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Contributor: 3TLOVER 3TLOVER
i have a friend who says she doesn't enjoy orgasms...she loves how it feels leading up to the orgasm...basically she would rather stop before she orgasms because it's painful and intense...i found it interesting. i guess different strokes with different folks.

Are there others who experience pain instead of pleasure during orgasms?
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yes, i experience pain during orgasms it's just too intense
2
no, having a orgasm is the best feeling in the world
60
sometimes, it depends
24
Total votes: 86 (80 voters)
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08/02/2012
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Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
I used to have this problem a lot. It just sort of got better with time. Now the only time it happens is if I orgasm too much. I'm multi-orgasmic and cum easily, so if we hit past my limit they start to hurt.
08/02/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Occasionally they'll hurt a little but not intensely.
08/02/2012
Contributor: HB042 HB042
Sometimes it will hurt quite a bit... but it's not often. If I'm feeling pressured to come, it's more likely to happen.
08/02/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
I used to have a disease called endometriosis which did make sex and especially orgasms seriously painful and something to be endured. After my hysterectomy, though, I have not had a painful orgasm., cramps, or labor like waves of pain. Pain-free sex for over 20 years--a blessing!!
08/02/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
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Originally posted by 3TLOVER
i have a friend who says she doesn't enjoy orgasms...she loves how it feels leading up to the orgasm...basically she would rather stop before she orgasms because it's painful and intense...i found it interesting. i guess different strokes ... more
I don't find them painful at all.
08/02/2012
Contributor: 3TLOVER 3TLOVER
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Originally posted by js250
I used to have a disease called endometriosis which did make sex and especially orgasms seriously painful and something to be endured. After my hysterectomy, though, I have not had a painful orgasm., cramps, or labor like waves of pain. Pain-free sex ... more
that is truly a blessing, i'm glad your doing better
08/02/2012
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
I've never had a painful orgasm... they're all good for me.
08/02/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I love having orgasms, they're never painful.
08/02/2012
Contributor: nope nope
I'm an orgasm fiend, basically so yeah no pain whatsoever, aside from the odd leg cramp that can happen haha
08/03/2012
Contributor: LLmama LLmama
I've never experienced a painful orgasm!
08/03/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
Never had a painful orgasm. Occasionally after lots of sex and a really long erection there is some slight discomfort in my penis, but never from the orgasm itself.
08/03/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
It's the intensity for sure. Sometimes it's so strong it "hurts," but not really. It's like pleasure and pain all at once.
08/03/2012
Contributor: Do emu Do emu
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Originally posted by 3TLOVER
i have a friend who says she doesn't enjoy orgasms...she loves how it feels leading up to the orgasm...basically she would rather stop before she orgasms because it's painful and intense...i found it interesting. i guess different strokes ... more
Sometimes it depends on experiences from the past. I used to have this problem, but I'm okay now.
08/03/2012
Contributor: VictoriaDaniel1 VictoriaDaniel1
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Originally posted by 3TLOVER
i have a friend who says she doesn't enjoy orgasms...she loves how it feels leading up to the orgasm...basically she would rather stop before she orgasms because it's painful and intense...i found it interesting. i guess different strokes ... more
I've never tried getting myself off till resently. I'm 22 so yes I know this is odd but it just felt wierd touching myself so the other day I got my first rabbit dildo/vibrator and when I try to keep my self from cumming it does hurt. my husband has had to teach me to relax and to just let it happen. If it feels go why stop. So orgasms only hurt when I'm to scared to let it go.
08/03/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
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Originally posted by 3TLOVER
i have a friend who says she doesn't enjoy orgasms...she loves how it feels leading up to the orgasm...basically she would rather stop before she orgasms because it's painful and intense...i found it interesting. i guess different strokes ... more
I love the feeling of orgasms.
08/03/2012
Contributor: Charry Charry
It depends on the foreplay beforehand.
08/03/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
I have never experienced pain from one.
08/04/2012
Contributor: LadyDarknezz LadyDarknezz
Lately I've noticed some pain with my orgasms, but that could be related to my medical condition. I need to talk to my doc about it soon.
08/04/2012
Contributor: Ouroborean Ouroborean
I don't think I've ever had an unpleasant orgasm.
08/04/2012
Contributor: AK Bunny AK Bunny
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Originally posted by 3TLOVER
i have a friend who says she doesn't enjoy orgasms...she loves how it feels leading up to the orgasm...basically she would rather stop before she orgasms because it's painful and intense...i found it interesting. i guess different strokes ... more
Pain during orgasm? For some reason that doesn't seem right. Maybe she should get checked out, just in case?
08/04/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
I only experience painful orgasms if I get off via a method that involves a LOT of stimulation, like a really intense electrically-powered vibrator, or rough fingering.
08/06/2012
Contributor: Cat E. Cat E.
Quote:
Originally posted by 3TLOVER
i have a friend who says she doesn't enjoy orgasms...she loves how it feels leading up to the orgasm...basically she would rather stop before she orgasms because it's painful and intense...i found it interesting. i guess different strokes ... more
Great post. I've never heard of a woman having painful orgasms. You learn something new everyday!
08/09/2012
Contributor: glitterbombs glitterbombs
I used to kind of have this issue... then I got used to it, or figured out what worked better, or something. idk.
08/10/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
I experience no pain
08/11/2012
Contributor: Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
Pleasant, I feel sorry for anybody who has them and their painful
08/22/2012
Contributor: SoloJoe SoloJoe
never pain
08/30/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by 3TLOVER
i have a friend who says she doesn't enjoy orgasms...she loves how it feels leading up to the orgasm...basically she would rather stop before she orgasms because it's painful and intense...i found it interesting. i guess different strokes ... more
I've never heard of that before, but I think orgasms are the best feeling in the world
09/22/2012
Contributor: GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
I've never had pain with orgasms
09/22/2012
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by 3TLOVER
i have a friend who says she doesn't enjoy orgasms...she loves how it feels leading up to the orgasm...basically she would rather stop before she orgasms because it's painful and intense...i found it interesting. i guess different strokes ... more
My wife's only complaint is if she gets a migraine during sex...
09/23/2012