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Contributor: pix pix
I'm hesitant about the idea of giving yourself a permanent label...
I'm really against the idea of giving someone else a label.
Just do what you enjoy doing, be with people you're attracted to, and don't force yourself to do or like anything.
03/02/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Personally, I would only concern myself with my opinion on an issue like this. So, I recommend that you disregard anything you may have heard or seen before and consider only your own opinion, thoughts, and beliefs.
03/03/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
What matters is you find someone to make you happy, right? Gender and labels don't mean a thing as long as you're happy.
03/22/2012
Contributor: tigertiger tigertiger
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Originally posted by Emma Star Baby
So, I've been struggling with trying to understand if I am, indeed, bi-sexual or if I may be lesbian. Why am I having such a hard time figuring it out? Well.. here's why;

Ever since I can remember I've always be extremely attracted ... more
i'm not going to tell you what to label yourself because i just don't think that's something anyone should tell anyone else; you've got to decide what you're comfortable with because nobody fits into a little box perfectly.

BUT i wanted to point out that there's a difference between sexual attraction and aesthetic attraction. you can like/appreciate the beauty of the human body w/o necessarily wanting to do anything physical with that person. and as for finding penises unattractive - well, nothing wrong with that, but maybe you're just put off by equipment that's different from your own and is maybe unfamiliar? idk, that's just a thought, but like i said you ultimately have to decide for yourself what label you're comfortable with
03/25/2012
Contributor: altheasmarnella altheasmarnella
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Originally posted by Emma Star Baby
So, I've been struggling with trying to understand if I am, indeed, bi-sexual or if I may be lesbian. Why am I having such a hard time figuring it out? Well.. here's why;

Ever since I can remember I've always be extremely attracted ... more
just do what you do...really no need for the label
you are clearly more attracted to women tho, esp when it gets to the bedroom
03/05/2013
Contributor: dks210 dks210
Sexual orientation is a very personal subject, and only you can label yourself. But, actually, who says you have to label yourself at all?
03/25/2013
Contributor: nope nope
I put "other" because it's a very personal decision.
I'm a woman and I'm attracted to men (mostly men I'll never meet) sometimes and my partner is non-binary but I still think of myself of as a lesbian, even though I wish I had a more accurate term for myself.
I've chosen to identify with "lesbian," for the time being, anyway, because it's the best word I have for "I never want to be involved with a man" hahaha
03/27/2013
Contributor: bog bog
Quote:
Originally posted by Emma Star Baby
So, I've been struggling with trying to understand if I am, indeed, bi-sexual or if I may be lesbian. Why am I having such a hard time figuring it out? Well.. here's why;

Ever since I can remember I've always be extremely attracted ... more
Don't worry so much about labels. You're just a person, you are whatever you are. Sexuality can be fluid. Just be yourself and do what you want.
04/25/2013
Contributor: Adnerbmw Adnerbmw
You dont have to have a label. If your attracted to girls and thats who you date and or hook up with then good. If you enjoy looking at guys but dont want to touch thats fine too. If later down the road you meet a guy that you want to be with sexually and that works for you thats good too. I think you dont have to have a label to be happy. Just be happy and yourself. dont worry about labeling yourself.
04/26/2013