I usually just hump stuff while keeping at least some clothes on - it's a method that works well for me, and it helps stave off dysphoria a bit.
Masturbation (FTM & AFAB GenderQueers)
05/17/2012
Insertion and clitoral.
05/27/2012
For an FTM I really enjoy penetration of any sort. I ultimately need clitoral stim to get off though, and a lot of it.
05/27/2012
I humped things a lot. It worked great and I didn't try anything else until I was about 15. Now I focus mainly on my clit but sometimes simultaneous insertion feels good.
I've never had much dysphoria about my genitals, because I see my body as just "mine," not as "female." I acknowledge that other people are obviously going to see it as female, but thankfully I personally don't.
I've never had much dysphoria about my genitals, because I see my body as just "mine," not as "female." I acknowledge that other people are obviously going to see it as female, but thankfully I personally don't.
05/27/2012
Directly on the clit is best. I either use my hand or a bullet vibe, and often reach around and do some anal stimulation. Other times I'll hold my packer in the other hand, and try to mentally transfer the pleasure to there.
05/28/2012
direct clit
06/03/2012
Selene
I have gone countless months without ever thinking of touching myself. Don't know why, I just have no attachment to the not-me parts, no pleasure at all.
06/03/2012
clitoral stimulation (hands) and anal insertion, usually.
07/31/2012
I have tried pretty much everything at one point or another, and now I have a pretty huge repertoire of masturbation tricks. (It's sort of a joke among my friends, and I've given several of them advice on the subject.)
I'm very fond of humping things at the moment, especially when I want to play for a long while and build up slowly, or when I'm fantasizing about fucking someone. As someone else up there said, trangst-free! And there's a lot of freedom in terms of pressure, materials, etc.
My next favorite would actually be making a jerking-off motion with either an inserted toy or one pressed against my clit. I love using double-ended type dildos for this, or just taking my Form6 or other heavy-ish vibe and press one end against the clit while I stroke.
I do also enjoy anal play, more so than vaginal insertion play.
I'm very fond of humping things at the moment, especially when I want to play for a long while and build up slowly, or when I'm fantasizing about fucking someone. As someone else up there said, trangst-free! And there's a lot of freedom in terms of pressure, materials, etc.
My next favorite would actually be making a jerking-off motion with either an inserted toy or one pressed against my clit. I love using double-ended type dildos for this, or just taking my Form6 or other heavy-ish vibe and press one end against the clit while I stroke.
I do also enjoy anal play, more so than vaginal insertion play.
08/03/2012
I typically position my fingers so that I'm rubbing against my clit and also inserting the tip of my finger. Gets me off super quick.
08/04/2012
I can't get anywhere with solo play. It just... nothing happens. I think I get too squicked out by the idea of what's there.
08/09/2012
just clit, everything insertion at best does nothing and at usually causes pain
10/14/2012
No insertion for me. feels wrong... :/
10/15/2012
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i agree i call mine my dick or cock either one never a clit. and i am purely against penetration. to me it just isnt ok. never tried it never wanted to.
Originally posted by
kmilly
it's always been pretty much entirely about clit (i call mine a cock, just saying) stimulation for me. i'm wired like a guy. the underside is really sensitive, so humping things works. as a kid, i never tried insertion. the thought disgusted
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it's always been pretty much entirely about clit (i call mine a cock, just saying) stimulation for me. i'm wired like a guy. the underside is really sensitive, so humping things works. as a kid, i never tried insertion. the thought disgusted me. i really don't like it now. i only let my girlfriend in there because i know she loves it, and because it isn't miserable when it's her. most of the time though i don't get off to anything but my cock gliding against something
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10/16/2012
interesting responses
10/18/2012
imma humper XD
10/18/2012
It depends on the mood I'm in, but mostly just cock stimulation. I also have a few male masturbators I use on occasion.
10/28/2012
Clit usually. Lately I'll insert a vibrator and stimulate my clit at the same time.
10/28/2012
Ever since I was a kid, clitoral stimulation was all that felt right. I never liked vaginal penetration. I still don't. I don't think I ever will...
but anal is no problem at all
but anal is no problem at all
10/29/2012
The fairy wand is my weapon of choice XD
11/07/2012
Usually direct stimulation, often with a vibrator. I've gotten good at holding my packer next to a vibrator in one hand. So I still feel direct sensation from a vibrator, but I also feel like I'm jerking off. It takes a bit of imagination, but it works.
11/22/2012
I also began doing it unlike most other girls, by crossing my legs and pumping my inner thigh muscles around my clit. I discovered this accidentally at a very young age, maybe 3 or 4, and continued doing it throughout my life without really realizing I was masturbating. It was always just a stress relief to me. This method brings me to climax in a matter of seconds, no lie! Other methods are great to combine with and just add on to the strength of the orgasm.
11/23/2012
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Yeah, I figured out I was very very bad at it.
Originally posted by
catsin
When I researched what masturbation was during my youth I found that I was NOT doing it the same way as most females.
I'm curious how other female bodied trans folk typically prefer to masturbate.
I'm curious how other female bodied trans folk typically prefer to masturbate.
11/26/2012
Just clit usually.
12/15/2012
Can I combine options?
Direct clit stimulation, but also dry humping often in such a way that the clit is played with too.
Hands, objects, hitachi, vibrating things of any sort.
Penetration pretty much does nothing for me, in terms of sexual satisfaction and just makes me a little scared and panicky even
Direct clit stimulation, but also dry humping often in such a way that the clit is played with too.
Hands, objects, hitachi, vibrating things of any sort.
Penetration pretty much does nothing for me, in terms of sexual satisfaction and just makes me a little scared and panicky even
12/26/2012
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all of the above, just depends.
Originally posted by
catsin
When I researched what masturbation was during my youth I found that I was NOT doing it the same way as most females.
I'm curious how other female bodied trans folk typically prefer to masturbate.
I'm curious how other female bodied trans folk typically prefer to masturbate.
02/08/2013
A lot of dry humping, then clit stimulation. So so so so rarely penetration. In general, I never feel like putting things inside me, but I feel like humping things. Maybe being driven to do one a lot made me feel like it was better because I was doing what I wanted? Idk
03/05/2013
Maybe it has something to do with the non-heteronormative background, but my best bets are always either clit stimulation through heavy pressure, or something anal. I'm lucky if I can convince my more feminine orifices to accept a tampon while I'm gushing blood, so, I'd rather not get tangled up in that whole disaster.
03/12/2013
interesting
03/12/2013
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