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Persephone Nightmare
Lmao Trust me, I know I didn't make it a week before giving in, lol
I am really sorry about that. I had somewhat of a "By Jove!" Sherlock moment and wanted to make sure I wasn't thinking crazily. That and I'm usually the
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Lmao Trust me, I know I didn't make it a week before giving in, lol
I am really sorry about that. I had somewhat of a "By Jove!" Sherlock moment and wanted to make sure I wasn't thinking crazily. That and I'm usually the type of person who goes by this saying (can't remember where I heard it, and I can't remember it perfectly verbatim) when it comes to situations where keeping everyone in a state of anon is best:
"You can say the name. You can say the situation. But you shouldn't put the name to the situation"
Pretty much meaning: It's okay to talk about things that have transpired, but be sure to keep names out of it.
I've been trying to cut back on that, because I realize that even if I censor names and keep everyone completely anonymous, it's still generally frowned upon (and I do see why, since some can still figure things out even with a veil of anonymity)
And very true about PM-ing Kristi. Though since she's already on it, I don't know if I should go ahead and tell her what I noticed, since she may already know. I'm not sure, I'll sleep on it, since it's late anyway, and then go from there
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Lol me either shhhhh!
Not a problem! I just didn't want this to turn into what happened last time. I totally understand how you feel though. I do it too and have turned my slueth findings into Kristi since then. She has done an awesome job doing follow ups.
You are right, it is really easy to figure stuff out on here even when names are removed. General statements instead of specific instances are best when trying to get a community opinion. I'd go ahead and tell her. It couldn't hurt since we did not see her in the thread again.