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Contributor: catsin catsin
When I researched what masturbation was during my youth I found that I was NOT doing it the same way as most females.

I'm curious how other female bodied trans folk typically prefer to masturbate.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
dildos or insertion
12
direct clitoral stimulation
75
humping an object
41
a little of each clitoral and insertion
27
Just depends on my mood/toy options
25
None of the above... (please describe if able)
5
I don't enjoy solo play
8
Total votes: 193 (109 voters)
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03/30/2012
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Contributor: bison bison
Just clit. Nevr done it any other way
03/30/2012
Contributor: DarthTaco DarthTaco
I've tried, and I just can't do it. It feels way too weird to me.
03/30/2012
Contributor: SecretToyLover2 SecretToyLover2
I will honestly admit, I used to hump things. It started when my father bought me a rocking horse and took off from there! But I never did it in front of people. I think I always knew that it was something sexual although I wasn't familiar with sex. It just felt like a private matter.
03/30/2012
Contributor: TransMarc TransMarc
I don't hump on objects as much as when I was little because it's kind of uncomfortable. Then clitoridal masturbation makes me slightly dysphoric sometimes, but I still love it.
03/30/2012
Contributor: Alx Alx
Outer stimulation, followed by awful dysphoria, oh lawd.
03/30/2012
Contributor: Voir Voir
I partake of all of those; toys, penetration, outer stimulation, humping things. Yeah. I just don't experience dysphoria afterward.
03/30/2012
Contributor: Azule Azule
Toys, clit, and insertion, a lot less humping now.
03/30/2012
Contributor: MasonM MasonM
Quote:
Originally posted by catsin
When I researched what masturbation was during my youth I found that I was NOT doing it the same way as most females.

I'm curious how other female bodied trans folk typically prefer to masturbate.
I've been known to hump a pillow before and get off that way. Also use direct clitoral stimulation, but that's almost always in conjunction with insertion.

When I use insertion and clitoral stimulation it's almost like I'm punishing my body, because I'll go so hard with it that I make myself bleed.
03/30/2012
Contributor: Rab Rab
I've never had the urge to masturbate, personally...
03/30/2012
Contributor: catsin catsin
I'm so pleased to see others hump objects too

If I was asked this question upfront, I'd likely deny it. Saying "I hump things" sounds extra dirty to me, I don't know why.

Hooray for the hump
04/01/2012
Contributor: kmilly kmilly
it's always been pretty much entirely about clit (i call mine a cock, just saying) stimulation for me. i'm wired like a guy. the underside is really sensitive, so humping things works. as a kid, i never tried insertion. the thought disgusted me. i really don't like it now. i only let my girlfriend in there because i know she loves it, and because it isn't miserable when it's her. most of the time though i don't get off to anything but my cock gliding against something
04/06/2012
Contributor: Caulfield Caulfield
I usually just do clit stimulation because it's the only thing I can stand but my dysphoria gets so bad it almost never works.
04/06/2012
Contributor: queergaze queergaze
I'd love to masturbate using a feeldoe/similar product. I want to know what it feels like to stroke a cock coming out of my body and be able to feel the sensations inside me.
04/07/2012
Contributor: Kiwi Green Kiwi Green
Usually clit simulation and humping. I also do some masturbation with a strap on by pretending it's mine.
04/07/2012
Contributor: TheParrishism TheParrishism
I do have trouble doing anything like that myself.
04/07/2012
Contributor: Voir Voir
Quote:
Originally posted by catsin
I'm so pleased to see others hump objects too

If I was asked this question upfront, I'd likely deny it. Saying "I hump things" sounds extra dirty to me, I don't know why.

Hooray for the hump
Lolol doesn't it sound so dirty though? XD

I always kinda thought I was a freak for enjoying it. but most people I know are very prudish or vanilla about sex / masturbation.... SO B|
04/07/2012
Contributor: catsin catsin
Quote:
Originally posted by Voir
Lolol doesn't it sound so dirty though? XD

I always kinda thought I was a freak for enjoying it. but most people I know are very prudish or vanilla about sex / masturbation.... SO B|
Perhaps because humping is referred to most often in my life when dogs do it....?

I really don't know. I just know that it's better for me than direct stimulation or insertion. If I have the proper toy, I get along alright, but something about humping hits the spot.

I also enjoy putting a strapon on and visualizing that it's physically attached, but it's best with a partner giving me a bj. I really wish they'd bring back the harness dildo with suction in it... that sounds so awesome.
04/07/2012
Contributor: kmilly kmilly
Quote:
Originally posted by queergaze
I'd love to masturbate using a feeldoe/similar product. I want to know what it feels like to stroke a cock coming out of my body and be able to feel the sensations inside me.
i don't have the feeldoe, but i have the share xl. there's a review on my profile. go check it out. i fucking love that thing. very cool for sex, since i get off with my girl and can't otherwise.
04/07/2012
Contributor: eroticmutt eroticmutt
Primarily clitoral stimulation and humping things with some insertion but I never ever enjoyed fingering myself.
04/16/2012
Contributor: queergaze queergaze
Quote:
Originally posted by kmilly
i don't have the feeldoe, but i have the share xl. there's a review on my profile. go check it out. i fucking love that thing. very cool for sex, since i get off with my girl and can't otherwise.
Thank you! I'll go check it out. I've often wondered about which is the best toy of that type.
04/18/2012
Contributor: sodapin sodapin
lol just full on humping D: though I'd love to penetrate something for a change.
04/28/2012
Contributor: Anteaterz Anteaterz
Quote:
Originally posted by catsin
When I researched what masturbation was during my youth I found that I was NOT doing it the same way as most females.

I'm curious how other female bodied trans folk typically prefer to masturbate.
I can't stick anything in me at all, I have panic attacks and it just doesn't work at all. A lot of times I get in a headspace where I just fantasize that I'm fapping like a guy.
04/28/2012
Contributor: Rhiulan Rhiulan
Typically I do clitoral, vaginal just causes a lot of dysphoria and the thout disgusted me when I was younger.
04/28/2012
Contributor: transfag transfag
When I was younger, I never penetrated that way (anal is another story haha I'm such a faggot) but preferred rubbing my cock. Now that I've worked through penetration emotionally, I do whatever I feel like. Not everyone can just work that out though, and I respect that.
05/09/2012
Contributor: TakeHimAway TakeHimAway
I like a bit of insertion and my magic wand; that's all. I feel like getting touched there feels weird, and do not like!
05/10/2012
Contributor: Youssii Youssii
I have a few ways, I guess.

Humping things is a default - good, trangst free, easy.
Otherwise , direct 'dicklet' stimulation with a vibrator or a jet of water from the tap or shower.

I don't know if I would have 'frontal' penetration even if I could (my hymen is made of like, titanium). The idea of it is weird, but I'd certainly experiment.
05/10/2012
Contributor: TheGreat TheGreat
Really it is kind of a combination
05/10/2012
Contributor: Schattenstern Schattenstern
I can barely get satisfied with direct clitoral stimulation, but the few times that I've tried insertion it doesn't get anywhere at all.
05/13/2012
Contributor: TakeHimAway TakeHimAway
Quote:
Originally posted by Schattenstern
I can barely get satisfied with direct clitoral stimulation, but the few times that I've tried insertion it doesn't get anywhere at all.
Insertion hurts me sometimes, so it just depends.
05/13/2012