The visual's nice from my perspective. It doesn't feel good or bad or even turn me on, and we haven't really done it once we got past our "omg we have to try everything" phase.

Personally I don't find it degrading, and it's just one more thing to add to the menu to spice up an evening

If I could do it adequately, I would. I'm only a 32B, though. Doesn't really work when you're that small.

I'm going to echo what a few other posters have said, and say that sex acts in and of themselves are not degrading, but the person who you are with might make it degrading with their intent. It sounds like your ex crossed boundaries and pressured you into doing something that you didn't want to do, especially since you don't like the size of your breasts. I've had this same conversation about facials, and the many, many people who proclaim that women don't like it, and they just do it to please a man, or because they are pressured into it, and any man who likes it, likes it because he wants to degrade women. That simply isn't true. I reject the notion that all women have the same perspective in the the bedroom, and I reject that the same is supposedly true of men...or any other gender that one may identify as. People are individuals with their own experiences, ideas, thoughts, emotions, likes and dislikes.

Most people who are with partners who respect their boundaries and are in a give and take relationship are comfortable with doing a wide range of things in the bedroom--and enjoy it the whole time. A lot of people do have hang ups because of bad experiences, but it's possible to get over them with the right person, or to at least be at peace with it. Who knows? Maybe one day you will be with the right person, be in the right situation, the right mindset, and find it has appeal to you. Or maybe not. But rest assured that there are a lot of women who do enjoy it for all the reasons listed here, and more. And also, there are plenty of men who like it, and it has nothing to do with a desire to degrade their partner. It's all about intent.

It doesn't do anything for me but I will do it for my husband since he enjoys it.

I suspect it's a porn industry invention. I'm a man and tried it with a female partner at her request, it really didn't do much for me.

I see nothing wrong with it but neither of us are into it.

I love it. Then again I have a major fetish for being released on so it's enjoyable to me.

Not my cup of tea, but the husband likes it so every once in awhile we'll do it.

I was never with a partner that was really into it. I have sensitive breasts so it isn't that comfortable to do for me.

I haven't tried it.

Well sorry I've offended some people, I am a selfish person and I won't do things that I don't enjoy just because someone tells me to.

It is part of a handjob, or blowjob. Lots of oil. Is fun.

Ex-boyfriend liked it, but I'm not a big fan of that.

My fiance and I have never done this. I don't think I would get any pleasure out of it, but if he wanted to do it, I would.

nope

It doesn't do anything for me. But I have tried it with my ex since he wanted to do it. I think he said it wasn't much for him either.

Not so much for me

I don't do this. I just don't get it. If you like it more power to you, but I don't get it. It doesn't do anything? It's awkward when giving a blow job too. I can't stay in pattern if my tits are bouncing me in the chin and causing me to scrap my teeth on his junk. I'm glad my partner doesn't like it because I would have a hard time doing it if he did.

It's not something that does that much for either of us.

I find it boring and pointless for myself. Though, if he enjoys it I'll do it.

I like the feel of Hubby's cock on me and he loves it so it has become a usual part of our foreplay. I don't really have any reason to have a negative issue with it though. I just don't see it as degrading it's pure enjoyment. I usually switch between blowjob and titty fucking and back to blowjob. I enjoy feeling his excitement and pleasing him so...it's all good from my point of view.

If someone doesn't like it then noone should expect them too do it. Everyone has different opinions, likes and dislikes that should all be respected. The key in any relationship should be communication. If something bothers you talk it out with your partner and find a resolution.

It does nothing for me so I don't do it.