i was 12 and riding in a car with my mom...and she was fine with that so afterwards i told all my friends and everyone was pretty much fine with it.

Technically, I have, but only to a very few selected people. Such as my bi friends, or people that have come out. I wouldn't necessarily call myself bi or pan though either. I just like men and women.

I always knew there was something "different" about me. I liked boys (the way I was "supposed" to) but I did begin to notice, when I was in my teens (especially after I went to college) that I would check out girls about as often as I checked out guys.

Once I went to college, I found myself in a brand-new environment where, I realized, nobody gave a shit who I was involved with. Even still, I didn't apply the label of "bisexual" to myself until I met a girl named Lisa. I was 20 at the time, and she was this totally wild, uninhibited woman who was completely open about her sexuality. I credit her with my own eventual coming out (she was the first one I came out to, as well as the first (and actually only) woman with whom I've had a sexual relationship.)

It's now ten years later and I still have only officially come out to a handful of people. I tend to be very choosy when it comes to who I let in on this, just because I'm never completely sure how people will react. But I am very glad to have finally realized who I am.

i came out around 15-16 yrs old. my parents were really cool about it. i'd always admired the female body..and felt things about it. but it wasnt until i was around 15 or 16 that i finally was like ok...who am i kidding lol

I came out in my teens, but honestly have not discussed it with certain people. I admitted it in class one day in high school and got in an argument with a girl who wouldn't sit by me. I told her just because she is straight does not mean she is going to be all over every boy in class so why would I be weird towards her just because I'm attracted to girls.

My vote was more of when I realized I was bisexual. I'm not out to more than a couple of people.

I'm only partially out. Friends and a few select coworkers know. Typically if asked I'll be upfront but it's not something I include in my introductions to new people. Sometimes it seems like gay and lesbian people can grasp but bisexuality is a whole new realm of misunderstanding.

As for my story, I first tried to kiss a girl friend of mine in 4th grade. I didn't know what it meant to want to do that and I kind of shoved that form my mind until much later when I was about 13 and had an intense crush on a girl I knew. I spent a lot of time losing sleep because I thought I was a lesbian but could understand why I also felt an attraction to guys. Again, I tried to shove it from my mind. It was after my first serious and sexual relationship ended when I was in high school I began to realize I was bisexual and it wasn't something to be terrified of or confused by. I came into my sexuality a lot after that relationship. Fortunately there wasn't really any backlash once people started finding out. My friends just took it and shrugged their shoulders. It didn't matter to them. I did have one religious coworker who tried to convince me that finding other women pretty didn't mean I was bisexual. I just ignored her.

My family still doesn't know but i try to test the waters when I bring up topics regarding bisexuality and homosexuality. Maybe one day I'll at least feel ok enough to come out to my mother.