Does size matter?

Contributor: Greenleaf Greenleaf
Does it matter? Yes. Too big *or* too small. Is it the end-all be-all of a happy sex life? Nooooope. YMMV of course.
05/20/2012
Contributor: theavocadopit theavocadopit
Quote:
Originally posted by NicNat
Does size really freaking matter?
For the people that say size does matter, whats the 'right' size ? Sounds kind of weird asking.

I am a female and I personally think size doesn't really matter. I have only slept with my ... more
05/21/2012
Contributor: breebree breebree
it has never matter to me
05/26/2012
Contributor: Bittenflame Bittenflame
I don't think size matters. It's how well you can use what you have that does matter
05/28/2012
Contributor: lilgrump lilgrump
I am female and yes size matters - to a certain extent. I have been with several men and I have no issues with an average sized penis, or even a slightly below average penis.

The problem is when it is far below average. I actually had sex with someone where I thought (although I really wanted to ask out loud) if it was in. I'm pretty sure he knew about his shortcomings [pun somewhat intended] because he was seriously amazing at oral.

I've never gotten to experience someone that was "too big" but I have enjoyed a well endowed man. I didn't find it any more pleasurable than a man with an average sized cock who knew what he was doing.
05/28/2012
Contributor: elli elli
I prefer average sizes, but PIV is only one way for me to get off, and size is unimportant to having an amazing sex life. Great communication, adventurousness, and compatible kinks are much more important to me.
05/29/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
For me, size does matter. I don't need a huge guy, but I don't want a small one. It's not a deal breaker though.
05/29/2012
Contributor: alittlebit alittlebit
Size isn't an issue for me, mostly because there is more to sex than penis-in-vagina.
05/31/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
the way i see it is: if lesbians can use toys and love each other, why can't straight women get over it if their man is small and just use toys with him to get off. makes sense to me.
06/01/2012
Contributor: Short Cake Short Cake
I've had guys that were well endowed and the sex absolutely sucked! Sometimes it matters and other times it don't, not sure how to explain it! I just know for me it does matter
06/05/2012
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by NicNat
Does size really freaking matter?
For the people that say size does matter, whats the 'right' size ? Sounds kind of weird asking.

I am a female and I personally think size doesn't really matter. I have only slept with my ... more
I think when your in the average range in all aspects its not an issue if its a little one way or the other... I have been with one guy who was huge and one guy who was so big it just wouldn't work. The huge one did but some positions hurt. I was with one guy who was so small in length and diameter that it just wasnt satisfying no matter what we tried but he was a super nice guy and a great kisser.
06/05/2012
Contributor: Love Obsessed Love Obsessed
Size matters a lot to me I don't want a guy who is too big and I don't want a guys who's too small.I used to think that I wouldn't care if a guy is too small but,now I realize that I wouldn't feel anything.Under five in a half or maybe five inches erect is just to small for me.
06/05/2012
Contributor: Nora29714 Nora29714
yes, i don't want a guy that is to big and i'd be uncomfortable
06/05/2012
Contributor: tami tami
size does matter...if it is too big then it is not coming any where near me i am not going to be ripped or torn and uncomfortable.. if it is too small then move along.
06/05/2012
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by NicNat
Does size really freaking matter?
For the people that say size does matter, whats the 'right' size ? Sounds kind of weird asking.

I am a female and I personally think size doesn't really matter. I have only slept with my ... more
7" is a big cock. 5" is average. tell him to stop watching pornos like they're representation of real life - they aint! if YOU like his cock, that should be all that matters, right? i hope you're able to help him out with his lack of cock confidence.

anyhow, it's the size of the motion in the ocean!


personally, larger cocks kinda suck, because my cervix is sensitive... any banging into it HURTS. so a 7" cock in me would never be able to go all the way in... my cervix resides about 4.5" deep in me. 7" would cause alot of cramping and pain, and i'd have to stop having sex. it's happened before.
06/05/2012
Contributor: Melan!e Melan!e
Quote:
Originally posted by Silverdrop
That's actually above average. I think his issue is between his ears, not his legs.
I agree!

Many men are concerned that they might not be enough. My partner has expressed concerns too. But I have assured him that I love everything about his penis (he is just above the average). I am happy and he is happy too. That's what matters.
06/05/2012
Contributor: meezerosity meezerosity
It depends. If they know what they are doing size matters less.
06/05/2012
Contributor: squire squire
I think it depends on the partner. I'm a larger guy and have had girlfriends who were quite petite with what seemed like long canals, other much taller girls with shorter canals who felt pain often no matter how gentle. I think there is always going to be an average that people enjoy, as it doesn't operate on either extreme, but when it comes down to it, for me, is how you fit sexually with the person your interested in...mind and body..as we are all unique
06/11/2012
Contributor: Anne Anne
I think it's how you use it that matters.
06/29/2012
Contributor: heather-mooney heather-mooney
It matters to an extent, I guess. But it doesn't sound like your husband needs those pills! If they even work.
08/18/2012
Contributor: SoloJoe SoloJoe
size matters
08/25/2012
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
I don't think the size matters at all, it's what he can do with it that counts.
09/09/2012
Contributor: autumnchibi autumnchibi
I dont care about the size, I just care about our feelings for each other
09/09/2012
Contributor: ttoddrum ttoddrum
im large and love my size
i would not want to be smaller
so on the obverse end - size matters.
09/13/2012
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
I love my husband's cock. He's about 6 inches. He satisfies me in ways most men couldn't dream of. That being said, there is nothing quite like having your pussy filled with 10 inches of cock if the guy actually knows how to use it. Here's the thing; most guys with huge cocks think that that's all it takes. They think because they have a huge cock they don't really need to have any kind of technique. This is where more average size guys excel. They know they can;t fill a woman, so they make sure that they have some great moves. Huge cock guys, for the most part, just thrust and think that that's good enough. Obviously it's not. BUT, if a guy has a huge cock and has some technique as well, well look the fuck out and prepare to have your world rocked.
09/13/2012
Contributor: StasyRavish StasyRavish
This one really made me think. I've been with a handful of guys, all relatively different sizes. My most recent partner is the biggest I've ever had. Not too much girth, but twice the length of at least 3 of my other partners. He doesn't put too much effort in, but it's still pretty good, and when he does put effort in, it's amazing. As for the other guys, although they were half the size, they each had their own little things up their sleeves to make things in bed just as amazing as when the bigger guy is actually trying.

I subscribe to the "if he knows how to use it" train of thought.
09/13/2012
Contributor: sw33t1zm3 sw33t1zm3
Quote:
Originally posted by NicNat
Does size really freaking matter?
For the people that say size does matter, whats the 'right' size ? Sounds kind of weird asking.

I am a female and I personally think size doesn't really matter. I have only slept with my ... more
yes size matters
09/14/2012
Contributor: Lavendar Lavendar
I think it matters to some extent
09/14/2012
Contributor: SavingMyself SavingMyself
I've only been with one guy, but I can tell you size does matter. I think my husband is the perfect size for me. I think girth matters more than length, just because of the way the nerve endings in the vagina are laid out. Also, I think too big would be just as bad as too small.
09/15/2012
Contributor: edenfantasys* edenfantasys*
Size matters to me, as a petite lady.
09/16/2012