disagrees vehemently with the policies of one Sarah Palin, yet he happens to have a bit of a crush on her.
This got me thinking. Maybe this is more widespread than I thought? We all say that it's what's inside that counts (trying not to make a sex joke, here), and physical beauty may not be all that important, but I can't deny that there are some women I'd happily sleep with, despite their being dead behind the eyes.
So would you sleep with someone, who you found disagreeable, or off-putting, personality-wise? And is this a guy-only thing?
Sorry, one other thing I was interested in but forgot to add: Who is the one person you find most disgusting, yet would still sleep with? less
I've a friend, too, who disagrees vehemently with the policies of one Sarah Palin, yet he happens to have a bit of a crush on her.
This got me thinking. Maybe this is more widespread than I thought? We all say that it's what's inside that counts (trying not to make a sex joke, here), and physical beauty may not be all that important, but I can't deny that there are some women I'd happily sleep with, despite their being dead behind the eyes.
So would you sleep with someone, who you found disagreeable, or off-putting, personality-wise? And is this a guy-only thing?
Sorry, one other thing I was interested in but forgot to add: Who is the one person you find most disgusting, yet would still sleep with? less
01/22/2013
I could not get past my repulsion. It's very much about my non physical reaction to a person, not just the physical. It's almost as if my dislike of their personality causes a physical reaction in me destroying any attraction I would have felt had they not opened their mouth.
04/03/2013
I can't do that. As soon as i discover a person's true and ugly personality he stops being physically attractive to me. I actually have a friend who is extremely good looking and popular with girls, but treats his romantic conquests like shit. And yeah, we are good friends because he has always been really nice to me, but as soon as he starts flirting it is such a turn off.
04/06/2013
I wouldn't.
04/06/2013
No. Personality is really important to me (it has even come before looks in a couple cases of people I liked).
04/19/2013
Nope.
04/27/2013
Now, I wouldn't sleep with anyone other than my wife. But when I was younger I slept with people I didn't particularly like (apart from the raw, chemical attraction) several times. I usually enjoyed the sex, but had no desire to have a relationship with them. IMO, that's what the one-night-stand is all about. And what condoms are for.
04/27/2013
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I might every once in a great while. I don't typically find strangers irresistibly sexually attractive with wild chemistry and sparks flying between us. If it happens, though, why not?
Originally posted by
Errant Venture
Yesterday, a friend of mine and I were watching a TV show - a singing/talent show - where a singer I absolutely cannot stand was a guest. I seriously cannot stand her music. However, my friend pointed out that, despite this hatred, I'd still
...
more
Yesterday, a friend of mine and I were watching a TV show - a singing/talent show - where a singer I absolutely cannot stand was a guest. I seriously cannot stand her music. However, my friend pointed out that, despite this hatred, I'd still sleep with her. I laughed, and snorted, and denied it all I could, yet it was true. She wasn't all that unattractive, and I've been known to jump anything that moves, and many things that don't.
I've a friend, too, who disagrees vehemently with the policies of one Sarah Palin, yet he happens to have a bit of a crush on her.
This got me thinking. Maybe this is more widespread than I thought? We all say that it's what's inside that counts (trying not to make a sex joke, here), and physical beauty may not be all that important, but I can't deny that there are some women I'd happily sleep with, despite their being dead behind the eyes.
So would you sleep with someone, who you found disagreeable, or off-putting, personality-wise? And is this a guy-only thing?
Sorry, one other thing I was interested in but forgot to add: Who is the one person you find most disgusting, yet would still sleep with? less
I've a friend, too, who disagrees vehemently with the policies of one Sarah Palin, yet he happens to have a bit of a crush on her.
This got me thinking. Maybe this is more widespread than I thought? We all say that it's what's inside that counts (trying not to make a sex joke, here), and physical beauty may not be all that important, but I can't deny that there are some women I'd happily sleep with, despite their being dead behind the eyes.
So would you sleep with someone, who you found disagreeable, or off-putting, personality-wise? And is this a guy-only thing?
Sorry, one other thing I was interested in but forgot to add: Who is the one person you find most disgusting, yet would still sleep with? less
04/28/2013