No - i've never taken a cheater back because as far as I know I haven't ever been cheated on.

Would I take a cheater back? No.

In my book, no matter what issues exist in a relationship, infidelity is never an acceptable way of "acting out".

nope.. i hold grudges & id never stop bringing it up..

Am I the only one who doesn't think that, in some circumstances, infidelity is not the absolute worst thing in the world that someone could do? I mean, I would be upset, and I cannot say for certain that I would get over it completely...but, I don't know. I think relationships are challenging and sometimes, people make mistakes. I guess I view affairs as of symptoms of a relationship that's dying, not the cause. But maybe it could be a wake up call too, and is perhaps salvageable. It would depend on how much the person meant to me, I guess. Like, if you were married for years, had kids, a life together, etc.

I'd never forgive a cheater

nope

I wouldn't take them back.

It really depends on the circumstances, but I most likely would forgive them but not take them back.