It's hard to avoid the cliches here but, love is love.

Also, saying that it's OK to be gay if you a girl, but not if your a guy is sexist, and misogynistic. It's basically saying that lesbianism is OK because female sexuality isn't important, that the females role is to have babies and if your not at risk of having babies, than it doesn't "count".

Personally I don't care if other people think that, because I don't waste my time on people that think less of me because I accept my sexuality, because I'm female, or because I'm gay.

Love is love I see it as the same day I chose to be straight they chose to be gay You can't help who you love

I couldn't care less which sex someone falls in love with or wants to have sex with.

all love is equal

Whatever makes you happy

It makes me so sad to see that "it is ok for just women and not men" actually has votes... also, where is the opposite option? In such an accepting site/community, I'm surprised that there's any reaction that way. Thanks for posting an insightful poll though!

You are who you are and should not have to hide!

It's ok for both

Live and let live!

it's incredibly upsetting when i hear people say, "well you can have your lifestyle but i will raise my family like this." as if that absolves them of any responsibility for homophobia. because if you have a gay or trans kid, they're going to go through hell. i know it and i've been through it.
the moral arguments are washed out and tired. in the context of nature--homosexuality is natural across many species. in that of history--humans have had same-sex relationships in a myriad of cultures across recorded history. in the context of the bible--the scarce verses picked out for antigay use are badly translated and fundamentally decontextualized (paul's arsenokoitai, levitical law, several cultural factors). and in the context of human morality--gay sex and sexualities produce no harm that straight sex does not also produce. all these axes taken together: what then is the basis of opposition? tradition? i am a deeply religious person, but i will not allow my religion or tradition to walk on the backs of anyone. when i came out many people were uncomfortable, but they were trying to learn and grow, making an effort to tell me i was beautiful and important as i was. so it hurt but i knew we were all hurting, we were all growing.
please, be loving and supportive, when someone you love turns out to be gay or trans. it is critical to so many of us just surviving.

both genders

It saddens me that this is even an issue. Be who you are, love yourself, don't hate.