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Contributor: ViVix ViVix
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Originally posted by ViVix
What kind of sex materials get people convicted? I guess I'm a bit uneducated in that area...even as a Criminal Justice major.
Oh...just read all the minor comments. If that were the case, I'd run. I'm a single mom, and I'm always paranoid about creeps.
01/24/2013
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
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I would have a lot of questions, and what I would do would depend on the answer. Like many people have said, if it was a 15 year old sending him nudie photos to get off to when he was 18 I would be a lot less worried than if it was ... Inappropriate photos of a young kid or someone raping a dog or something. Stupid teenagers make stupid mistakes, but the other things would be a cause for a huge re-think of the relationship.
01/24/2013
Contributor: HarlequinBunnie HarlequinBunnie
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Originally posted by CaseyDeuce
If you had relations, casual or more, with someone and found out that more than 5 years ago, they were convicted of possessing inappropriate sexual materials, would you still be able to or want to have relations with that person?
It would depend on what the inappropriate sexual materials were. Anything involving minors is not okay with me so a relationship of any kind would be a no go.
01/24/2013
Contributor: CaseyDeuce CaseyDeuce
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Originally posted by HarlequinBunnie
It would depend on what the inappropriate sexual materials were. Anything involving minors is not okay with me so a relationship of any kind would be a no go.
EF has asked to not put the child word and the p-word next to each other when responding.
01/25/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by CaseyDeuce
Lets say it was materials sent via text from someone under the age of 16. (Still hypothetical.)

Personally, I know what kind of a kid I was, and if I had a camera-phone at the age of 15, I'm sure I would have been one of those kids who ... more
Still have to say the same as I said above. Minor is minor. I was a kid that was also a teenager when what happened to me happened. Didn't make it any less of a horrid act on his part just because I'd crossed over into my teen years. HE is wrong. No way is the kid wrong. Not even!
01/25/2013
Contributor: ARPKasso ARPKasso
It depends on a lot of factors, so its a big maybe.
01/25/2013
Contributor: laflauta laflauta
It would definitely depend on what it was. I couldn't excuse any explicit materials involving minors or non-consenting parties. If it was something where everyone involved was (legally) consenting, even if the material in itself wasn't necessarily legal, I would be willing to consider it.
01/25/2013
Contributor: Big&Bald Big&Bald
Hell NO.
01/25/2013
Contributor: LoooveMonkey LoooveMonkey
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Originally posted by Ryuson
I would have a lot of questions, and what I would do would depend on the answer. Like many people have said, if it was a 15 year old sending him nudie photos to get off to when he was 18 I would be a lot less worried than if it was ... Inappropriate ... more
I agree with Ryuson.
01/25/2013
Contributor: Real or memorex Real or memorex
Other: if this question is about an adult with that material, then yes, a conviction for possession would send me running the other way.
01/25/2013
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by CaseyDeuce
If you had relations, casual or more, with someone and found out that more than 5 years ago, they were convicted of possessing inappropriate sexual materials, would you still be able to or want to have relations with that person?
No, definitely not.
01/26/2013
Contributor: misterazor misterazor
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Originally posted by CaseyDeuce
If you had relations, casual or more, with someone and found out that more than 5 years ago, they were convicted of possessing inappropriate sexual materials, would you still be able to or want to have relations with that person?
maybe. it depends on the crime. if it involved child porn, it's over. if it was...i can't think of another example. it just depends on the details. how does this newly learned info make you feel about the person?
01/26/2013
Contributor: chameleon-girl chameleon-girl
Nope.
01/26/2013
Contributor: ♥myseximan ♥myseximan
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Originally posted by CaseyDeuce
If you had relations, casual or more, with someone and found out that more than 5 years ago, they were convicted of possessing inappropriate sexual materials, would you still be able to or want to have relations with that person?
To be convicted means that there is a strong possibility that it was true and beyond innapropriate.
01/26/2013
Contributor: GONE! GONE!
Uhhhh no. Not if it involved kids and even if it involved teens I would still be creeped out.
A while back I was interested in a guy who I ended up catching breaking rules on a site when it comes to contacting minors. He was leaving inappropriate comments on their photos. Now, this site shouldn't have let thirteen-year-olds put up lascivious photos in the first place but still it grossed me out and I reported him even though I liked him.
If I would do that for something that minor, I can't see myself being buddies with someone who did anything more serious.
Now, if it was just some ridiculous obscenity crime? I dunno.
01/26/2013