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Thanks darling. That is encouraging. Unfortunately, even my mom won't stand up to her. She never did. Even while we were kids. My dad has and still does when things get extreme, which is kind of often, but she's... ruthless? I mean really, I've never in my life met anyone who truly is this heartless. I do wish my family would just give me a little support with this one, but there's not a chance. If there ever was a chance, it'd have happened when she ruined a $1,000 lap-top that my partner bought me as a gift. So after that incident, I totally gave up hopes of them just giving me a tiny ounce of support with these things.
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Wow! I'm sorry this is happening to you. If someone in my family was doing this to me, I would never be around them...ever. I would discuss with everyone in my family what she was doing to me and that is why I avoid her like the plague. I can
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Wow! I'm sorry this is happening to you. If someone in my family was doing this to me, I would never be around them...ever. I would discuss with everyone in my family what she was doing to me and that is why I avoid her like the plague. I can avoid anyone in my family if I have to, as I have done it in the past. I'm not sure if pressure on her from other family members would help, but at least they would know you aren't the bad guy in this situation. It is just disrespectful on her part and she sounds very immature.
Because I know, for example, if my sister was doing this to me, my mom would straight up tell her she couldn't come around if she was trying to start drama and wasn't going to respect me and other family members. less
Because I know, for example, if my sister was doing this to me, my mom would straight up tell her she couldn't come around if she was trying to start drama and wasn't going to respect me and other family members. less
Now, I do have an older sister who actually has supported me a good deal when these problems arise with this person, but she's not exactly been around me or my family much lately. She's doing her "alone time." Sounds like it may be something I should try.
I believe I will go over and talk with at least my mom and dad tomorrow and let them know that I am upset about it and won't be coming around until she isn't. I at least owe them an explanation I guess.
Butts: Thanks and LOL @ your screenname. I actually didn't know this would be something you could file as harrassment, but I appreciate you guys letting me know. I might just tell her that I'll file charges and see if that scares her. She is certainly in NO position to deal with the law right now... Really. So it might just be a good solution. I know just threatening it and telling her that it is against the law--her crazy actions--and she'll piss herself.