I think it works the other way around, too - fortunately, or no one except models would ever get laid. I've dated some funny-lookin' guys, but at the time thought they were the hottest thing ever just because I was so into them.
Would you sleep with someone, who you found disagreeable, or off-putting, personality-wise, just because they're attractive?
11/03/2011
I don't think that I could ever sleep with someone if I thought they had a "bad" personality....
But I also used to tell myself that I could never do anything sexual with someone who is 1) Lacking in intelligence or 2) Couldn't carry a conversation.
.....and yet I have come to find myself a wanton cyber-sex slave to a couple of men that I probably wouldn't give the time of day to in "real life," just because they're gorgeous. One is really nice, and speaks English, but kind of has a rock for a brain. The other knows about 10 words of English, but he's the MOST GORGEOUS ITALIAN MAN I'VE EVER SEEN.
But I also used to tell myself that I could never do anything sexual with someone who is 1) Lacking in intelligence or 2) Couldn't carry a conversation.
.....and yet I have come to find myself a wanton cyber-sex slave to a couple of men that I probably wouldn't give the time of day to in "real life," just because they're gorgeous. One is really nice, and speaks English, but kind of has a rock for a brain. The other knows about 10 words of English, but he's the MOST GORGEOUS ITALIAN MAN I'VE EVER SEEN.
11/05/2011
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No, definitely not.
Originally posted by
Errant Venture
Yesterday, a friend of mine and I were watching a TV show - a singing/talent show - where a singer I absolutely cannot stand was a guest. I seriously cannot stand her music. However, my friend pointed out that, despite this hatred, I'd still
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Yesterday, a friend of mine and I were watching a TV show - a singing/talent show - where a singer I absolutely cannot stand was a guest. I seriously cannot stand her music. However, my friend pointed out that, despite this hatred, I'd still sleep with her. I laughed, and snorted, and denied it all I could, yet it was true. She wasn't all that unattractive, and I've been known to jump anything that moves, and many things that don't.
I've a friend, too, who disagrees vehemently with the policies of one Sarah Palin, yet he happens to have a bit of a crush on her.
This got me thinking. Maybe this is more widespread than I thought? We all say that it's what's inside that counts (trying not to make a sex joke, here), and physical beauty may not be all that important, but I can't deny that there are some women I'd happily sleep with, despite their being dead behind the eyes.
So would you sleep with someone, who you found disagreeable, or off-putting, personality-wise? And is this a guy-only thing?
Sorry, one other thing I was interested in but forgot to add: Who is the one person you find most disgusting, yet would still sleep with? less
I've a friend, too, who disagrees vehemently with the policies of one Sarah Palin, yet he happens to have a bit of a crush on her.
This got me thinking. Maybe this is more widespread than I thought? We all say that it's what's inside that counts (trying not to make a sex joke, here), and physical beauty may not be all that important, but I can't deny that there are some women I'd happily sleep with, despite their being dead behind the eyes.
So would you sleep with someone, who you found disagreeable, or off-putting, personality-wise? And is this a guy-only thing?
Sorry, one other thing I was interested in but forgot to add: Who is the one person you find most disgusting, yet would still sleep with? less
11/07/2011
In my younger days I absolutely had sex with or gave head to people just because they were attractive. It's pretty much the whole point of a one night stand.
11/07/2011
That's a definite no here. If I don't like you well enough to hang out with you, I am definitely not going to sleep with you.
12/05/2011
It would depend on the situation. Sometimes, bratty people can have their shining moments.
12/05/2011
I could see it from a male's perspective of just dominating the individual, with no emotional investment in sex.
12/09/2011
I would sleep with someone I didn't find attractive physically if his personality were a good fit for me, but not the other way around. A disagreeable or off-putting personality is a deal-breaker.
12/09/2011
It would bother me way too much.
12/23/2011
Generally, I am very picky about who I sleep with or date. I'm also more attracted to personality than looks, so typically speaking - no I wouldn't sleep with someone whose personality I disliked, even though they were gorgeous. I've had opportunities before to do such things, and didn't.
That said, I think there is likely to be an exception for me, and for most people.
That said, I think there is likely to be an exception for me, and for most people.
12/23/2011
Absolutely not! If a person's personality and attitude are ugly then I want nothing to do with them. A pretty outside can quickly be ugly when I see that they're lacking in personality. Personality is the biggest factor for me. If I were just looking for anybody to sleep with, I might would, but I'd never just look for someone to F. Thankfully, I have a partner with both a beautiful inside and out. The thing that attracted me to him 5 years ago was his very considerate personality and happy attitude.
12/23/2011
I would not.
12/27/2011
Nowadays I couldn't but a few years ago I would, and did.
12/27/2011
Well... I have. I didn't hate his personality, but he just wasn't dateable, and when we talked about things other than sex, we just didn't click and sometimes had nothing to talk about or got into stupid arguments. However, in the bedroom everything was awesome, so it was okay. Lol.
12/29/2011
I checked that I wouldn't but I have in the past, mostly in swingers club situations.
12/29/2011
Not my thing. I guess because I've seen it cause nothing but heartbreak for my sister, who has convinced herself that Beauty is Good. She's been with a lot of stunningly attractive men, and each one has left at least one horrible, painful welt on her psyche.
01/08/2012
Nah.. I'd have to like them in all aspects for me to sleep with them.
01/10/2012
If there were something redeemable about him, then maybe. But otherwise, if I think you're an asshole (without the 'charming' element) then no.
02/14/2012
I have had sex once with a gal I find extremely annoying and more than a little stupid. I did it but it was sooo awkward in the morning. I would never do it again and I think I must find someone's personality interesting to be truly turned on.
