Many parts of them do, either that they're straight and trying to be gay for attention or gay and trying to be straight to fit in ot the societal norm. It's total bs.

This. This exactly.

I'm bi, and at first I did think they took issue with me.
however, the few lesbians I've met don't have any issues with me being bi.
They don't hate me.

Bi are not just confused.

I feel Women are fantasized as lesbian more often by men. I feel many Women also, get called a lesbian if she doesn't put out. As for a man. I'm little with a small nice muscular frame. I feel because of my size and looks I get hit on more strait men than anyone could ever believe. As soon as the door locks behind me, I hear how this has never happened with anyone before and cause, it's a Gay act no one can ever find out about it. I was thinking we were just hanging out as two dudes. Suddenly I part of a fantasy. As for women, just cause She uses a Toy she felt guilt of being Lesbian/Bi? When really Men have all they need until, they find themselves with the same guilt. If the girl uses a Toy = Means Lesbian/Bi. If a guy uses a Dildo? Oh he is gay! If he experiments with a male partner. Even though I disagree. He's always gonna be gay forever. When really, what happened in the past I feel is lost. Should He/She continue to interact this way regularly Masturbation/Toys. Feeling the need for a partner I feel is completely normal. If the Girl puts the Toy in her ass she's still a girl. If a guy puts any thing besides his Fruit of a looms near his ass? Oh he's gay. I could care less of what others think. It feels good I like it!