I would do neither.
                        
                        
                        Would you share your SO?
02/21/2013
			        
			        
                
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                        I would share
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            sillylilkitten
                                        
                                        
                                            
                                                
                                    
                                
                                                    If you were in some kind of relationship, would you "share" your significant other? Threesomes, spouse swapping, orgies, play parties, anything like that? And if you were single, would you participate if someone wanted to share their
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                                                    If you were in some kind of relationship, would you "share" your significant other? Threesomes, spouse swapping, orgies, play parties, anything like that? And if you were single, would you participate if someone wanted to share their significant other with you? I'm just providing some basic options, feel free to elaborate in the comments.
Also, something to think about, do you think it would be selfish or hypocritical of someone to participate if someone shared their SO with them, but not share their own SO? less
                                            
                                        Also, something to think about, do you think it would be selfish or hypocritical of someone to participate if someone shared their SO with them, but not share their own SO? less
02/21/2013
			        
			        
                
                        We tried that when we first got together, and it didn't end well. I had to leave for a min, and when I came back, it was...over. It took us awhile to bounce back from that. I've been in threesomes when I was single, with other couples. It was great. As to being in a threesome, now, with my SO...I don't think I could do it. It's been so long since I've been with a woman, I think I'd be greedy.
                        
                        
                        02/21/2013
			        
			        
                
                        I would do neither.
                        
                        
                        02/21/2013
			        
			        
                
                        Not our thing.
                        
                        
                        02/24/2013
			        
			        
                
                        Absolutely not, no way.
                        
                        
                        02/25/2013
			        
			        
                
                        I couldn't do either.
                        
                        
                        02/25/2013
			        
			        
                
                        He's all mine. Nope.
                        
                        
                        02/25/2013
			        
			        
                
                        I would try it.
                        
                        
                        02/25/2013
			        
			        
                
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                        I do not share nor will I be shared
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            sillylilkitten
                                        
                                        
                                            
                                                
                                    
                                
                                                    If you were in some kind of relationship, would you "share" your significant other? Threesomes, spouse swapping, orgies, play parties, anything like that? And if you were single, would you participate if someone wanted to share their
                                                    ...
                                                    more
                                                
                                                
                                                    If you were in some kind of relationship, would you "share" your significant other? Threesomes, spouse swapping, orgies, play parties, anything like that? And if you were single, would you participate if someone wanted to share their significant other with you? I'm just providing some basic options, feel free to elaborate in the comments.
Also, something to think about, do you think it would be selfish or hypocritical of someone to participate if someone shared their SO with them, but not share their own SO? less
                                            
                                        Also, something to think about, do you think it would be selfish or hypocritical of someone to participate if someone shared their SO with them, but not share their own SO? less
02/25/2013
			        
			        
                
                        Have discussed this as a couple but when it comes down to it I just can't share, SO is far too precious to me. Maybe that makes me insecure? Oh well. Don't really care if it does.
                        
                        
                        02/25/2013
			        
			        
                
                        There has to be a set of rules in place before you share if you do. its not easy, did it once wont do it again.
                        
                        
                        02/25/2013
			        
			        
                
                    
                    
                        
                    
                        
                            
                                Cat E.
                            
                    
                    
                
                        I'd never share or swap.
                        
                        
                        02/25/2013
			        
			        
                
                        Neither. I don't like to share.
                        
                        
                        02/25/2013
			        
			        
                
                        I couldn't do that.
                        
                        
                        02/25/2013
			        
			        
                
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                        Open relationships rock!
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            sillylilkitten
                                        
                                        
                                            
                                                
                                    
                                
                                                    If you were in some kind of relationship, would you "share" your significant other? Threesomes, spouse swapping, orgies, play parties, anything like that? And if you were single, would you participate if someone wanted to share their
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                                                    more
                                                
                                                
                                                    If you were in some kind of relationship, would you "share" your significant other? Threesomes, spouse swapping, orgies, play parties, anything like that? And if you were single, would you participate if someone wanted to share their significant other with you? I'm just providing some basic options, feel free to elaborate in the comments.
Also, something to think about, do you think it would be selfish or hypocritical of someone to participate if someone shared their SO with them, but not share their own SO? less
                                            
                                        Also, something to think about, do you think it would be selfish or hypocritical of someone to participate if someone shared their SO with them, but not share their own SO? less
02/25/2013
			        
			        
                
                        I wouldn't
                        
                        
                        02/25/2013
			        
			        
                
