i'm actually teased because of how polite and kind I am. its very rare for me to yell and I am quite shy. When I get mad I just ignore people and find something else to calm me down. The only times I show that I am angry to others is if one of my friends or family is being harassed

I'm pretty adept at maintaining a polite façade of congeniality, no matter my mood.

If you are rude to me, it's very hard for me to stay calm. One time I politely asked for a pen to write a check and an employee threw one at me and it hit me in the face, I was livid! I try to remain calm and complain later to the powers that be.

There's one restaurant I go to that one waitress was so nasty to us one time that I specifically say "If ____ is working, I do NOT want her as my server."

I see her be rude to other customers a lot. I've also seen other people do like I did and leave her a penny for a tip so she knows that NOT leaving a tip wasn't an oversight. (I've also seen people give a server that took care of them when she was supposed to a tip.)

I do my best to never take out aggression on anyone (except the person who caused it), even when I'm RAGING at someone I'm fine with others, I might be quiet and a bit blunt but I do my best not to be rude. I can't stand it when people take out aggression on people who don't deserve it at all.