When you need to vent or confide in someone, who do you usually choose?

Contributor: KinkyDesire KinkyDesire
All of my vents and frustrations stem from my immediate family somehow, so I always go to my best friend... I also tend to use the internet to vent... either through my journal on a weight loss site I'm signed up to or my private blog.
07/20/2011
Contributor: CAKES CAKES
It depends on what I'm venting about, but usually I vent to one of my best friends.
07/20/2011
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
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Originally posted by CAKES
It depends on what I'm venting about, but usually I vent to one of my best friends.
Ditto

It depends on what I'm venting on. If it's personal life stuff, I talk to my girlfriend or roommies. If it's work related stuff, I try to analyze what I'm feeling and why I'm feeling that way and try to make positive adjustments. Honestly, I don't really vent about work stuff that much at all. It's usually because I didn't get the whole story or it's a point farmer/plagiarizer I have to clean up after.
07/21/2011
Contributor: southern woman southern woman
I confide in my husband.. If its something that he wouldn't understand such as female issues or something, then I usually talk to my mom. If its something deeper than that, I pray.
07/21/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
I usually vent to my partner or one of my best friends. I usually also give them a heads-up at the beginning that I just need to vent.
07/21/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by js250
I was recently told that I was wrong in how I chose who to talk to or vent with by a friend of mine. I was just wondering if there was a normal or right way to choose and appreciate your help.
I almost 100% choose one or both of the guys...they are my best friends and really care about what is bugging me or conversely what is making me happy. I might choose someone from EF if the subject comes up but I will still talk with the guys later.
07/21/2011
Contributor: sbon sbon
It really depends on what I want to vent about, but I find myself venting the most to my boyfriend or my coworkers.
07/21/2011
Contributor: playtimeohsofun playtimeohsofun
my sister or mother in law
07/21/2011
Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
I usually vent to my husband, sometimes to a close friend. If it's a friend, I usually warn them that I just need to vent about something and ask if they mind if I vent with them.

Every once in a while, not very often, really, I'll just explode and then anyone who is near may have to duck shrapnel.
07/21/2011
Contributor: Avant-garde Avant-garde
I choose a close family member of friend.
07/21/2011
Contributor: lanky lanky
my wife
07/21/2011
Contributor: phunkyphreak phunkyphreak
My hubby and a close friend
07/23/2011
Contributor: amazon amazon
Isn't that what friends and family are for?
06/25/2012
Contributor: hotcherry hotcherry
My mother
06/25/2012
Contributor: Allstars316 Allstars316
I talk to my friends. They seem to put me in a better mood.
06/26/2012
Contributor: s3 s3
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
I was recently told that I was wrong in how I chose who to talk to or vent with by a friend of mine. I was just wondering if there was a normal or right way to choose and appreciate your help.
I try not to vent to anyone besides my husband. It creates so much drama
06/26/2012
Contributor: duff duff
My hub or sis
09/01/2012
Contributor: kitty1949 kitty1949
My mom or my best friends.
09/01/2012
Contributor: Willowe Willowe
I have a few blogs I usually vent on first. I also have two close friends that are always great about listening to me if I need to rant or need advice or whatever.
09/01/2012
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
My husband. If I can't talk to him, who can I talk to?
09/01/2012