New Apartment: New Life: Things Needed

Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
a cheap bottle of wine to celebrate as for advice try not to piss each other off to much living w/ someone is hard no body is perfect, be patient, for give and forget, keep equal chores finances ect. like all relationships you will eventually have some conflict and the "first fight" don't give up easily on the friendship...i've seen many relationships fall apart when I was in college when friends or couples moved in together, like all relationships roommates/friendships need to be constantly. worked on... having a friend as a roommate is a lot like having a girlfriend (without the fun part of sex) so if you really want it to work long term be prepared to love, fight, make up and love more

also make sure you have an ok diet...a few of my friends tried to save money by eating only bread, pasta and water...they were super broke like eviction process broke. You will become malnutritioned and can get sick make sure you eat healthy at least once in a while(even if it means going home or to a church, shelter...)
02/04/2011
Contributor: DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
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Originally posted by kawigrl
a cheap bottle of wine to celebrate as for advice try not to piss each other off to much living w/ someone is hard no body is perfect, be patient, for give and forget, keep equal chores finances ect. like all relationships you will eventually have ... more
If it gets rough, you should eat oranges to prevent scurvy and peanuts for protein with saltines to fill in the gaps.
02/04/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Ugh, too much estrogen.
I'm so teary thinking of leaving and starting a new life.
I'll miss my older sister and I'll miss my nieces and nephews.
I'm so scared what if my parents are right and I do fail...
I should be packing..
02/04/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
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Originally posted by Illusional
Ugh, too much estrogen.
I'm so teary thinking of leaving and starting a new life.
I'll miss my older sister and I'll miss my nieces and nephews.
I'm so scared what if my parents are right and I do fail...
I should be packing..
It won't make you feel any better, but you're feeling right now what you're supposed to be feeling. But you can't succeed if you don't try.

Stay strong.
02/04/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
I guess as long as it's normal. I wish it'd stop though. I wish I could just be excited about a new life.
02/04/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
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Originally posted by Illusional
I guess as long as it's normal. I wish it'd stop though. I wish I could just be excited about a new life.
You'll be fine. I hate to say it, but it will actually get even harder until you actually leave for good, but not long after you'll start looking ahead instead of behind. Leaving a comfortable situation is very hard, but you'd rue it if you didn't try.
02/04/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Yeah, it'll be fine as soon as I get settled in...it'll take some time.
02/04/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
As soon as I can get a internet card or something, I'll feel better.
02/04/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
About to head off to the airport.
02/04/2011
Contributor: Darling Jen Darling Jen
Have a safe and happy trip!!!
02/04/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Be safe and good luck!
02/04/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Thanks, trying to settle in... it's a little difficult.
02/05/2011
Contributor: *HisMrs* *HisMrs*
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Originally posted by Illusional
Thanks, trying to settle in... it's a little difficult.
Glad you made it safely!
02/05/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Thank you.
02/06/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
School is going well. I still miss home, and it's still kinda hard.
02/10/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Freecycle so doesn't like me, lol.
02/24/2011