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lezergirl
Have you had a threesome? Why or why not? (Could also be phrased as how or how not?)
I have. Together with my husband several times. Why? Well... first its something we really enjoy doing together. Second, it adds fun, spice and wildness to our sex life and actually it probably reduces the chance that either of us would ever have an extra-marital affair ( which I describe as a spouse or partner having sex behind the others back without knowledge and equal consideration and approval for it to gappen). All of the threesomes we have done so far have been with other guys who are also only hetri (as is my husband) and only with guys we have known or been mutual friends with for a long time. My only advice is really talk about it before you do it for the first time and of there is any dpubt dont.. Also it has to be with and for you and your partner together and both should agree - no feeling like the third wheel. If you do soft sex the firdt time it will give you both a chance to talk about it later befote the actual fucking part happens. Never do your first drunk- it makes you nore likely to do it even if you have second thoughts or get caught in the moment - never do anything drunk you wouldnt do the same if you were sober. Again, it is a huge amount of fun and can be aeesome crazy wild but it cant be taken back once its done so open discussion - good partner srlection and a plan for it to happen will make your first an experience to remember. And for those who do - the rules shouldnt change that you have both agreed on. We have had probably 30-40 threesomes ( most with the same few guys) and we really enjoyed it. I also have open agreement that I can play alone on the side with other guys. I dont ever- and wont ever- without discussing with my husband first the who, what, ehen and where - and he has an absolute right of refusal and that answer holds without arguement or question - and O have the same right on my rnd ( though my husband has never in six plus years taken me up on it being ok for him to play) . Good luck and have fun! Oh... if your single and wanting to do a threeway - just be careful and know whi and what your getting into- and always tell a trusted friend the where and when before you meet anyone. XOX. CreamySweet