Saying I love you in the bedroom

Contributor: ginainohio78 ginainohio78
love it
10/07/2012
Contributor: ejrbrndps ejrbrndps
We usually say it after while we are cuddling
10/09/2012
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
Turn on
10/09/2012
Contributor: novanilla novanilla
I chose turn on, because it is when my partner and I are in a habit of telling each other I love you. However, if it was someone with whom I had never exchanged those words, it would be bad bad bad.
10/09/2012
Contributor: Happenstance Happenstance
It really depends on the time, the context, the mood, and whether it's sincere and like "I don't know what has come over me but i just have to say this!" or if it's forced, or if it's said in the frequency of a "hello," or "goodbye," or whatever.
Of course... there was this one time [warning: personal story/TMI] when my girlfriend and I were having sex and I was really nervous about something and she suddenly just pulled me close and said she loved me and it was okay and I didn't have to worry, etc. etc. and I just fucking lost it, I sobbed so hard. So. I mean, we went back to sexy times afterward, but the "i love you"s kind of interrupted in that particular instance (which I was not at all concerned about at the time). It was wonderful, because it was completely unexpected. *shrug*
10/09/2012
Contributor: LoooveMonkey LoooveMonkey
I love it, but if I was one to have sex earlier in a relationship and I wasn't ready to hear that, I'd get creeped out and hate it.
10/09/2012
Contributor: Lori Gonzales Lori Gonzales
depends of the situation
10/15/2012
Contributor: Jaxxie Lifeless Jaxxie Lifeless
it makes my whole day better hearing those words as i make love. too bad my ex hated it and broke it off with me because of it. ha. my life sucks..
10/18/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by Bittenflame
Is it a turn on or turn off when someone says they love you while cumming or afterwards?
I'm neutral about the whole thing
10/22/2012
Contributor: Andrey2052 Andrey2052
Turn on
10/22/2012
Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
I love it!
10/22/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
It's a total turn on for me!
10/22/2012
Contributor: pestilence pestilence
It's a turn-off for me because I simply can't into romance and I'm terrified of someone expecting more from a sexual relationship than I am able to give.
10/22/2012
Contributor: smlove smlove
Absolutely a turn on! Cause it's all about love!
10/23/2012
Contributor: XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
It's only a turn on if someone that I LOVE is saying it to me.
10/23/2012
Contributor: Leda Leda
Quote:
Originally posted by - Kira -
I'm really more into kinky, rough sex. "I love you" doesn't play into that too well. LOL We always say "I love you" right before we go to sleep, but not during or right after sex. It just doesn't fit the mood. I ... more
Indeed,

When in the throws of passion I don't want to hear mush words of love.

maybe it is the timing on when the person says it.
10/26/2012
Contributor: Kenneth Fort Kenneth Fort
Quote:
Originally posted by Bittenflame
Is it a turn on or turn off when someone says they love you while cumming or afterwards?
Turn off. It doesn't feel real if it comes from physical sensations.
10/27/2012