I think many of us fit into these same shoes to some extent. Either we've had babies and things have shifted or we've aged a little and our bodies may not be quite what they once were. It's all relative to life and growing up a little .

I personally wouldn't judge someone on their actual appearance. What would get me would be my playful side and the fact that there's a beach full of flopping weenies and boobs lol. That would just strike me too funny

I think those who go to those kind of places are very open minded and very judge-free. less

Thanks Lvstoplay!

Truth is I have to get back into shape, I am being forced to with the family sport we are all involved in.

But thats good, I have to prove my endurance for this "Hobby/Sport" of mine but that also pumps up the endurance in the bedroom! So I am all about it!

Health, this goal of mine and better sex.... I am doing whatever I have to do! less

See the messed up thing about it is my arms back and legs are chizzled. But I have a little extra around the stomach and that is what bothers me.

The truth is I have my kids now, the business is doing alright and now its time to focus back on me so it will happen soon.

Its kind of like having an old corvette, you don't want to take it down to the show unless its all shined up right! less

I hear what you're putting down .

Its really not uncommon for men to keep a lot of their arm/leg definition and lose the stomach. It actually proves how fit you really were not so long ago. With the arms and legs on your side, you are actually ahead of the game. There's a funny saying in the crazy world of fitness. It goes a little like this, "Your stomach is actually created in the kitchen and not the gym". If you are eating clean (a good combo of carbs and protein) every 2-3 hours (4-6 meals a day) your metabolism will rocket and your waist will shrink less

Ha! Never Ooo, going for that Booty Booty Booty Rockin Everywhere look!

First, you are going to think I'm bat shit crazy when I say this, but trust me and try it. Start with a realistic goal on day 1 that you want to jump to. Seriously focus your mental energy on actually squatting all that weight. You have to have in your mind that you are going to do this. You will be shocked with the outcome. You may only get a couple reps in but it's a good start to build and progress on. Keep your form in check!

Also helpful, fueling your body before doing a heavy workout. You will need some carbs to get you through it!! Otherwise, you will poop out. less