Ever had a stalker?

Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
Yup not a fan of them
12/23/2011
Contributor: GeekWife GeekWife
A buddy's roommate in college. He changed his schedule after he found out what building one of my classes was in just so he could see me every day before class. Same guy was later kicked out of the university for file-sharing porn on the school's network. Creep.
12/23/2011
Contributor: Highmaintenancegirl916 Highmaintenancegirl916
Never..least not that i know of.
12/24/2011
Contributor: Cherrylane Cherrylane
So update on mine.

He hadn't contacted me for several months and I thought it'd been taken care of until a little over a week ago when he contacted me again, which is when I went ahead and called the police.

I got a new cell phone for christmas and opted to hook it up with a new number to make it harder for him to contact me. After explaining the whole thing to my mother and the rest of my family, they got a family friend/private detective on the guy and found out he had a whole laundry list of arrests and charges ranging from drug counts to domestic violence, stalking, assault, kidnapping and some such thing with stolen property. Then we found out he lived about two streets away from me. Due to how we met, we also knew he knew where I lived.

So basically it took about one day for the entire family to decide my booty needed to move and we were able to find an adorable new apartment in a nice quiet part of town the next day. As of now, all is well. Moving in a few days.
01/01/2012
Contributor: kittyloveswahwah kittyloveswahwah
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
About 23 years ago. I was a bartender and a particular customer that I was polite to (DUH!) decided he was totally in love with me. Followed me everywhere, etc. I moved to a friend's house and about three months later, he had killed another girl ... more
Woah... That sounds terrifying.
08/27/2012
Contributor: Allstars316 Allstars316
No one is stalking me. I'm glad you called the police. Yes get a restraining order. It is good for 2 years and don't need to worry about it too much.
08/27/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
A few. I'd rather not talk about it.
08/27/2012
Contributor: MK434 MK434
No, I'v never had to deal with that.
08/27/2012
Contributor: Nora29714 Nora29714
My Husband and I own a shop this man has come in there and bought things a few times. Well I signed on to FB and he sent me a message that said "I know you from somewhere. Or some dream. Which one?? Or is it wishful thinking. Lol. Beautiful!!" I didn't reply I just ignored him Then he says "Are you Joe's sister?!" So I wrote back and said no i'm his wife. and he said "Dam, Well ok."
08/27/2012
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
Quote:
Originally posted by Cherrylane
I'm dealing with a bit of a situation myself... Finally called the police for the first time tonight.

What about you?

What kind of stalking was going on?

Stalking is usually defined as repeatedly following, watching or ... more
Yes, my ex bf, even before we broke up, would stalk me. He would sit down the street from my house and watch to see who would come over. He would hack my work email to see who I was talking/emailing, and he would check my text messages if he was over and I was asleep or in the shower. After 11 yrs, I finally left for good. Problem solved.
08/27/2012
Contributor: wwwww wwwww
Quote:
Originally posted by Cherrylane
I'm dealing with a bit of a situation myself... Finally called the police for the first time tonight.

What about you?

What kind of stalking was going on?

Stalking is usually defined as repeatedly following, watching or ... more
Nope
08/27/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Cherrylane
I'm dealing with a bit of a situation myself... Finally called the police for the first time tonight.

What about you?

What kind of stalking was going on?

Stalking is usually defined as repeatedly following, watching or ... more
No I've never had a stalker
08/27/2012
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
Unfortunately yep, they made our lives miserable for awhile. She finally backed off and we haven't heard from them in a few years.
08/27/2012
Contributor: cricket cricket
Yeah its really hard to prove it though
08/27/2012
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
No I've never had a stalker
08/27/2012
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
No I haven't.
08/28/2012
Contributor: LadyDarknezz LadyDarknezz
Yes, my ex boyfriend and it was a nightmarish experience...
08/28/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Not stalkers so much as just men who harrass me and don't get the point that I'm done with them. My coworker had one, a stranger around the block that tried to break into her window while she was sleeping, he's in jail now
08/28/2012
Contributor: heather-mooney heather-mooney
Quote:
Originally posted by Cherrylane
So update on mine.

He hadn't contacted me for several months and I thought it'd been taken care of until a little over a week ago when he contacted me again, which is when I went ahead and called the police.

I got a new cell ... more
What a pain! But I'm so glad you're okay!
08/28/2012
Contributor: panthercat23 panthercat23
An ex-boyfriend was stalking me in college. Though since campus was so small I couldn't get a restraining order against him, though campus security did step in.
08/28/2012
Contributor: Mrs.Intensity Mrs.Intensity
Hmmm.... it creeps me out just thinking of the possibilities. I have wondered about it, but decided it was my own anxiety. I guess I could still be wrong and the person could have just been really good lol.
08/28/2012
Contributor: LaSchwartz LaSchwartz
I have never had a stalker but my first year in collage a had a man harass me but he would not follow me but I still felt scared when he was near me . Well he did look for me everyday until I told him to back off. but he took the hint so not a total stalker just creepy.
08/28/2012
Contributor: ghent529 ghent529
creepy exs...
08/28/2012
Contributor: Billie Bones Billie Bones
There's this guy who lives in my apartment complex who seems to always know when I'm at the pool...even at four in the morning. When he came up to me and handed me a dress that he bought me I knew that it was waaayyy more than just coincidence. I handed the dress back and told him to stop being a creeper. He found me at the pool last week and told me he was going to rub whisky on my feet so he obviously did not get the message. Ugh.
08/28/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I've never had a stalker fortunately.
08/28/2012