Unfortunately, the media, the public and individuals will laugh at whatever they can. She is choosing to interact with the media. That makes her automatically subject to everything that they can do to prolong the story. Nice or not. That's there job. Politicians are subject to the same rules, and often get about the same amount of respect.

As for what people laugh at... Let them laugh. Life is hard enough not to laugh at whatever we might find either amusing or beautiful for a moment. (And your own avatar name means a "overflow of tears.") None of us would be laughing at her face, and many would actually be trying to help. I looked at those pictures of those babies, and felt terrible. They aren't vibrant healthy newborns. less

*Offers a toast to calmly and tactfully educating all young men and women about Pornography, Vivid Entertainment, civil forum etiquette, and the facts of life."

(Remembers that "That Weird Guy" is still a virgin and should be allowed the tolerance of young children...)

*Puts glass down, and heads off to find children, resume chaos, and write some more about why she's not interested in sex...*

Have fun y'all... less

I just wanted to say my immediate reaction and what I thought was so funny was some person getting that in their e mail, and actually trying to order that at Denny's. We eat there a lot and hubby gets strange looks ordering 6 eggs, meat and no bread. I can imagine their reaction if someone ordered 14. less

It would be sad if she got pregnant from doing the porno, Like she wanted another baby so she didn't take the safety precautions.... that would be a story!

MMMMMMMMF would probably be considered bukkake..

I dunno she doesn't look like other porn actresses at all.. but she is still okay. I just don't see it being a really big hit for a million bucks.. Though i'm sure they would make a few million off it.. I wonder if they just want her to do it so they could be the only ones with that type of extreme market. I dunno it could sell really well but I think if she lost a few pounds of weight it would be a bigger hit BC she could compete with the other pornos out there. I dunno if when you have a baby you get/store more body fat and she used to be thin before the babies... But screwing someone with lots of body fat makes for an unpleasant wave effect.

I think her face is hot but the body might not be competitive. The only thing she has going is that she is like a SUPER MILF i guess you'd call it. I think most guys won't enjoy it BC she is a bit overweight and that is a big issue for some guys. As for me I like some meat on the bone. Id rather watch a sorta meaty chick than an anorexic when you can see her ribs and other bones. ewwww.

We'll have to see if she does it, if she does I hope I can find part of it for free somewhere to at least see what genre it is besides milf... if it is just a single guy i would defiantly pass.. but something tells me she would probably want 1 or 2 guys if it's going to be her first porno.. If she is into it and gets 8 guys I might watch it.. I generally don't watch big studio porno so I don't even know if vivid does gangbangs. It might just turn out to be a solo/toy video which would require nothing major on her part...

If I offended anyone with my post I am sorry about the body fat stuff. Just trying to think in some other guy's shoes for now about this. I find her attractive but she is not pornstar material, which is what I thought vivid was... i'll shut up now... less

"Octomom" - The FIRST place that I saw the name was HERE. On Eden. Stupid names exist because they are catchy, and someone picks up on them. Then uses them again and again. If nobody ever paid attention then, the name would drop and go away. Anyone that isn't completely brain dead is going to be rushing to find the catchy title and the connection to needing to be an octopus to hold that many children is pretty fast.

Nadya's octuplets actually made medical history. They are the longest living octuplets in the world. They are the second only time that octuplets were ever born in the United States. The delivery was a scheduled c-section and was practiced twice. With 46 medical personnel. The eighth child was a surprise.(Assuming not everyone knows the facts.)

Don't know where she got the money for the first IVF, but the children were leftover embryos from the first IVF.

The Chukwu octuplets were born in 1998 in Texas. One of the girls died a week after birth. They actively and successfully avoided most media attention until the Suleman children's birth. In fact, one story indicated that their was a domestic abuse charge against his pregnant wife that appeared at the time the children were being named.

As for what I care about... Not Nadya. I feel extremely sorry for her and her family. I don't care if she takes the porn, she is very likely to lose those children. Between medical costs, clothing, normal health and education - I doubt that she will be able to afford it. She's already alienating her extended family. She may survive on publicity for awhile, but there is a real life attached to the world.

As for "That Weird Guy." Yes. Rude and ignorant. He is expressing his own opinion and needs to learn the consequences. However- there is a lack of tact in how it's being done. (off to start a different post...) less

"Anyone that isn't completely brain dead is going to be rushing to find the catchy title and the connection to needing to be an octopus to hold that many children is pretty fast."

The point is that just because the media does it doesn't make it right. I'm just asking you not to have the knee-jerk lizard brain response the media wants you to have so they can sell more stuff. Everyone here is better than that. less

I defiantly don't want to argue.. just stating my opinion and I believe I have a right to express that..

Was only making a simple observation

everyone makes mistakes hell we can all be assholes at some point or another... everyone in this world has done or said something they regret..

And I said I was thinking in other guys shoes for a change at the end.. I know lots of guys who I grew up with that would not date overweight people like my self it is very common practice I see it and hear about it all the time..

I do believe staying up for 20 hours last night/today and a few days before this week and also missing several doses of meds has also affected me in a negative way so i am going to apologize again..

I'm sorry I offended people im not my usual self having missed 30 hours or so of sleep this past 7 days and missed 2 or more doses of meds

I believe I was in the wrong here but I am truly sorry.. I hope everyone can forgive me

I don't think there is anything more I can do or say to convey the message that I made a mistake

Sure I'm not as mature as some people who are older than I but it comes with time and I have only had so much time and experience in this world.. we learn from our mistakes on a daily basis its the way humans learn and become more successful in everyday life

I was sexually abused as a child and have many mental disorders that have stunted my growth on a maturity level and spent many years still to this day in isolation with minimal contact with others other than my parents I haven't talked to anyone in 5 years other than my mom dad and people online and my doctors that I see every few months
so yes i am lacking in exposure to everyday situations that come up involving other people feelings and communication skills which by experience make us more mature

again im sorry less

I defiantly don't want to argue.. just stating my opinion and I believe I have a right to express that..

