I've done it several times. It's really sexy for a lot of men to watch - it gives them the sense that they're watching pornography and then they get to join in (so I've been told from previous partners).

At first, you'll probably be embarrassed and won't go at it the way you do when you're alone. For me, I was self conscious about the way my body looked when I was writhing around on my own. What helped me was remembering this:

Your partner already knows what you look like, both clothed and naked. Your partner knows every fat roll and protruding bone and awkward mark, whatever. And THEY STILL WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU. Don't worry about it. Get into it. If you have to, role play being a Dom. Don't let them touch you while you're getting yourself off, if you don't want to.

Be aware of your limits. less

I would if he asked, or if I am warming up for him and he comes in, I sure wouldn't stop. Think about the fact HE has seen all your parts already, you want him there MORE, and most important, DON'T feel shy, it will give HIM great thrills. Just relax and enjoy!!!!! Tell him to SIT DOWN....you have a surprise for him. Hike your leg up between his (Captain Morgan style) and make sure you have on a short dress or such, and no undies, then just start rubbing yourself in front of him. When he reaches up to help...or goes to put a little tongue action in (he WILL do something), say "OH NO...all you can do is WATCH"!!!!! Once you are "done", say "DON'T move". Reach down, unzip him and suck him off...and believe me, you will have given him YEARS of amazing memories, and HE WILL LOVE YOU FOR IT. Ask some guys here if I am right or wrong about this??? I did it for my hubby once and YEARS later, he grins at the mention. I still flash him or do a little "self love" for his viewing pleasure. Guys are VISUAL. For them, it's a swell treat. less