Is Bad Sex Better Than No Sex?

Contributor: Kirill1171 Kirill1171
I'd rather go without sex than have really bad sex.
02/28/2013
Contributor: Love the look Love the look
Bad sex is a waste of time. Just do it yourself!
02/28/2013
Contributor: MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
I'd rather go without.
02/28/2013
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
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Originally posted by Chastity Darling
No sex is definitely better than bad sex... besides I'm the best sex I've ever had
Lol good answer.

I agree I'd rather go without than have horrible sex. I don't even mean I don't cum..I mean one or both of us aren't into it, feel like we "have" to kinda thing. That's not fun for anyone.
02/28/2013
Contributor: The Vixen The Vixen
Tough question... I've had some pretty bad sex and it can just be so frustrating and can put you in a total funk. If it's just going to make you feel worse than what's the point, right?
I think I would rather go without.
02/28/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I had a bad sex partner & I never wanted sex w/ him cuz of that.
02/28/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
I haven't had bad sex since before my man came into my life...not sure if I even remember what bad sex is like, I must be a lucky girl!
02/28/2013
Contributor: Bleu Bleu
No sex.
02/28/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
I voted for no sex, but of course, I'd still have sex - it would simply be of the auto-erotic variety!

I've had sex with two different people who were hopeless in the sack. No energy, no imagination - didn't even seem to take pleasure. It was just like, "OK, I'm ready. Let's get it over with. Go ahead and do your thing." (heavy sigh)

Even back then, I opted for masturbation over a second round with them. And that was before I discovered Fleshlights.
02/28/2013
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
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Originally posted by DigitalSweety
I've heard some friends claim that bad sex is better than no sex, but at this point in my life I just can't tolerate bad sex. I don't mean "our relationship is in a lull and we're in a rut" sex, I mean straight up terrible ... more
I'd rather go without sex than have really bad sex.
02/28/2013
Contributor: VeganChick (is Gone) VeganChick (is Gone)
Depends on how bad it is. I don't think I've ever had sex I could label as bad so it's really hard for me to imagine.
02/28/2013
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
I'd rather just cuddle than have bad sex, but if I have to have bad sex to get to the cuddling then that's a compromise I'm willing to make.
02/28/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
There is no excuse for really bad sex - you can teach your partner how to improve their performance.
03/01/2013
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
not neccessarily, I love my toys if It's going to be bad, I will take toys.
03/01/2013
Contributor: butts butts
I'd rather have no sex than bad sex... we haven't had a lot of bad sex but dang, that's way more dissatisfying than just getting yourself off, it often ends in frustration and/or soreness :/
03/01/2013
Contributor: sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
I think they suck equally. I can't decide. Though, I guess deep down I feel like bad sex might be a little worse, because I'm putting off having casual sex until I can see my bf again this summer for good sex, so I must prefer no sex to bad sex to some degree.
03/01/2013
Contributor: LoganAshlee. LoganAshlee.
Bad sex is not worth the energy
03/01/2013
Contributor: TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
Since I'm married, I'm with the guy whether it's good, great, or terrible. Terrible meaning, it's been a long time and he gets off way before I do. He feels bad, but I tell him the truth. I love watching him get off, and I'll get mine, next time. Then when he's asleep, I get out my toy, and finish the job.

When I was single, I would have passed up on terrible sex. Ugh. They do make funny stories though. Still, I wish I could have seen the future and passed. Passed on The Heavy Sweater, The Dead Weight, The Talker, The Limp Dick Wonder... Eesh. I never had bad sex with a woman though. Always great.
03/01/2013
Contributor: tami tami
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Originally posted by DigitalSweety
I've heard some friends claim that bad sex is better than no sex, but at this point in my life I just can't tolerate bad sex. I don't mean "our relationship is in a lull and we're in a rut" sex, I mean straight up terrible ... more
no sex is better than bad sex
03/01/2013
Contributor: big b big b
yes
03/01/2013
Contributor: sexynola sexynola
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Originally posted by DigitalSweety
I've heard some friends claim that bad sex is better than no sex, but at this point in my life I just can't tolerate bad sex. I don't mean "our relationship is in a lull and we're in a rut" sex, I mean straight up terrible ... more
had bad sex, and regret having it. would have rathered just gotten off myself
03/04/2013
Contributor: elli elli
Depends on if it's with someone I care about. Bad sex with a stranger is worse than no sex for me.
03/04/2013
Contributor: bog bog
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Originally posted by DigitalSweety
I've heard some friends claim that bad sex is better than no sex, but at this point in my life I just can't tolerate bad sex. I don't mean "our relationship is in a lull and we're in a rut" sex, I mean straight up terrible ... more
I hope all the worst sex of my life is behind me. I hate bad sex! I'd rather go without.
03/04/2013