I never have, for anyone. The way I see it, that's my private time. He would like me to, and maybe someday I will... but I have terrible performance anxiety, and just can't get comfortable with the thought of putting on a show.
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Would you ever let your SO watch you masturbate?
07/27/2012
I dont think I could id feel like there judging me:s
07/27/2012
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My husband and I do this like, ALLLL the time! We love it so much! There's nothing sexier to me, than to see him playing with himself.
Originally posted by
hansen3
My SO wants me to masturbate in front of him but I'm embarrassed anyone else feel this way? Will the feeling pass?
07/27/2012
We do all the time! Its a big part of our BDSM dynamic.
07/27/2012
hell yes
07/28/2012
It is very sexy, but I always felt so shy and self-conscious during it. After a little convincing though, I tend to really get into it.
07/28/2012
It can be quite fun.
07/28/2012
It started years ago when I had to show him how I like to be touched (I have very particular wants and needs!), next thing I knew I was in the throes of a climax. It has been a part of our repertoire ever since, usually ending with him ejaculating over my fingers while I play with myself.
09/12/2012
It's part of foreplay sometimes!!
09/12/2012
I love doing this!
09/12/2012
table38792
Of course! It's pretty fun to watch each other
09/12/2012
When our relationship was long distance, we would do it on webcam. That was VERY sexy back then! Now, in front of him... well, it's awkward. We haven't done it too much, but I think maybe it'll pass if I do it enough to allow myself to get used to it.
If it makes you too uncomfortable, don't do it! But you may find it worth exploring at some point.
If it makes you too uncomfortable, don't do it! But you may find it worth exploring at some point.
09/12/2012
He asks me to do this while we're on long car rides. I love to do it, and love it even more when he sucks my fingers after
09/12/2012
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thank you, i had a good laugh xD
Originally posted by
Istanbull
Surgical Orthodontist
09/13/2012
Don't be shy! Your partner thinks you are sexy and will definitely be really turned on to see you do this. I have done this with my past partners, and it actually INCREASED my confidence, seeing how much they enjoyed it.
09/13/2012
Jacked off for my wife last night and shot all over her belly. It was quite exciting for both of us.
09/13/2012
i was embarrassed at first too, but you get over it if it turns you on enough lol
09/13/2012
Watching her is the salad before the main course!
09/14/2012
I've done it for past partners (they didn't ask, I just did it) and they loved it. Obviously I had no problems with it
09/14/2012
Very hot
09/22/2012
I'm fine with this.
09/23/2012
gavind
Definitely no. I guess I'm just not that mature enough.
09/23/2012
I am ok with it now completely, at the beginning of our relationship i was embarrassed.
09/26/2012
Don't do anything you are uncomfortable with.
09/26/2012
nann
I have done this for her a few times, but she has to be in the right mood.
04/12/2013
OFWife
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I used to be like that, but I got over it. It is huge turn-on for him and in turn becomes a turn-on for me when I see the lust in his eyes.
Originally posted by
hansen3
My SO wants me to masturbate in front of him but I'm embarrassed anyone else feel this way? Will the feeling pass?
04/12/2013
I like to if the guy doesn't get too pushy telling me what to do or how to do it. I've had that happen and then it just feels like I'm doing a performance for his benefit, and I can't really come then.
On the flip side, I've really loved watching boyfriends masturbate. Although I had one who seemed embarrassed to do it, so I didn't ask him again.
On the flip side, I've really loved watching boyfriends masturbate. Although I had one who seemed embarrassed to do it, so I didn't ask him again.
04/12/2013
Yeah.
04/13/2013
I've done it and never had a problem. He's not really into it. I think he likes the idea of me masturbating, but he never really asks me to, he wants to do it for me. I have no problem with that either. lol
04/13/2013
When my partner uses toys on me her arms can get tired, especially if I get the pure wand out, so sometimes I let her take a break and work myself and she watches.
04/13/2013