How many gold stars do you know?

Contributor: Tangles Tangles
I know a few, but no one really cares about their gold star status or take it seriously. It's treated more like a joke, and it is just a joke.
04/01/2012
Contributor: TheParrishism TheParrishism
Is this something you can just ask someone? I don't tend to question people's sexual backgrounds.
04/06/2012
Contributor: apreslapetitmort apreslapetitmort
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Originally posted by kawigrl
i'm one and being a gold star isn't a big deal I don't think people view them as better lesbians
Some people do though. IDGI. A lot of stigma over sex.
04/08/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
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Originally posted by kawigrl
just curious how common are gold stars anyway
I don't know anyone that's a gold star to be honest.
04/08/2012
Contributor: Femme Mystique Femme Mystique
Yes, I've never known anyone to take this term seriously.
04/17/2012
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
I don't know that I've ever asked anyone, nor do I really care. I think the whole "gold star" concept is really stupid. Have sex with who you want to as long as it's consensual. Meh.
04/17/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by kawigrl
just curious how common are gold stars anyway
I never ask my gay or lesbian friends and none of them mention it. I'm guessing not too many care.
04/17/2012
Contributor: Sam the Man Sam the Man
I'm actually technically a gold star. >.< I'm female-bodied and I've never been with a man - though it's not really any sort of elitist thing. I just was too young to want to have sex with my first boyfriend and I haven't gotten around to having any more of them. Although I am an FtM (female-to-male transgender person) and as such identify as male, so I guess it depends on whether you're going by sex or gender.
04/17/2012
Contributor: thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
My friends don't really talk about or focus on who is or isn't a gold star, most folks think it's at best a silly concept and at worst really insulting to people with a more varied sexual history or interests.
06/18/2012
Contributor: Bittenflame Bittenflame
Are we counting female to male trans who have never been with the same sex?
06/19/2012
Contributor: snowyslut snowyslut
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Originally posted by kawigrl
just curious how common are gold stars anyway
The whole idea of someone being "gold star" seems deeply problematic. You either are a lesbian or you aren't. How many people you've slept with and what kind of genitals they have can't change that. "Gold star" is really invalidating.
06/20/2012
Contributor: ginainohio ginainohio
wow never hear of this
06/20/2012
Contributor: lia ayala lia ayala
i dont kno too many
06/20/2012
Contributor: zz1aag zz1aag
Quote:
Originally posted by kawigrl
just curious how common are gold stars anyway
all my friends
10/12/2012