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Contributor: Innocence Is Bliss Innocence Is Bliss
On average, how high would you say your sex drive is?

If you're in a relationship, who has the higher sex drive--you or your partner?
06/05/2015
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Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by Innocence Is Bliss
On average, how high would you say your sex drive is?

If you're in a relationship, who has the higher sex drive--you or your partner?
I would say on the high side. I could easily enjoy some form of sex every day if my husband and our schedules would cooperate. You can see who is lagging a little behind in the "Let's Get It On" mojo. I think we flipped roles lol. I'm the guy saying, "come on, baby" and he's the woman saying, "ugh, I'm too tired tonight". (Eye roll) We make up for it on the weekends though so it's ok.
06/05/2015
Contributor: Secret Pleasure Secret Pleasure
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Originally posted by Innocence Is Bliss
On average, how high would you say your sex drive is?

If you're in a relationship, who has the higher sex drive--you or your partner?
Mine is extremely high most guys can not keep up
06/06/2015
Contributor: js250 js250
My sex drive is pretty revved up, I would say it is definitely higher than normal. In my current relationship I have the higher sex drive. It doesn't bother me--everyone is different and I am used to having the higher drive after so many years of living with it.
06/08/2015
Contributor: Amber1319 Amber1319
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Originally posted by Innocence Is Bliss
On average, how high would you say your sex drive is?

If you're in a relationship, who has the higher sex drive--you or your partner?
Not very high at all, my partners is definitely more.
06/08/2015
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
All my life my sex drive has been very high. Having a high sex drive sounds great but in reality it isn't always. I've been in quite a few relationships and have always been the one with the higher drive.
I'm not going to push my partner to have sex when she really doesn't want to, so I'm left taking matters in my own hands LOL!
06/08/2015
Contributor: unoriginalgirlyid unoriginalgirlyid
My sex drive is now and has always been high and always higher than anyone I have been in a relationship with. Not sure why exactly, but I wont complain.
06/09/2015
Contributor: LovesAPoet LovesAPoet
I would say mine is pretty high. It's certainly higher than my partners. I'm a couple of times a day- he's more like a few times a week. But he rarely says no when I ask so it works out alright, no complaints.
06/11/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
It depends. When I'm lifting weights its about once every other day. When I'm not lifting it's about 2 or 3x a week. I would imagine that is about normal, but, I don't really know.
06/11/2015
Contributor: symbiasin symbiasin
I would say that mine is definitly very high...only one guy could kind of keep up with me.
06/11/2015
Contributor: Chey Chey
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Originally posted by Innocence Is Bliss
On average, how high would you say your sex drive is?

If you're in a relationship, who has the higher sex drive--you or your partner?
I get bitchy if I haven't after 2/3 days.
06/12/2015
Contributor: CuriousJ CuriousJ
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
It depends. When I'm lifting weights its about once every other day. When I'm not lifting it's about 2 or 3x a week. I would imagine that is about normal, but, I don't really know.
Heh, geez Inq, its like your in my head! Same here, and i think its true for most guys. If you exercise regularly, especially lifting weights, it revs up our testosterone, which usually increases our sex drive.

Random side note
Squatting is the best damn thing you can do if you are a guy. Not only does it improve your test/hormone output/mood, it makes you strong and gives you an edge in bed (dat hip/glute control). Of course women who squat are damn sexy too
06/12/2015
Contributor: Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by Innocence Is Bliss
On average, how high would you say your sex drive is?

If you're in a relationship, who has the higher sex drive--you or your partner?
i think my sex drive can either match or beat any guys, so I'd have to say very high.
06/12/2015
Contributor: Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by Vnessa
I would say on the high side. I could easily enjoy some form of sex every day if my husband and our schedules would cooperate. You can see who is lagging a little behind in the "Let's Get It On" mojo. I think we flipped roles lol. ... more
Too tired for it? While I can't say I haven't heard this excuse from others, I don't think being tired could prevent me from doing something quick at least. Once I knew he wants to do something, I seem to suddenly want things even more.
06/12/2015
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by CuriousJ
Heh, geez Inq, its like your in my head! Same here, and i think its true for most guys. If you exercise regularly, especially lifting weights, it revs up our testosterone, which usually increases our sex drive.

Random side note
... more
Agreed !
06/12/2015
Contributor: Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by Lvstoplay
Too tired for it? While I can't say I haven't heard this excuse from others, I don't think being tired could prevent me from doing something quick at least. Once I knew he wants to do something, I seem to suddenly want things even more.
He's up at 5:30 every day working out , goes straight in to a very physical job and doesn't get off until 6, and then he's training athletes 3x a week after he gets off work lol (there's a little bit of kids soccer thrown in for good measure also). So, yeah, he is sometimes tired during the week
06/12/2015
Contributor: KookyLover KookyLover
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Originally posted by Innocence Is Bliss
On average, how high would you say your sex drive is?

