Extreme Couponing

Contributor: virtualmirage virtualmirage
I really can't even watch it because they allow the people appearing on the shows get away with so many things that you really can not do. So it's almost make believe, and it's really gotten people all in a craze that seems a bit unhealthy. It's fine to try to save as much as you can but not to obsess about it and not have a real life.
05/22/2011
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
I just went grocery shopping the other night with coupons from the last 2 weeks of Sunday ads, getting only what I was going to normally use, and saved about $35.

I've noticed that, at least with Meijer, their sales coincide with coupons. So if they had something at 2 for $4 and I had a coupon for a dollar off, it'd get it off the sale price.
05/23/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
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Originally posted by Gary
I never saw the show, but I saw a piece on Nightline or some prime time news show a while back, and it was insane. It focused on two different coupon master: one who knew how to use coupons to buy what she wanted cheap, and another who just sort of ... more
I too saw a clip on Nightline Besides making people crazy by bringing out their OCD traits, it just doesn't add up for me. Who wants to have 150 jugs of washing detergent anyway and regardless its not free?
05/23/2011
Contributor: Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
I use coupons when I have them, but I don't think I would ever be dedicated enough to shop like that. I haven't watched the show, but I've heard from other people that there was an episode where they had thousands of dollars worth of newspapers just so they could clip the coupons from them. Crazy!
05/23/2011
Contributor: Inwitari Inwitari
I have watched a few episodes since I used to be into couponing with my mom. Let me tell you why I hate that show- it encourages people to hoard crap they do not need or may not even use (some of those prepared foods still expire). It also encourages illegal activity. Some of those couponers are breaking laws (although they are minor laws and not horrible crimes). Some of those couponers are committing everything from theft to mail fraud. Buying coupons, mass cutting coupons, stealing them from neighbors, selling coupons, using them to buy things that are not the actual product on the coupon, etc. These people are shifty. But you know the stores are only letting them do this crap for the publicity. There's no way one of us regular people could walk into a grocery store and collect over 100 of the same item with coupons-stores enforce limits. This is not a reality show- it's a joke.
05/25/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Rockin'
I've never seen the show (but I checked out a couple clips on the link you posted). I like to use coupons when I can, but we often buy our packaged stuff in bulk and those places don't take manufacturer coupons. For fresh food, we shop at a ... more
Kris, you really have to see the show to understand what we are so upset about.

This is not people cutting a few coupons to save a couple of dollars. One woman emptied an entire display of 197 bottles of pain reliever with sleep medication in it, because she would get money back due to using multiple coupons. When stores are LOW on something, it has already been re-ordered, when they have 197 bottles of something, and one jerk takes them all, they won't get any in for possibly weeks. It's selfish and self absorbed behavior and it goes well beyond "budgeting." In what budget does anyone need 343 bottles of laundry detergent? 1000 tubes of toothpaste? 250 packages of croutons? These people appear to buy NO fresh food, all crap and prepared stuff, and yes, it is different to buy the last bottle of something on the shelf, as the store has already re-ordered it, and to empty a shelf of something you don't need to "get money back."

As I said before, extreme "thrift" is nothing more than a thinly veiled form of greed.

You should see these women when their purchases are being added up. They so closely resemble a gambling addict hoping to "strike" or a junkie waiting to score it's sickening.

You have to see what we are talking about to understand the nearly universal contempt for what these people are (sometimes illegally) doing.
05/25/2011
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by Jobthingy
HA! Nope. It is possible to get an item or 2 for free. With coupons for free trial of a new product. or getting something on a really good sale. but never like what is on there.
My groceries cost me about 100 a week, and no amount of coupons is going to save me more than 10 dollars total on what I am buying. (And 10 dollars would probably be pushing it)

Also, imo, TLC programming is the modern day equivalent of the carnival freakshow, the only reason they get away with it is that they do it in the guise of documenting and attempting to help... yeah right.
05/25/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by P'Gell
Kris, you really have to see the show to understand what we are so upset about.

This is not people cutting a few coupons to save a couple of dollars. One woman emptied an entire display of 197 bottles of pain reliever with sleep medication in ... more
For some it might be a thinly veiled form of greed, but it could also be a compulsion too. If that's the case, it needs to be treated with psychiatric care. Like hoarding, counting the times you lock your door, etc. You likened it to a junkie.. I think that's fairly accurate as well. Something's just off in the way their brains function.
05/25/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
For some it might be a thinly veiled form of greed, but it could also be a compulsion too. If that's the case, it needs to be treated with psychiatric care. Like hoarding, counting the times you lock your door, etc. You likened it to a ... more
Yeah, it's possible. They so closely remind me of gambling addicts it isn't funny. Although addictions are a "disease" there is still, at least in the beginning, an element of choice there. Maybe not when the addiction gets out of hand, but all addictions have a point where people need to have some self awareness and think, "Um, this isn't healthy. I need to make some other choices." I've been there myself, (not with couponing, LOL!) and know that those choices can be made.

OCD is not addiction, though. Totally different animal. I wouldn't compare addictions to hoarding or real OCD in any case.

