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Contributor: cectru cectru
I have have to say that it's not the length that matters. Its more the girth for me. But that is because I have a short vagina so anything over 5" just chills outside.

But even then, size isn't a deal breaker. For me, its about g-spot stimulation. If his penis is thick, awesome. But if its not, and he is circumcised, then that is enough to stimulate the important places.
02/22/2012
Contributor: jmex83 jmex83
Quote:
Originally posted by NicNat
Does size really freaking matter?
For the people that say size does matter, whats the 'right' size ? Sounds kind of weird asking.

I am a female and I personally think size doesn't really matter. I have only slept with my ... more
God I hope not LOL!
02/23/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
I'm female, I think it does matter, but there are ways to work around it.
02/23/2012
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
I think so. Like many other posters have said, I would never DUMP a guy ONLY because of the size of his penis, but it is still important. I can't deal with TOO much length, but I can handle quite a bit of girth, so ideally I need someone who fits me well! Otherwise sex is uncomfortable, or just not that much fun
02/26/2012
Contributor: Brandonn Brandonn
Size only matters when a guys junk is too big, or small
02/26/2012
Contributor: Angel Baby Angel Baby
Girth matters because the female cervix is set right at 3 1/2 inches anything longer and it hurts plus is just a waste. Its how big around the guy is that matters.
02/26/2012
Contributor: dks210 dks210
Size matters to a point. Your husband sounds like the perfect size, actually. Too small is disappointing, and too big can hurt a lot.
02/26/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
I think proportion is more important than size; it should fit the guy's body and have a good length to width ratio.

My preferred range is between 6"-8" in length, and 5 1/4"-6" in circumference.
02/26/2012
Contributor: corsetsaurus rex corsetsaurus rex
Empathy and consideration for your enjoyment matter a lot more than size. I don't care how perfect that thing fits into you, if he doesn't give a damn, you're not going to be feeling much of anything. Conversely if it's micro-sized, but he really wants to see you get off, he will make it happen. Outside of this size may be a factor, but if it is I haven't noticed.
02/28/2012
Contributor: mlmac mlmac
I'm a male and I voted that size doesn't matter. My wife loves what I got and that's all it matters to me.
02/28/2012
Contributor: CindyH CindyH
Quote:
Originally posted by NicNat
Does size really freaking matter?
For the people that say size does matter, whats the 'right' size ? Sounds kind of weird asking.

I am a female and I personally think size doesn't really matter. I have only slept with my ... more
size doesnt matter
02/28/2012
Contributor: CindyH CindyH
it is how you use it not the size of it
02/28/2012
Contributor: John E W John E W
It's basically each person to their thoughts. But size usually matters. I'm above average in size at about 7.5 long and 1.75 in girth. For my Gf it's a great size considering I don't thrust hard in some positions.
I have had some probs with previous girlfriends and hitting their cervix. Some like it others didn't.
The size of a magicians wand doesn't really count it's how he uses it
02/29/2012
Contributor: fredacarl fredacarl
Quote:
Originally posted by NicNat
Does size really freaking matter?
For the people that say size does matter, whats the 'right' size ? Sounds kind of weird asking.

I am a female and I personally think size doesn't really matter. I have only slept with my ... more
I am a female and size does matter.
02/29/2012
Contributor: Woman China Woman China
I hate to say it... but YES size does matter.

Think of it this way... would you want a bullet vibe (the watch battery kind) or The Hoss/T-rex or would you want something like the G4 Tiger?

For me? The Tiger is the perfect size and girth.
03/06/2012
Contributor: Lady Bear Lady Bear
I think the extremes can matter but it all comes down to how you use it.
03/07/2012
Contributor: AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
I'm one of those guys that isn't hung up on my length. I'm not a porn star length, but I'm not tiny either. My wife has orgasms, we have a good sex life, so I don't worry about it.
03/08/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
My response is if the guy knows how to work what he's got small, big, thin, thick I don't care. I'd take a smaller guy that knows what he's doing than a large guy that doesn't have a clue.

