Being bi, it wouldn't really be much of an issue. I'd stick with him if he decided he was meant to be a woman. It would be very different from our current norm, so whether or not the relationship would remain good isn't something I can say, but I wouldn't leave him /just/ because he traded his penis for a vagina.
Would you stay with your wife/husband if they chose to get a sex change?
02/17/2012
Yes. Anyone who divorces or breaks up because of that reason alone is a complete asshole. They're still the same person they always were.
02/17/2012
I don't know, I am just not really attracted to women. I am interested in men, FtM transguys, and MtF who have not had bottom surgery, but to me a female and a vagina together just do not do it for me.
I love my partner so much, so maybe I would stay with him even if he wanted to get rid of his penis because I am already attached to him, but I wouldn't seek that out in a partner.
I love my partner so much, so maybe I would stay with him even if he wanted to get rid of his penis because I am already attached to him, but I wouldn't seek that out in a partner.
04/17/2012
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I'm not really sure because I don't think, in fact I almost know that I'll really won't have to worry about it. Although if it did happen, it would be a decision I would have to make when it happens.
Originally posted by
Joie de Cherresse
Luckily, I don't think this is something I will ever have to worry about...
04/17/2012
No way
04/18/2012
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i dont know if i could that would mean thay didnt love me
Originally posted by
Diabolical Kitty
I want to know if you'd stay with your wife/husband if they chose to get a sex change?
04/18/2012
It depends if they want to stay with me. If so I would stay and support them, too! I know some persons don't want to be with their patner anymore when/after transitioning.
Also, some persons' personalities change, so if that is the case I guess it depends on their "new", true personality.
Also, some persons' personalities change, so if that is the case I guess it depends on their "new", true personality.
04/18/2012
wow a lot of people are really narrow-minded and horrible, huh
not that I didn't know that about the world in general but wow
not that I didn't know that about the world in general but wow
04/18/2012
This is not something that I would have to worry about, but it is not something that would bother me. I am supporting of all decisions one makes. I am pansexual, so this would not bother me. It would be a matter of what my partner wanted.
04/18/2012
Being pansexual helps me out in these kinds of situations.
04/18/2012
i'm straight, so i'd probably have trouble adjusting to life as a gay guy. but i love the person i'm with now. not for her body, for her heart and mind and soul.
04/20/2012
no way
04/21/2012
I'm not sure how I'd react in that situation.
04/23/2012
I would support my man and stay with him BUT I would be somewhat upset. I mean I LOVE his penis lol
04/23/2012
As a ftm myself Im sure I would because if I am accepted by my partner than who am I to not accept them? I was a little shocked to see how many people said they would stay with their partners.
04/28/2012
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Agreed! I married a female and I want to keep it that way or else . . .
Originally posted by
ladiewithswagg1
hell no
04/28/2012
I don't really think I could..
04/28/2012
I don;t see why not - I'm pansexual and genderqueer myself, I think I could handle someone else's gender reassignment okay. It would be stressful, but that would be because of outside factors and the reactions of others, not a dislike of my partner's choice.
06/28/2012
maybe.
07/08/2012
Oh wow, this is a hard one.
I'm not attracted to women, I would never get into a relationship with one, just not interested.
However, if my male partner was going to transition, this would literally be my only exception. He is the only one I would be willing to stay for.
I'm not attracted to women, I would never get into a relationship with one, just not interested.
However, if my male partner was going to transition, this would literally be my only exception. He is the only one I would be willing to stay for.
07/09/2012
Yes I would. They're still the same person I would've fallen in love with.
07/25/2012
i would, but i would like to point out that there's nothing wrong with someone saying that they wouldn't or couldn't. it's not "narrow-minded" of a straight man or lesbian to not want to be with a man, or a gay man or straight woman to not want to be with a woman. ideally, of course, we would all stay with the person we love no matter what, but that's not really how people work, and sometimes break-ups happen. that doesn't make anyone an asshole, and it certainly doesn't make anyone a bad person to say "i'm just not attracted to [men/women]".
07/28/2012
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Sort of a moot point. My partner is trans*, and I am too (I think? Not so sure anymore.) and we're hoping to get married in a few years.
Originally posted by
Diabolical Kitty
I want to know if you'd stay with your wife/husband if they chose to get a sex change?
07/29/2012
I would stay, hell yes. I might be a bit against bottom surgery because it would complicate things (I'm FTM and he would be MTF, so, yeah...) but I'd definately stay
07/30/2012
I'm not married, but I believe if I were truly in love I would stay with them and look past the body because I'd be in love with the person- not the body they have.
07/30/2012
of course I would!
08/01/2012
My husband would make a sexy chick, and I absolutely adore him. It wouldn't bother me a bit, to be honest. I am lucky just to have him in my life.
08/01/2012
Yes I love him for his personality and I know he would need my support in something that big but. I know he would never do that.
08/01/2012
I would stick by my partner through anything, but I'm pansexual anyway.
08/01/2012
difficult to answer, until the time came and dependent on the circumstances.
08/04/2012