Can you forgive and forget...

Contributor: Nora29714 Nora29714
i am really bad at holding grudges... i can't help it. i hate that i am like that. but i am and i just do...
06/16/2012
Contributor: PassionCpl PassionCpl
I hold grudges for so long only Geologists can monitor them.
06/16/2012
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
I can forgive, but I almost never forget. I suppose that never really forgetting makes it next to impossible to ever truly forgive, but it's been working for me so far.
06/17/2012
Contributor: legna legna
I have been told that you are suppose to forgive and forget. I find forgiving is easy to do but I find it very hard to forget. I find it very hard to forgive if it is a repeated thing or something extremely hurtful.
06/19/2012
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
All this really depends on the who, what, when, where, how factors
08/17/2012
Contributor: 31 Flavors 31 Flavors
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
When another person does something that really hurts or angers you and apologizes for it, do you...

Forgive and forget.
Forgive but never forget.
Hold a grudge.
Forgive, yes. Forget, no. Grudges are unhealthy wastes of time.
08/17/2012
Contributor: Ganconagh Ganconagh
Some things are unforgivable & it is impossible to forget, but holding a grudge isnt productive. I just sit back and wait for karma to have its way
08/17/2012
Contributor: TheSlyFox TheSlyFox
Forgive but not forget..
08/17/2012
Contributor: lineswecast lineswecast
I forgive, but I hold secret grudges and rant to my boyfriend.
08/17/2012
Contributor: GenderSexplorations GenderSexplorations
Definitely forgive, forget depends on the offense that has been committed.
08/18/2012