Do women like things to start out like a guy or do they want to enjoy a slow work up? I wanted a cross section of opinions to better know my partner.
Do women like toys to be hard or start with something soft first?
01/16/2011
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Personally speaking, sensations are such that starting fast and hard makes softer touches less effective afterward. So a build up is much nicer.
01/17/2011
If you wanna know your partner better, I say you ask him or her, not us.
01/17/2011
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Agreed.
Originally posted by
RubenesqueAna
If you wanna know your partner better, I say you ask him or her, not us.
01/17/2011
Variety is more important than anything else. I'm inclined to start slowly and warm her up - but sometimes she just wants to go hard right away. Avoid the rut - mix it up - watch her body language.
For my wife, if she's a little preoccupied or reluctant the slow approach is best - but if it's Friday night and we both know it's going to be hot - it's crushed lips, torn clothes, nips, bites, fingers, dildos and vibes - in one fast blur of action.
For my wife, if she's a little preoccupied or reluctant the slow approach is best - but if it's Friday night and we both know it's going to be hot - it's crushed lips, torn clothes, nips, bites, fingers, dildos and vibes - in one fast blur of action.
01/17/2011
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Agreed, it is very important to talk to your partner and see what he/she likes, because everyone likes different things.
Originally posted by
RubenesqueAna
If you wanna know your partner better, I say you ask him or her, not us.
01/17/2011
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I also agree that you should just ask.
Originally posted by
Airekah
Agreed, it is very important to talk to your partner and see what he/she likes, because everyone likes different things.
01/17/2011
I personally would say it depends on the mood I am in at the time. Some nights Soft and slow is preferable. Other time the rougher the better.
01/18/2011
I would have preffered something soft to start, but I didn't have that option.
01/27/2011
It really depends on my mood, but more often than not, I like things to start slowly at first. It puts me more at ease.
02/02/2011
Ahhh, mood makes all the difference.
Most times I'd rather a quicky but, ya know, at least SOME foreplay.
Most times I'd rather a quicky but, ya know, at least SOME foreplay.
02/03/2011
It's different every time. There are days when I am just not in the mood for a really hard toy like a hard plastic G Spot toy. Other times, My Man will just jump in with whatever he grabs and it's fun.
I do usually like to play and get wet before he grabs a toy and jams it in, though. He usually "tests the waters" with his fingers before using a toy.
I do usually like to play and get wet before he grabs a toy and jams it in, though. He usually "tests the waters" with his fingers before using a toy.
02/03/2011
I think depends on who it is. Everyone has days where they want it hard, or they want it soft. Probably just good to communicate.
02/13/2011
I think it would vary and depend on the person. I like things both ways-
03/03/2011
I choose a mix of both. It always depends. I suggest you just talk to her about it. Only she knows what she likes best.
03/18/2011
Depends on the mood. If we're going at it in the shower, it's gotta be quick or we'll end up in a cold shower and I friggen hate being cold. If we're anywhere else, we take it slow.
04/09/2011
Build up is incredibly important. If my husband were to just start fucking me without any sort of foreplay, well that's just not going to go over well. Granted, some situations call for less foreplay than others.
04/09/2011
In general, I don't much like hard toys these days
04/14/2011
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I saw both. too hard can be painful and too soft not good enough, atleast for me
Originally posted by
markeagleone
Do women like things to start out like a guy or do they want to enjoy a slow work up? I wanted a cross section of opinions to better know my partner.
05/27/2011
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Yep. For me personally, with material things at least, variety is the spice of life.
Originally posted by
phunkyphreak
I think it would vary and depend on the person. I like things both ways-
05/27/2011
depends on the toy & it's use
05/27/2011
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Start soft and slow and build up your momentum. I like both it just depends on my mood at the time.
Originally posted by
markeagleone
Do women like things to start out like a guy or do they want to enjoy a slow work up? I wanted a cross section of opinions to better know my partner.
05/27/2011
it depends on the mood. sometimes starting hard is perfect and sometimes soft is good
06/13/2011
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Anything too overwhelming at first really makes me lose interest.
Originally posted by
markeagleone
Do women like things to start out like a guy or do they want to enjoy a slow work up? I wanted a cross section of opinions to better know my partner.
06/16/2011
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I think it depends on the woman. Although some days I like it hard and fast, I really need a slow build up to climax.
Originally posted by
markeagleone
Do women like things to start out like a guy or do they want to enjoy a slow work up? I wanted a cross section of opinions to better know my partner.
06/16/2011
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100% agree
Originally posted by
RubenesqueAna
If you wanna know your partner better, I say you ask him or her, not us.
07/15/2011
I start with something softer
08/01/2011
Personally, start softer!
08/01/2011
It's somewhere in between for my fiancee and I.
08/01/2011
mix of both
08/04/2011
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