If your partner out of the blue demands sex, do you...?

Contributor: mdnght mdnght
It'd depend on my mood.
03/20/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
YES
03/20/2013
Contributor: McCrispin McCrispin
It really depends on the where and when, haha.
03/20/2013
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Joie de Cherresse
If your parter just up our of the blue says "Let's go have sex." Do you stop whatever you are doing and go rock their world? Or do you tell them to wait until you are in the mood?
Yes, I do.
03/20/2013
Contributor: butts butts
demand? That's a huge turn off. I do NOT like demanding/needyness, if one of us wants something, we suggest it and try to get the other to be in the mood, if he just tried to FORCE it I'd be pissed. Being dominated when I'm not in the very specific mood for it is a major turn off!
03/22/2013
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Joie de Cherresse
If your parter just up our of the blue says "Let's go have sex." Do you stop whatever you are doing and go rock their world? Or do you tell them to wait until you are in the mood?
It depends on whether it's feasible to stop what I am doing and go have sex. Generally though my guys are pretty good about not making the suggestion unless it's doable...so yes I'll stop and have some fun time!
03/22/2013
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Given that I'm male... Of Course I would accommodate my partner's demand/request for sex!
03/22/2013
Contributor: Sugarfina Sugarfina
Quote:
Originally posted by Joie de Cherresse
If your parter just up our of the blue says "Let's go have sex." Do you stop whatever you are doing and go rock their world? Or do you tell them to wait until you are in the mood?
OH yes. Anytime he'd want to! As long as we are dating.
03/22/2013
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by Joie de Cherresse
If your parter just up our of the blue says "Let's go have sex." Do you stop whatever you are doing and go rock their world? Or do you tell them to wait until you are in the mood?
That depends on the situation and what I'm doing. But I'm usually the one asking for it randomly
03/22/2013
Contributor: gothicwhispers gothicwhispers
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Originally posted by Anjulie
Sometimes just them wanting it will put me in the mood
this is how I am. If he is all horny, that is usually enough to put me in the mood, even if I wasn't before.
03/23/2013
Contributor: surreptitious surreptitious
Quote:
Originally posted by Joie de Cherresse
If your parter just up our of the blue says "Let's go have sex." Do you stop whatever you are doing and go rock their world? Or do you tell them to wait until you are in the mood?
We often just have sex out of the blue. I like it when it happens two or three times a day (though it normally doesn't work out like that) so I'm content to take it whenever I can get it.
03/23/2013
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
I would have sex with them in that instance
03/23/2013
Contributor: TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
I'm always the one that wants sex. It's not that important to my SO. If he suddenly demands sex, I'm over the moon.
03/23/2013
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
I'm usually in the mood & when someone acts interested, that just spikes my interest. But, there'd be times I don't want it & since that usually requires me being sick, I can't imagine anyone who'd attempt to initiate anything then.
03/24/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
My wife NEVER asks for sex, but if she did, I'd definitely say yes! 90% or more of the time when I ask her out of the blue, she says yes. The other times, she doesn't say no, just not now.
03/24/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
Yes, pretty much anytime.
03/24/2013
Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
I'm the higher drive one so I'm always wanting it.
03/24/2013
Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
Usually yes, I drop everything and am ready to go. However, he seems to want sex at inconvenient times, like when I'm right in the middle of cooking a large meal that I can't just leave on the stove.
03/24/2013
Contributor: table38792 table38792
Oh hell yeah I drop whatever I'm doing and rock their world lol

I rarely turn down the opportunity for sex.
03/24/2013
Contributor: Gdom Gdom
Other: almost always yes (basically, yes unless I have an unavoidable preexisting commitment).
03/24/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
We both do this to each other...spontaneous sex is the best!
03/29/2013
Contributor: Peggi Peggi
I almost always say yes, even if I'm not really in the mood at the time, because he does the same for me. Even if I'm not really in the mood I still love to have sex with him, so there are no complaints with me. The only time I will say no is if I'm really not feeling well, in which case he understands completely.
03/29/2013
Contributor: evie.amor evie.amor
Yes but he rarely says that.
03/29/2013
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I'm usually good to go but I prefer to shower first if I just came home.
06/25/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Joie de Cherresse
If your parter just up our of the blue says "Let's go have sex." Do you stop whatever you are doing and go rock their world? Or do you tell them to wait until you are in the mood?
That partner is often ME, Mrs. Bignuf. However, if either of us is "in the mood", we enjoy just "taking it". Spontaneous and wherever we are, in the house. It's fun.
06/25/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by liilii080
I am big fan of random sex. Gotta keep it exciting.
Well put.
06/25/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
I love spontaneous sex!
Me too. Interestingly, most of my married GF's feel the same way.
06/25/2013
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
Lately more true than not... even so much as plopping kids in front of TV to go up and lock the bedroom door. But it doesn't usually happen like that very often.
Oh...I guess that was a caveat. We are far more "spontaneous" then when we had a kid running around the house!!! Very true.
06/25/2013
Contributor: mr115393 mr115393
In the past, once I've felt comfortable with a person, I pretty much was willing to have sex whenever they brought it up. I'm pretty flexible and I like sex a lot.
06/30/2013