Was only making a simple observation

everyone makes mistakes hell we can all be assholes at some point or another... everyone in this world has done or said something they regret..

And I said I was thinking in other guys shoes for a change at the end.. I know lots of guys who I grew up with that would not date overweight people like my self it is very common practice I see it and hear about it all the time..

I do believe staying up for 20 hours last night/today and a few days before this week and also missing several doses of meds has also affected me in a negative way so i am going to apologize again..

I'm sorry I offended people im not my usual self having missed 30 hours or so of sleep this past 7 days and missed 2 or more doses of meds

I believe I was in the wrong here but I am truly sorry.. I hope everyone can forgive me

I don't think there is anything more I can do or say to convey the message that I made a mistake

Sure I'm not as mature as some people who are older than I but it comes with time and I have only had so much time and experience in this world.. we learn from our mistakes on a daily basis its the way humans learn and become more successful in everyday life

I was sexually abused as a child and have many mental disorders that have stunted my growth on a maturity level and spent many years still to this day in isolation with minimal contact with others other than my parents I haven't talked to anyone in 5 years other than my mom dad and people online and my doctors that I see every few months
so yes i am lacking in exposure to everyday situations that come up involving other people feelings and communication skills which by experience make us more mature

again im sorry less

It would be sad if she got pregnant from doing the porno, Like she wanted another baby so she didn't take the safety precautions.... that would be a story!

MMMMMMMMF would probably be considered bukkake..

I dunno she doesn't look like other porn actresses at all.. but she is still okay. I just don't see it being a really big hit for a million bucks.. Though i'm sure they would make a few million off it.. I wonder if they just want her to do it so they could be the only ones with that type of extreme market. I dunno it could sell really well but I think if she lost a few pounds of weight it would be a bigger hit BC she could compete with the other pornos out there. I dunno if when you have a baby you get/store more body fat and she used to be thin before the babies... But screwing someone with lots of body fat makes for an unpleasant wave effect.

I think her face is hot but the body might not be competitive. The only thing she has going is that she is like a SUPER MILF i guess you'd call it. I think most guys won't enjoy it BC she is a bit overweight and that is a big issue for some guys. As for me I like some meat on the bone. Id rather watch a sorta meaty chick than an anorexic when you can see her ribs and other bones. ewwww.

We'll have to see if she does it, if she does I hope I can find part of it for free somewhere to at least see what genre it is besides milf... if it is just a single guy i would defiantly pass.. but something tells me she would probably want 1 or 2 guys if it's going to be her first porno.. If she is into it and gets 8 guys I might watch it.. I generally don't watch big studio porno so I don't even know if vivid does gangbangs. It might just turn out to be a solo/toy video which would require nothing major on her part...

If I offended anyone with my post I am sorry about the body fat stuff. Just trying to think in some other guy's shoes for now about this. I find her attractive but she is not pornstar material, which is what I thought vivid was... i'll shut up now... less

"But screwing someone with lots of body fat makes for an unpleasant wave effect."

~For men in the know that would be more cushion for the pushin' Son.....

For a virgin to cast aspersions on what it would be like to screw an overweight woman is beyond presumptuous and downright silly. For your information young man having sex with an overweight woman is very pleasurable for many men and most wouldn't want those women touted as "perfect" on the porn screen.
As an over weight woman I really resent the notion that having sex with me would be unpleasant and have some sort of weird wave effect. As the lover of not just one but two men I can say without a shred of doubt that they laugh at your insensitivity and idiotic notions about good sex.

Grow up and get some experience before you offer your critiques about subjects you have no knowledge of. less

OK, so there are a lot of things wrong here. First, everyone is absolutely entitled to their opinion re: Nadya Suleyman's life choices. Does this make her fodder for public mockery? No. It's her uterus, and if you want to keep people from sticking their heads into yours, you should keep your head out of hers. The "but taxpayers will have to pay!!!!!11" isn't a valid argument: taxpayers benefit from other people's tax dollars every day. It's how society works. And taking care of these kids is a drop in the bucket compared to say, the Iraq War. It's also unclear who leaked the story, whether her IVF doctor was on the level (may not have even been her "fault"), and her financial status. Up until very recently, she had a job. There's also no indication that the previous children were maltreated at all. All of this is to say, no one here has the full story, so everyone here (and the media) should refrain from demonizing the woman (I mean, seriously, "Octomom?" So she's not even a person anymore, she's a Marvel supervillain?)

Second, the media treatment of this case is seriously problematic. If you track the coverage, initially, media outlets reporting on the story from the miracle of life angle, as if Suleyman were an anti-choicer's dream since she refused to abort any of the fetuses that implanted. Until, of course, they figured out she wasn't white, at which point they turned her into a freak show. How many major news outlets have you ever heard call Michelle Duggar insane? Or insinuate that she had Munchausen's? None. Nadya Suleyman committed the sin of not producing white Christian babies, and so the media portrays her as a freak.

But most of all, this isn't anyone's business but her own. Her body, her choice. This is the flip side of reproductive freedom, and also a good illustration of how patriarchy tries to control women: any and all of your private choices can be dragged up in public and mocked. You don't have to agree with her choices, but you do have to treat her like a human being.

And seriously, can we keep the fat-hate comments to a minimum, please? less