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                        I would do neither.
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            sillylilkitten
                                        
                                        
                                            
                                                
                                    
                                
                                                    If you were in some kind of relationship, would you "share" your significant other? Threesomes, spouse swapping, orgies, play parties, anything like that? And if you were single, would you participate if someone wanted to share their
                                                    ...
                                                    more
                                                
                                                
                                                    If you were in some kind of relationship, would you "share" your significant other? Threesomes, spouse swapping, orgies, play parties, anything like that? And if you were single, would you participate if someone wanted to share their significant other with you? I'm just providing some basic options, feel free to elaborate in the comments.
Also, something to think about, do you think it would be selfish or hypocritical of someone to participate if someone shared their SO with them, but not share their own SO? less
                                            
                                        Also, something to think about, do you think it would be selfish or hypocritical of someone to participate if someone shared their SO with them, but not share their own SO? less
02/25/2013
			        
			        
                
                        Nope, it doesn't appeal to either of us
                        
                        
                        02/25/2013
			        
			        
                
                        Neither. I really don't think I could do that.
                        
                        
                        02/26/2013
			        
			        
                
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                        I am comfortable sharing because I think it would be hot to watch him with someone else and I'd like to explore other people too. He is not comfortable with either of those so it is just a fantasy!
                        
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            sillylilkitten
                                        
                                        
                                            
                                                
                                    
                                
                                                    If you were in some kind of relationship, would you "share" your significant other? Threesomes, spouse swapping, orgies, play parties, anything like that? And if you were single, would you participate if someone wanted to share their
                                                    ...
                                                    more
                                                
                                                
                                                    If you were in some kind of relationship, would you "share" your significant other? Threesomes, spouse swapping, orgies, play parties, anything like that? And if you were single, would you participate if someone wanted to share their significant other with you? I'm just providing some basic options, feel free to elaborate in the comments.
Also, something to think about, do you think it would be selfish or hypocritical of someone to participate if someone shared their SO with them, but not share their own SO? less
                                            
                                        Also, something to think about, do you think it would be selfish or hypocritical of someone to participate if someone shared their SO with them, but not share their own SO? less
02/26/2013
			        
			        
                
                        I've never had the opportunity! 
                        
                        
                        02/27/2013
			        
			        
                
                        I've joked about it with my SO but in all honesty I have no interest in sharing her with anyone.
                        
                        
                        02/27/2013
			        
			        
                
                        We have talked about sharing but I worry about the emotional side of things... Its a great fantasy to talk about while we are having sex.
                        
                        
                        03/02/2013
			        
			        
                
                        I am shocked that so many people said no!  Given the right situation, I love threesomes, etc.  I am not the jealous type- I don't know if any of you people who said "no" are.  My husband would be down for it too, as was my last partner before him.
                        
                        
                        03/02/2013
			        
			        
                
                        my partner and i are in a pretty open relationship so we are cool with it.
                        
                        
                        03/02/2013
			        
			        
                
                        NO! I'd be like, bitch, stay da fuck away from mah man. I don't have a problem with it for other people, but my boyfriend is mine.
                        
                        
                        03/03/2013
			        
			        
                
                        No, neither of us would be interested in being with other people.
                        
                        
                        03/06/2013
			        
			        
                
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                        Took the words right out of my mouth!
                                        Originally posted by 
                                            Chilipepper
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            The ideas applied to my life make me queasy, to be honest.
                                        
                                    I am open and adventurous WITH my guy but don't think I could ever become adventurous in the sense of sharing him. Being with only him turns me on and satisfies me, and I feel it would weaken what we have to include other people...that's just how I am, for better or worse!
My guy, on the other hand, is totally open and relaxed. He used to have threesomes with previous partners. He is enthralled with the idea of orgies. Thankfully he also totally cool with being with just me, so that is what we do!
03/07/2013
			        
			        
                
                        I would only share my current guy if I was there, never alone with someone else. I don't think I could go off with someone else's partner, couples are just not my thing. 
I don't think it's selfish when the couple asks someone else to come into their home but that person wouldn't share their partner with someone else. Different people have different comfort zones and as long as everyone agrees I don't see a problem with it.
                        
                        I don't think it's selfish when the couple asks someone else to come into their home but that person wouldn't share their partner with someone else. Different people have different comfort zones and as long as everyone agrees I don't see a problem with it.
03/07/2013
			        
			        
                
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