I feel a bit silly posting this thread now. I mean I'm 23 and it's not hard to figure out how to solve this problem. I think I just satisfaction in ranting and raving. My dad is a great guy its just well sometimes he was an anger problem when he doesn't like something. We all have alot of things to deal in life maybe it caught him off guard and the way he went on about it wasn't right either... After a few hours he was nice as can be actually. I need to be more responsible in keeping my bedroom clean so he doesnt' find those things..I need to keep them all locked up as well from miss placing something and have my dad see,my sister's eyes,the cat dragging something out,and even just to be prepared for unexpected guests or events! less

You're an adult. Your name is on the packages. This means that it's a felony to tamper with your mail or keep it from you. Ask him if he knows that opening mail with your name on it is a federal offense. It doesn't matter if you're living in his house - it's still illegal. You could actually file a complaint, if you wanted, and he could be fined. With repeated offenses, mail tampering can be punished with jail time (though it isn't usually).



See if a friend nearby will let you have your orders sent to their address, perhaps? less

I'm sorry to hear that!



The military does wonders for a lot of people and their careers. I don't think it's right for me personally, but I think it provides a lot of great opportunities, training, scholarships, and experience (not to mention health insurance and citizenship!) for many good people. Of course, it's a decision to think about for a long time, not a decision to make because you need somewhere to go because your dad found your EF package (in this case). less

I told him meat was coming and yesterday I told him and showed it to him and for some reason he thought it was meat again? WTF anyway he opened my package and I got holy hell! He threatened to kick me out on the street even. He even said next time it came in he would throw it in the garbage..So that means he will be opening my mail again. I was quite uncomfortable when he took the paddle out and said wtf do you need a paddle for me? My mom calledl hi cellphone for me and he would let me take it to my room and talk to her because I ordered sex toys? WTF IS THAT SHIT? I can barely get ahold of my mother let alone see her on top of that not enough sleep and I"m on my period and my ibs is terrible today. I know he went through the whole package. He even asked why I bought more rubbers because I "have them all over my room" which I don't Ya a coulpe were laying about. I'm pretty upset and feeling sick to my gut don't help either. less

man i hate to hear that , I hope your tummy gets better i know how that can be having the ibs , its not fun . Hopefully your dad chills out over the sex toys, if you ever need to vent, I'm here to make your tummy and your worries go away.... or at least i will try! no one needs to be having a bad day!.... you'll have to tell me how that paddle works also I've been wanting to get one! but didn't know if i wanted a flogger or a paddle? less

I got distressed heart spank her. While I haven't had my bf use it on me..Well I tried it on myself it is awsome!







Well now that he opened my mail its like he's uncomfortable with my boyfriend coming over. He was like when he picks you up at 11 on wensday is he dropping you off and leaving or is he coming inside. I get the feeling there will be alot of interuptions with him perhaps evesdroping outside my door or knocking. My dad is very nosy.Perhaps not..It may take a long time before he forgets about it.He probly won't. It's his own fault for opening the box. I had him open an ebay package that was obviously a dvd because he thought it could be porn. My mail probly freaked him out. He probly thought it was my boyfriend's idea. It doesn't help my dad thinks my boyfriend just comes over to have sex. Between my ibs and our conflicting work schedules(which is because he lives an hour out of town I get off at 11 and he gets off at 7 to go home most of the time)ya it's all pretty awkward. From now on I will lock everything up good and make REALLY sure I don't even have 1 single unopened condom packet laying around he even commented on that. less

I'm an Army veteran, that's why I'm recommending the Navy to my son.



There was a conference in France where a number of international engineers were taking part, including French and American. During a break, one of the French engineers came back into the room saying "Have you heard the latest dumb stunt Bush has done? He has sent an aircraft carrier to Indonesia to help the tsunami victims. What does he intended to do, bomb them?"

A Boeing engineer stood up and replied quietly: Our carriers have three hospitals on board that can treat several hundred people; they are nuclear powered and can supply emergency electrical power to shore facilities; they have three cafeterias with the capacity to feed 3,000 people three meals a day, they can produce several thousand gallons of fresh water from sea water each day, and they carry half a dozen helicopters for use in transporting victims and injured to and from their flight deck.

We have eleven such ships; how many does France have?

America's Navy - A Global Force For Good! less

My dad found a joint in his step-son's yearbook. At dinner that evening, right before his baseball game, my father looked him dead in the eye and said you have two choices: move out or join the Navy. His step-son enlisted the next day and has turned into an amazing human being with a lot of skills and determination.



It's a tough road but it's one I believe is really beneficial to certain personality types. I have often thought it would be a good idea to sentence petty criminals and offenders convicted of non-violent crimes to commit to two years enlisted. Supposedly, most of those people want to be involved in a close-knit group of people and there are no closer set of people than members and veterans of the military. I grew up in a military family of sorts. My grandfather retired from the Air Force and my father was in the Navy briefly in his early 20's.



I always support going into the military if there is no other viable option available. There are many different careers and fields to go into from there, interesting ones at that. less

I got distressed heart spank her. While I haven't had my bf use it on me..Well I tried it on myself it is awsome!







Well now that he opened my mail its like he's uncomfortable with my boyfriend coming over. He was like when he picks you up at 11 on wensday is he dropping you off and leaving or is he coming inside. I get the feeling there will be alot of interuptions with him perhaps evesdroping outside my door or knocking. My dad is very nosy.Perhaps not..It may take a long time before he forgets about it.He probly won't. It's his own fault for opening the box. I had him open an ebay package that was obviously a dvd because he thought it could be porn. My mail probly freaked him out. He probly thought it was my boyfriend's idea. It doesn't help my dad thinks my boyfriend just comes over to have sex. Between my ibs and our conflicting work schedules(which is because he lives an hour out of town I get off at 11 and he gets off at 7 to go home most of the time)ya it's all pretty awkward. From now on I will lock everything up good and make REALLY sure I don't even have 1 single unopened condom packet laying around he even commented on that. less