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Contributor: MsDrProfKitty MsDrProfKitty
I don't notify (it takes a loooonnnnggg time to get to the point where it's good enough to be verbal about it).
And I don't like him notifying me, I like trying to time the pauses to get him to last longer and I like feeling him get there instead of him saying it.
12/11/2012
Contributor: sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
I don't cum when other people are stimulating me, so that's not really an issue for us, and I definitely never squirt from oral. I like to be notified when he's about to cum, but I can usually tell by his body when he's about to, so that's kind of a notification in itself.
12/11/2012
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
I like to be given at least a little bit of notification so that I can adjust stimulation to fit the situation.
12/11/2012
Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
I guess I cheated. I'm in a long term relationship so we generally don't care about notifying each other. He does like me to tell him because it turns him on but it's not for a warning. I do, however, warn him if I'm going to squirt.
12/11/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I'm female and don't squirt, so that's not an issue.

When I was first with my husband, I asked him to tell me when he was going to cum, he thought it was because I was going to spit, silly man! After being together for a few months, I knew exactly when he was going to come based on his body language and sounds. I told him he didn't have to tell me any longer, I already knew!
12/12/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
I notify my girlfriend
12/12/2012
Contributor: SassySam SassySam
i don't usually notify but i don't usually squirt, just sometimes with a particular toy so it's not really that messy.
12/12/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by Martiniman
Whether your a guy and we're talking about you cumming or your a female who squirts, if you're getting a handjob, blowjob or cunnilingus, do you notify your partner before you cum or squirt, or do you just let it fly?
Notify? I have never notified my partner before I orgasm.

However, I cannot answer the "do you notify new partners" because I have only been with one person who's made me orgasm, and I do not ever have more partners than him, so "new people" does not apply to me.

However, when I did first have orgasms, which was with the man who I'm with now, I never notified him. And no, it has never been required. I don't know why it would be... He likes when he makes me orgasm, he likes to feel it or taste it if its during oral. So I don't warn. Sometimes he'll ask if I'm coming, and I'll answer, but I've never needed to notify him.
12/12/2012
Contributor: butts butts
My partner squirms so much, I can tell when he's going to cum He's not good at hiding it!
12/12/2012
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
Just a little bit more moaning, I don't need a notification, but I want to know you're having a really good time. hehehehe.
12/12/2012
Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
No notifications between us. We can always tell and enjoy that excitement.

It's all part of making him feel like "the MAN".
12/18/2012
Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
I always tell my lover because he works so hard to make me orgasm when he knows im close. I love it
12/18/2012
Contributor: woodsdragon woodsdragon
We enjoy it when the other one tells us, but it is not necessary. However, when I am giving him oral, I prefer her tells me so I can be ready for it
12/18/2012
Contributor: JennSenn JennSenn
I notify and would want to be notified.
12/18/2012
Contributor: Bill220 Bill220
No notification for either of us. We can tell when it's going to happen. And I wish my wife could squirt......
12/19/2012
Contributor: heather-mooney heather-mooney
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
Whether your a guy and we're talking about you cumming or your a female who squirts, if you're getting a handjob, blowjob or cunnilingus, do you notify your partner before you cum or squirt, or do you just let it fly?
i guess it depends
12/20/2012
Contributor: Pink Lily Pink Lily
I like to be told when he's about to cum. Then I know it's time to put in the finishing touches...
12/20/2012
Contributor: Pandwhora Pandwhora
Quote:
Originally posted by Beck
My notification is more like dirty talk. Like "OMG, YES, I"M GONNA CUM!!!!"
THIS!....LOL!
12/20/2012