If someone compliments you as a comment on a review, does it make you uncomfortable?

Contributor: falalena falalena
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Originally posted by KinkyKatieJames
I'm asking because I have told someone that they are pretty or that a certain outfit looks good on them (nothing more detailed). A friend recently pointed out that it may make some people uncomfortable. So, I wanted to gauge your opinions!
Maybe this means if you post pictures of yourself using the toy or lingerie? Not sure, but I feel if you are posting stuff as that you would like compliments so go ahead.
05/14/2013
Contributor: Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
I think it is sad if people get offended by basic compliments - you look great - that looks good on you - great outfit ... Don't put a picture on there or do a review if you don't want compliments. I mean a compliment is much better than an insult.

We are too caught up in not offending anyone that we choose not to bring people up for fear someone MIGHT get offended. I have seen several reviews where the person posts a picture and then says how bad they think they look. In reality, they look great and need to hear that. The Dove commercial comes to mind where the women describe themselves in negative terms and the other person describes them in positive terms. Seeing how other people view you is always a good reminder that what we think we see in the mirror is not always accurate.

If someone is going beyond that and makes over the line comments - "You look so good, I want to eat you" "You can wear that outfit in my bed anytime" then that is just disrespectful unless you know the person and know they will not be offended.

Also if you are offended, send a message to that person or to the admin. Most people are trying to be complimentary or playful. Letting them know they were over the line generally takes care of it.

Personally, I read a lot of reviews and I have never seen anything but respectful comments on reviews.
05/30/2013