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Contributor: sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
If you were in some kind of relationship, would you "share" your significant other? Threesomes, spouse swapping, orgies, play parties, anything like that? And if you were single, would you participate if someone wanted to share their significant other with you? I'm just providing some basic options, feel free to elaborate in the comments.

Also, something to think about, do you think it would be selfish or hypocritical of someone to participate if someone shared their SO with them, but not share their own SO?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I would share my SO.
9
I would participate if someone wanted to share their SO with me.
10
I would do both.
18
I would do neither.
55
Other
5
Total votes: 97 (91 voters)
Poll is closed
02/20/2013
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Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by sillylilkitten
If you were in some kind of relationship, would you "share" your significant other? Threesomes, spouse swapping, orgies, play parties, anything like that? And if you were single, would you participate if someone wanted to share their ... more
We don't share that way.
02/20/2013
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by sillylilkitten
If you were in some kind of relationship, would you "share" your significant other? Threesomes, spouse swapping, orgies, play parties, anything like that? And if you were single, would you participate if someone wanted to share their ... more
I'd think about both
02/20/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
I've thought about this and even briefly brushed upon this with my significant other. Both of us agree there would have a great deal of trust in the other one we would be sharing with. I mean, what if he or she, the one you were sharing with were "sleeping around?" I'm not talking about their freedom, I think you all know that but today's "hazards."

It sounds exciting and in my fantasy, yes even practical, but in real life? How often does it really work out for all concerned. I have a great deal of admiration and respect for the ones that do and applaud that kind of "sharing" but for me, no I don't see it possible.

As far as only my or my partner doing so and not allowing the other? It would have to go both ways. If I wanted to share, he would have to be able to do so as well.
02/20/2013
Contributor: EastCoast36 EastCoast36
I'm really not too interested, and I know my SO isn't. Sure, it's spicy to watch a threesome, orgy, or gangbang in porn on occasion, but we won't be participating with others.
02/20/2013
Contributor: srexom srexom
would never share.
02/20/2013
Contributor: tortilla tortilla
couldn't see myself in either scenario
02/20/2013
Contributor: big b big b
nope
02/20/2013
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
The ideas applied to my life make me queasy, to be honest.
02/20/2013
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
We don't share.
02/20/2013
Contributor: LikeSunshineDust LikeSunshineDust
I've done both - shared a threesome with my fiance and a friend's wife (also our dear friend).
02/20/2013
Contributor: sexytileena / absolutely love sex sexytileena / absolutely love sex
I would do neither.
02/20/2013
Contributor: Hot4You Hot4You
No, I don't share.
02/20/2013
Contributor: Sera26 Sera26
It depends and we would have had to talk it all out beforehand.
02/20/2013
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
I'm all about sharing
02/20/2013
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
I would do neither
02/20/2013
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I don't like to share.
02/20/2013
Contributor: Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
Quote:
Originally posted by sillylilkitten
If you were in some kind of relationship, would you "share" your significant other? Threesomes, spouse swapping, orgies, play parties, anything like that? And if you were single, would you participate if someone wanted to share their ... more
nope i know that i wouldnt do this
02/20/2013
Contributor: Kirill1171 Kirill1171
I would do neither.
02/20/2013
Contributor: Wolfenisa Wolfenisa
we are a open relationship
02/20/2013
Contributor: Toy Fiend Toy Fiend
I am in an open relationship, so it is cool with me
02/20/2013
Contributor: table38792 table38792
It sounds hot and I'd probably be open to the idea in general if they (my SO) wanted it but deep down I'm selfish. MINE
02/20/2013
Contributor: FLIPxMODE FLIPxMODE
NEITHER!
02/21/2013
Contributor: JessieDawg JessieDawg
We are in a open relationship
02/21/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
My wife and I will keep to ourselves. However, when I was young and single I dabbled in both sides.
02/21/2013
Contributor: Cosmonaut Cosmonaut
Only if I knew the other person for a while and I liked them as a person...not some random possibly has VD girl or guy.
02/21/2013
Contributor: js250 js250
Sharing is not an option for us.
02/21/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
I'd never share my SO..EVER.
02/21/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by sillylilkitten
If you were in some kind of relationship, would you "share" your significant other? Threesomes, spouse swapping, orgies, play parties, anything like that? And if you were single, would you participate if someone wanted to share their ... more
Definitely would not "share," but that's because we're monogamous and wouldn't want to have sex with other people. The question about sharing yourself but not your partner doesn't apply to me or us because I'd never want to share my own self.
02/21/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
I've done both, but not with my current partner. Prob not and she would have no interest I'm pretty sure.
02/21/2013