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Do women like toys to be hard or start with something soft first?

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Contributor: CherryDyke CherryDyke
I can go straight to glass. So jump right to it is right.
09/01/2011
Contributor: BellaDonna2884 BellaDonna2884
depends on the mood
09/02/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
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Originally posted by markeagleone
Do women like things to start out like a guy or do they want to enjoy a slow work up? I wanted a cross section of opinions to better know my partner.
deff want and like a mix of all
09/04/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by markeagleone
Do women like things to start out like a guy or do they want to enjoy a slow work up? I wanted a cross section of opinions to better know my partner.
I'm a slow and soft girl, till we get going. Then I want serious, hard thrusting by my guy to "send me there". No "soft/slow" once he is inside, for me, anyway.
09/05/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
I prefer forplay first, not straight into sex when I'm not even worked up yet. Painful! We like to use toys, oral, etc. then when I'm super excited...!
09/05/2011
Contributor: Ash1141 Ash1141
Definitely a mix.
09/21/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
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Originally posted by RubenesqueAna
If you wanna know your partner better, I say you ask him or her, not us.
I agree too.

Personally it's a mix, but I lean more toward jump right in. I certainly don't like it when it stays soft.
09/21/2011
Contributor: eroticmutt eroticmutt
Quote:
Originally posted by markeagleone
Do women like things to start out like a guy or do they want to enjoy a slow work up? I wanted a cross section of opinions to better know my partner.
Personally I like a firm silicone toy. Some silicone ones are just too soft, while others feel much firmer and can stimulate my g spot better. I don't like really hard toys though- at least not from the experience I have with one glass wand.
10/12/2011
Contributor: Kahlen Kahlen
Quote:
Originally posted by markeagleone
Do women like things to start out like a guy or do they want to enjoy a slow work up? I wanted a cross section of opinions to better know my partner.
It all depends on what the woman is into, or more specifically what kind of mood she's in. There are times when I just want to dive right in, and other times I like more sensual foreplay.
10/14/2011
Contributor: Hibangel Hibangel
depends on mood
10/26/2011
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
Everyone's different, but I always need to start a little slowly. Sometimes things get cranking faster, but I never want to just JUMP RIGHT IN without any buildup!
10/28/2011
Contributor: leelee leelee
Quote:
Originally posted by markeagleone
Do women like things to start out like a guy or do they want to enjoy a slow work up? I wanted a cross section of opinions to better know my partner.
a mix
02/15/2012
Contributor: Passion plum Passion plum
I like to mix it up.
05/13/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by markeagleone
Do women like things to start out like a guy or do they want to enjoy a slow work up? I wanted a cross section of opinions to better know my partner.
I like both, but sometimes I definitely need to get warmed up.
05/15/2012
Contributor: Allison.Wilder Allison.Wilder
mix of both
05/20/2012
Contributor: HippieFeet HippieFeet
Soft first, hard later
06/14/2012
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
I like it both ways. It just depends.
06/14/2012
Contributor: MistressDandelion MistressDandelion
I have hypersensitivity, so soft and slow feels just like hard and rough to me.
06/14/2012
Contributor: LoveBug721 LoveBug721
Quote:
Originally posted by markeagleone
Do women like things to start out like a guy or do they want to enjoy a slow work up? I wanted a cross section of opinions to better know my partner.
both
06/14/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
For me, it depends on the type of play. If we have had a bunch of rough quickies then I would prefer soft and slow and vice versa.
06/14/2012
Contributor: remember.me remember.me
Mix of both
07/06/2012
Contributor: SimpleHedonist SimpleHedonist
Most of the time I like hard and fast, but every now and then slow and soft is nice too!
07/06/2012
Contributor: sweet&lush sweet&lush
I like both but I prefer we start off slow and work our way to...
03/06/2013
Contributor: dawnkye dawnkye
I like to jump right into things.
03/06/2013