I know a few, but no one really cares about their gold star status or take it seriously. It's treated more like a joke, and it is just a joke.
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How many gold stars do you know?
04/01/2012
Is this something you can just ask someone? I don't tend to question people's sexual backgrounds.
04/06/2012
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Some people do though. IDGI. A lot of stigma over sex.
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kawigrl
i'm one and being a gold star isn't a big deal I don't think people view them as better lesbians
04/08/2012
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I don't know anyone that's a gold star to be honest.
Originally posted by
kawigrl
just curious how common are gold stars anyway
04/08/2012
Yes, I've never known anyone to take this term seriously.
04/17/2012
I don't know that I've ever asked anyone, nor do I really care. I think the whole "gold star" concept is really stupid. Have sex with who you want to as long as it's consensual. Meh.
04/17/2012
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I never ask my gay or lesbian friends and none of them mention it. I'm guessing not too many care.
Originally posted by
kawigrl
just curious how common are gold stars anyway
04/17/2012
I'm actually technically a gold star. >.< I'm female-bodied and I've never been with a man - though it's not really any sort of elitist thing. I just was too young to want to have sex with my first boyfriend and I haven't gotten around to having any more of them. Although I am an FtM (female-to-male transgender person) and as such identify as male, so I guess it depends on whether you're going by sex or gender.
04/17/2012
My friends don't really talk about or focus on who is or isn't a gold star, most folks think it's at best a silly concept and at worst really insulting to people with a more varied sexual history or interests.
06/18/2012
Are we counting female to male trans who have never been with the same sex?
06/19/2012
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The whole idea of someone being "gold star" seems deeply problematic. You either are a lesbian or you aren't. How many people you've slept with and what kind of genitals they have can't change that. "Gold star" is really invalidating.
Originally posted by
kawigrl
just curious how common are gold stars anyway
06/20/2012
wow never hear of this
06/20/2012
i dont kno too many
06/20/2012
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all my friends
Originally posted by
kawigrl
just curious how common are gold stars anyway
10/12/2012
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