Mileage and all that.
05/25/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
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Originally posted by P'Gell
Yeah, it's possible. They so closely remind me of gambling addicts it isn't funny. Although addictions are a "disease" there is still, at least in the beginning, an element of choice there. Maybe not when the addiction gets out of ... more
I wasn't trying to compare addictions to hoarding or OCD... just outlining the potential causes for the extreme behavior.
05/25/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
I wasn't trying to compare addictions to hoarding or OCD... just outlining the potential causes for the extreme behavior.
Yeah, it's possible.

I have real OCD, and things like this are probably not actual OCD issues, but could be due to Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder, which is actually very different than plain old Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.

It really appears to be part addiction or extreme "need behavior" based on control issues and part desire to prove something, which of course then translates into the greed I was talking about.

Damn, I could do my dissertation on these people. LOL!
05/25/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
This show is actually becoming a joke in our home. When we want to watch some TV and My Man is watching Sports (the Bulls are in the play offs and I am NOT getting enough sex lately due to the late games...) I will often say, "Uh, we could watch Extreme Couponing instead." Or, when there is "nothing on" and we want to chill, I joke that we can find this show on On Demand.

He walked in when my daughter and I were being horrified by this show the first time, and how it's a running joke. "Put on that coupon show. That's quality TV!" We can't stop joking about it. Sad part is, I'm still watching it.....

We've also blamed shows like this (and the cheapness with which networks can produce them) for the demise of really good programming. Chicago Code was just canceled, it was our favorite show, after House and we were very sad to see it canceled. And, there's the Coupon show, and I'm guilty for watching it.
05/25/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
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Originally posted by Jobthingy
I saw a thread on who uses coupons, but nothing about this show on TLC.

Do you watch it? Try and learn tips and tricks? Could you be on that show? Were you on it last week? I want to know

Up here we don't have things like double ... more
no but i should. i need to learn how to live on a budget
05/26/2011
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
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Originally posted by P'Gell
Kris, you really have to see the show to understand what we are so upset about.

This is not people cutting a few coupons to save a couple of dollars. One woman emptied an entire display of 197 bottles of pain reliever with sleep medication in ... more
HAHA! the junkie reference is SO true.
05/26/2011
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
My groceries cost me about 100 a week, and no amount of coupons is going to save me more than 10 dollars total on what I am buying. (And 10 dollars would probably be pushing it)

Also, imo, TLC programming is the modern day equivalent of the ... more
Yes, they are. But. That is why I am a closet TLC junkie. Remember that train wreck we talked about last night? TLC is like that for me. I just cant look away.
05/26/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Jobthingy
Yes, they are. But. That is why I am a closet TLC junkie. Remember that train wreck we talked about last night? TLC is like that for me. I just cant look away.
I'm the same way with some of these shows. I defend myself to the last that "I don't watch reality TV." And I don't watch NETWORK shows, like The Biggest Loser or Survivor or The Bachelor or anything about New Jersey or any kind of cake or anything like that.

But, give me a show about people who hoard or weird sexual stuff or people with 19 children or.....coupon nuts and I'm watching. LOL!
05/26/2011
Contributor: Wondermom Wondermom
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Originally posted by SamsDelight
Okay watch it. I am one of those people who cut coupons. I started out doing it because I married my husband and went down to one income. I once made a lot more money than my husband but being a military wife and moving around a LOT is not always ... more
exactly, I am a couponer, and I do not do anything close to some of these people, I only stock up on the things we use in the time period between sales. My life doesn't revolve around newspapers and blogs, but I do keep an eye out. Once you start it does become a way of life and much easier, even my husband knows how to coupon easily.
05/29/2011
Contributor: Wondermom Wondermom
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Originally posted by P'Gell
Also, some of these people take, like 1000 flyers to get multiple coupons to use. Many stores have limits on how many items of one thing you can use coupons for. Also, it pisses me off when they clear out a shelf. What if someone NEEDED those ... more
there are coupons for meat and vegetables actually it just takes searching, and if you contact the companies you can get more. In the past few years there has been a big rise in organic and whole food coupons being more common.
05/29/2011
Contributor: Wondermom Wondermom
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Originally posted by P'Gell
I agree, the greed bothers me. And I really hate when they empty the shelves of an item.

Although, like many people have said, most people use coupons wisely and only for what they need. That's fine. I used to do it, but we buy mostly ... more
clearing the shelves etc is very annoying to many in the couponing community, one of the ladies who was on the show has a blog and she never buys more than 10 of an item, never clears a shelf and follows the stores coupon policys to the letter.
05/29/2011
Contributor: Wondermom Wondermom
I really do wish TLC had cast the more sensible people in the couponing community who applied, but it was obvious TLC was only going for ratings by picking the people they did. Many very sensible average couponers applied and many are friends of mine, but they were turned down for women like Ja'mie who for over a year now has been widely known in the coupon community for fraudulent use of coupons.

The woman who has her own room for her coupons, she donates most of her shopping to local food banks, lets her neighbours, church and family shop in her stockpile and a majority of her coupon inserts are donated to her from all over florida because they found out she is the lady who coupons to donate. There are some good people mixed in the show but they also cut it to make them look worse than they are.
05/29/2011
Contributor: cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
From what I have read on this thread, that show must be insane.

Of course they would pick the most extreme, it's good TV ratings.

I have been trying to use coupons more, just because if I'm going to buy a product anyways I might as well get a deal on it! But I won't go waaay out of my way and but more than I need for one free, etc etc.
05/29/2011