I can make myself do it! But I have never had a guy make me squirt!! And believe me it takes time and practice to learn how to do it.... You have to know you body very very well.....
I got the Smart wand by Lelo recently so I was in my swing while my husband was rubbing me with the wand and using a rabbit vibe for insertion, for the first ever I squirted. It has happened a few times now!
I can feel the extra liquid expelling during orgasm, but it's doesn't actually "squirt" out all over. Unfortunately, he's gotten a face full a time or two.