02/15/2012
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Same here.
Originally posted by
geliebt
Absolutely not, never ever ever.
I keep sex in a really special, vulnerable place in my mind. For it to happen (any sexual activity at all) I need a LOT of trust, and indeed a lot of love there already. If everything isn't right, it's just ... more
I keep sex in a really special, vulnerable place in my mind. For it to happen (any sexual activity at all) I need a LOT of trust, and indeed a lot of love there already. If everything isn't right, it's just ... more
Absolutely not, never ever ever.
I keep sex in a really special, vulnerable place in my mind. For it to happen (any sexual activity at all) I need a LOT of trust, and indeed a lot of love there already. If everything isn't right, it's just harmful to me. I don't care how good looking anyone is. No love, no trust, no sex! less
I keep sex in a really special, vulnerable place in my mind. For it to happen (any sexual activity at all) I need a LOT of trust, and indeed a lot of love there already. If everything isn't right, it's just harmful to me. I don't care how good looking anyone is. No love, no trust, no sex! less
02/15/2012
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I'd have to have some sort of attraction to make it worth MY while. I know what I can do in bed, and if there's no attraction, I can do it myself if need-be. ;P
Originally posted by
Errant Venture
Yesterday, a friend of mine and I were watching a TV show - a singing/talent show - where a singer I absolutely cannot stand was a guest. I seriously cannot stand her music. However, my friend pointed out that, despite this hatred, I'd still
...
more
Yesterday, a friend of mine and I were watching a TV show - a singing/talent show - where a singer I absolutely cannot stand was a guest. I seriously cannot stand her music. However, my friend pointed out that, despite this hatred, I'd still sleep with her. I laughed, and snorted, and denied it all I could, yet it was true. She wasn't all that unattractive, and I've been known to jump anything that moves, and many things that don't.
I've a friend, too, who disagrees vehemently with the policies of one Sarah Palin, yet he happens to have a bit of a crush on her.
This got me thinking. Maybe this is more widespread than I thought? We all say that it's what's inside that counts (trying not to make a sex joke, here), and physical beauty may not be all that important, but I can't deny that there are some women I'd happily sleep with, despite their being dead behind the eyes.
So would you sleep with someone, who you found disagreeable, or off-putting, personality-wise? And is this a guy-only thing?
Sorry, one other thing I was interested in but forgot to add: Who is the one person you find most disgusting, yet would still sleep with? less
I've a friend, too, who disagrees vehemently with the policies of one Sarah Palin, yet he happens to have a bit of a crush on her.
This got me thinking. Maybe this is more widespread than I thought? We all say that it's what's inside that counts (trying not to make a sex joke, here), and physical beauty may not be all that important, but I can't deny that there are some women I'd happily sleep with, despite their being dead behind the eyes.
So would you sleep with someone, who you found disagreeable, or off-putting, personality-wise? And is this a guy-only thing?
Sorry, one other thing I was interested in but forgot to add: Who is the one person you find most disgusting, yet would still sleep with? less
03/26/2012
if i can't stand there personality couldnt sleep with them. it just wouldnt happen.
03/27/2012
Nope, because it's more interesting if you like them too
04/29/2012
I've tried it. It doesn't work for me. If the personality is a turn off, then I can't.
05/02/2012
You have to have a great personality that agrees with mine.
05/02/2012
no, no i wouldnt, personality always wins out over looks lol sorry cute guys
06/19/2012
Nope. I need that emotional connection. Doesn't matter how pretty they are, if their personality sucks, I want nothing to do with them.
06/19/2012
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I don't find very many people attactive, at all. And the one that I do, I jump on(bend over for) every chance I get.
Originally posted by
Errant Venture
Yesterday, a friend of mine and I were watching a TV show - a singing/talent show - where a singer I absolutely cannot stand was a guest. I seriously cannot stand her music. However, my friend pointed out that, despite this hatred, I'd still
...
more
Yesterday, a friend of mine and I were watching a TV show - a singing/talent show - where a singer I absolutely cannot stand was a guest. I seriously cannot stand her music. However, my friend pointed out that, despite this hatred, I'd still sleep with her. I laughed, and snorted, and denied it all I could, yet it was true. She wasn't all that unattractive, and I've been known to jump anything that moves, and many things that don't.
I've a friend, too, who disagrees vehemently with the policies of one Sarah Palin, yet he happens to have a bit of a crush on her.
This got me thinking. Maybe this is more widespread than I thought? We all say that it's what's inside that counts (trying not to make a sex joke, here), and physical beauty may not be all that important, but I can't deny that there are some women I'd happily sleep with, despite their being dead behind the eyes.
So would you sleep with someone, who you found disagreeable, or off-putting, personality-wise? And is this a guy-only thing?
Sorry, one other thing I was interested in but forgot to add: Who is the one person you find most disgusting, yet would still sleep with? less
I've a friend, too, who disagrees vehemently with the policies of one Sarah Palin, yet he happens to have a bit of a crush on her.
This got me thinking. Maybe this is more widespread than I thought? We all say that it's what's inside that counts (trying not to make a sex joke, here), and physical beauty may not be all that important, but I can't deny that there are some women I'd happily sleep with, despite their being dead behind the eyes.
So would you sleep with someone, who you found disagreeable, or off-putting, personality-wise? And is this a guy-only thing?
Sorry, one other thing I was interested in but forgot to add: Who is the one person you find most disgusting, yet would still sleep with? less
06/19/2012
Attraction for me is completely about personality. I won't find someone attractive if I can't like who they are.
06/19/2012
no way in hell. they would genuinely look hideous to me because of the personality
06/19/2012