Size isn't what's important to me.
03/08/2012
Contributor: freda freda
Quote:
Originally posted by NicNat
Does size really freaking matter?
For the people that say size does matter, whats the 'right' size ? Sounds kind of weird asking.

I am a female and I personally think size doesn't really matter. I have only slept with my ... more
it does matter
03/08/2012
Contributor: thebest thebest
yes, i like average size
03/11/2012
Contributor: kitty377 kitty377
Yeah like everyone else is saying he is much larger than average so he needs to get over it! Size does matter to me, my "first" was so small that it felt like a finger inside of me, very disappointing. But what I have learned since then is that he was extremely below average size.
03/11/2012
Contributor: Khanner Khanner
I think this is a personal preference sort of thing. Of course almost everyone will have an ideal size and a size that will not physically fit their anatomy. And then there are the people who just don't care.

When someone's self conscious about their dick, they have to keep in mind who's going to be enjoying it. I'm assuming you're the only person your husband is sleeping with, and you say it's perfect. That should be the thing that matters most, even if his dong was less than average.

Compare that to someone who's a porn star. I think the reason the dicks are so big in porn is because when 2 bodies are close together, it's pretty hard to see the action going on. So it's easier to see when half of it is hanging out. Often people talk about how porn is giving women unrealistic body images, but I think it effects people with penises as well.

Also, a lot of people enjoy fingering and can orgasm from that alone. Keeping in mind the average finger is much smaller than the average penis, what does that tell you?
03/12/2012
Contributor: tigertiger tigertiger
Quote:
Originally posted by NicNat
Does size really freaking matter?
For the people that say size does matter, whats the 'right' size ? Sounds kind of weird asking.

I am a female and I personally think size doesn't really matter. I have only slept with my ... more
nope don't care
03/20/2012
Contributor: garylangworthy420 garylangworthy420
this was interesting to read from a male viewpoint
03/21/2012
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
a big penis means nothing but pain to me and it is worthless if the cant use it my bfs is on the small side and its the best sex if ever had because he doesnt hurt me he can have sex over and over
03/22/2012
Contributor: WD40watcher WD40watcher
Quote:
Originally posted by NicNat
Does size really freaking matter?
For the people that say size does matter, whats the 'right' size ? Sounds kind of weird asking.

I am a female and I personally think size doesn't really matter. I have only slept with my ... more
I think size does matter, but not in the way people generally think. Larger penises may actually hurt a women or at least make her very uncomfortable during sex, while smaller size may be more pleasuresome. So it's not who has the bigger penis but more what size fits the woman the best.
04/03/2012
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I hope this is appropriate; "Q: Why do women have such a hard time parallel parking? A: Because for their entire adult life men have been telling them that 4 inches is really 8." Joke courtesy of my husband. (And I can parallel park better than he can.....)

sorry....

As for the size discussion, I will discreetly say nothing. PIV is important, but most women orgasm from other forms of sex (or other forms of sex and PIV) and as long as a man has.... good skills, manual, oral, PIV, anal, touching, kissing, etc and lot of enthusiasm.....and he cares about your orgasm, it's good.
04/03/2012
Contributor: roskat roskat
It matters but in the sense that bigger is automatically better. Nobody likes their cervix punched, but a micro penis would such a let down.
04/07/2012
Contributor: Chami Chami
i think size matters because my man is not small at all and his still hurts me sometimes i couldn't imagine being with a guy bigger than him omfg ouch so i thin it matters but i wouldn't want anything bigger than what i have
05/02/2012
Contributor: Allison.Wilder Allison.Wilder
I think what really matters is not just the size, but if it's used appropriately. I've been with guys with small penises and it was wonderful. I've been with guys with huge penises and it was awful sex. If you know what you're doing/how to use it and aren't afraid to use fingers/tongue/toys then you'll be just fine.
05/20/2012