If you're in a relationship, who has the higher sex drive--you or your partner?
I have a low sex drive. I find actual sex pretty icky- that isn't to say I don't like solo play! I probably get horny maybe once every 3 days or so, masturbate for 20 minutes, and I'm good to go for another 3 days! If I don't orgasm though, I'll get horny again after a few hours.
07/05/2015
Contributor: heather-mooney heather-mooney
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Originally posted by Innocence Is Bliss
On average, how high would you say your sex drive is?

If you're in a relationship, who has the higher sex drive--you or your partner?
definitely me.
09/25/2015
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Vnessa
He's up at 5:30 every day working out , goes straight in to a very physical job and doesn't get off until 6, and then he's training athletes 3x a week after he gets off work lol (there's a little bit of kids soccer thrown in for ... more
I suggest you just give him a massage after dinner since he is pooped.(hope I spelled that correctly ) Even if he fell asleep.
First a nice muscle relaxing massage, then a sensual one. I know u have candles and massage oil. Oh don't forget to tie him up.

Then it's time to massage his you know what. With oil or lube /hand or a male aid found in the M_ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ __ section of EF.

At least then you will get some jollies taking care of him. By the wkend, he should be more than ready for you. And I know them guys in brown don't work wkends !
09/25/2015
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I have always had a high sex drive - but mine has ebbed a little and my wife's is actually increased - so we're closer to even than we've ever been before.

Thank god for the toys that I can use when I'm not UP for the job!
09/25/2015
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
I think I have a sex drive that is happy to wait to be unleashed.

I'm happy to be a monk when I'm working or I can be as randy as when I'm not got something else that needs to occupy my time and mental faculties.
09/26/2015
Contributor: Andykh Andykh
I'd have to say my sex drive is very high and my wife and i probably have the same amount of sex drive
09/26/2015
Contributor: Andykh Andykh
I'd have to say my sex drive is very high and my wife and i probably have the same amount of sex drive
09/26/2015
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by Andykh
I'd have to say my sex drive is very high and my wife and i probably have the same amount of sex drive
Congrats AndyKH!
I have seldom had a partner with the same appetite for carnal activities as I do. When I did there were other factors that precluded staying together. So know that you won the lottery with her.
09/28/2015
Contributor: Chey Chey
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Originally posted by Innocence Is Bliss
On average, how high would you say your sex drive is?

If you're in a relationship, who has the higher sex drive--you or your partner?
Med/high. I've noticed that If I don't get after about 3 days, I am bitchy. Lol
01/06/2016
Contributor: Cherry21 Cherry21
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Originally posted by Innocence Is Bliss
On average, how high would you say your sex drive is?

If you're in a relationship, who has the higher sex drive--you or your partner?
Def me. Im.always asking for it, ha.
02/13/2016
Contributor: Honey2Sweet469 Honey2Sweet469
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Originally posted by Innocence Is Bliss
On average, how high would you say your sex drive is?

If you're in a relationship, who has the higher sex drive--you or your partner?
I would have to say our sex drives are about the same. I think there has only been maybe 2 times in our whole relationship that we were just not really into it but we bounced right back into the groove of things fairly quickly after communicating with one another how we noticed the slight imbalance. She's more of the aggressive type with me but usually with our playmates I am the aggressor.
09/27/2020
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
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Originally posted by Innocence Is Bliss
On average, how high would you say your sex drive is?

If you're in a relationship, who has the higher sex drive--you or your partner?
My sex drive is VERY high. I would have the higher sex drive in the relationship. On average we have sex 2-3 times a week.

I could have sex daily, 2-3 times a day, but my husband is never up for it!
09/29/2020
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by frisky069
My sex drive is VERY high. I would have the higher sex drive in the relationship. On average we have sex 2-3 times a week.

I could have sex daily, 2-3 times a day, but my husband is never up for it!
Same here, even now in my sixties my sex drive is barely if any reduced from when I was a horny teenager. I love my spouse and would not stray but not having a matched drive is a source of frustration for me.
09/29/2020
Contributor: CuriousFun CuriousFun
I guess I'd classify my sex drive as sort of medium-high, but it varies. I've been single for some years now, so these days it's just me and my toys, but I typically like to masturbate once a day, or at the very least multiple times a week. However, sometimes I go through periods of days, weeks, or even months where I feel perfectly happy going without anything sexual at all. On the flip side, sometimes I go through periods where I feel the need to get off 2-3 or more times a day.

In the past, I went through a period of a couple years where I had essentially no sex drive at all, but that was due to a medication I was taking. Since ceasing that medication, I've never been through a period of sexlessness that lasted so long.

I'm not sure what causes the other fluctuations in my sex drive. Could be related to hormones or stress level, or some combination of both.
09/29/2020