Orgasm notification during oral sex?

Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
Whether your a guy and we're talking about you cumming or your a female who squirts, if you're getting a handjob, blowjob or cunnilingus, do you notify your partner before you cum or squirt, or do you just let it fly?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I'm a male
Martiniman , minstrel69 , Kindred , Stagger13 , Trysexual , Hallmar82 , Zandrock , joelb42
8
I'm a female
*Camoprincess* , vulvalicious , Geogeo , padmeamidala , Lilith Bealove , WhoopieDoo , tortilla , llellsee , Robespierrethecat , Feisty , ginnyluvspotter , Beck , Kitka , CaseyDeuce , indiglo , amplified to rock , Sweet-n-Playful , Supervixen , brevado , atryonix , edeneve , Sirena , mistressg , talkless , caligaliber , Raymaker , solitudinarian , Thumper Logic , MsDrProfKitty , sillylilkitten , ToyBunny , Lildrummrgurl7 , PropertyOfPotter , SassySam , ghalik , K101 , Bethy Cassatt , KinkyNicki92 , woodsdragon , (k)InkyIvy , JennSenn , naturegirl , Ansley , Pandwhora
44
I notify before cumming or squirting if I'm with someone new.
*Camoprincess* , Trysexual , Hallmar82 , padmeamidala , WhoopieDoo , Alyona , Robespierrethecat , CaseyDeuce , ghalik , JennSenn , naturegirl
11
I do NOT notify before cumming or squirting if I'm with someone new.
Kitka , Sweet-n-Playful , atryonix , MsDrProfKitty , SassySam , ghalik
6
I notify even tho I'm in a comfortable relationship.
Kindred , Stagger13 , Lilith Bealove , Robespierrethecat , Feisty , Beck , indiglo , brevado , damnbul12 , Sirena , Lildrummrgurl7 , Zandrock , Bethy Cassatt , joelb42 , wicked weasel , KinkyNicki92 , JennSenn , Pandwhora
18
I do NOT notify as I'm in a comfortable relationship that doesn't require it.
Martiniman , Trysexual , WhoopieDoo , llellsee , Kitka , amplified to rock , Sweet-n-Playful , Thumper Logic , MsDrProfKitty , ToyBunny , Lildrummrgurl7 , K101 , woodsdragon , naturegirl , Ansley
15
Other...please explain.
minstrel69 , vulvalicious , Supervixen , mistressg , caligaliber , sillylilkitten , PropertyOfPotter , ghalik
8
I'm a male and I want notification.
Robespierrethecat , wicked weasel
2
I'm a male and I don't care...I like the surprise.
Martiniman , joelb42
2
I'm a female and I want notification.
*Camoprincess* , Geogeo , Sunny Meadows , Lilith Bealove , Robespierrethecat , Feisty , mp3me , Sera26 , indiglo , Sweet-n-Playful , edeneve , Sirena , mistressg , talkless , Raymaker , sillylilkitten , ToyBunny , Bethy Cassatt , KinkyNicki92 , (k)InkyIvy , JennSenn , naturegirl , heather-mooney , Pink Lily
24
I'm a female and I don't care...I like the surprise.
WhoopieDoo , tortilla , Beck , Kitka , CaseyDeuce , amplified to rock , Supervixen , brevado , solitudinarian , MsDrProfKitty , PropertyOfPotter , SassySam , Pandwhora
13
Total votes: 151 (60 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
I might notify one time and not the next. I'm not rude, it's just our relationship after 18+ years of marriage doesn't really require it. How do I know this? Like any good husband, I asked her many years ago.
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Contributor: minstrel69 minstrel69
I do say something sometimes but most times it's just pretty obvious to my wife when it going to happen.
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Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
I give a heads up as I have been with men who hate that I squirt once I get comfortable with my partner and they express the love of my squirting I really don't warn. I mean usually it is pretty obvious when I am going to cum. If I am giving him oral I want to know before they cum as I prefer the deposit to be made in my vagina it isn't often that I swallow.
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Contributor: cricket cricket
I usually do
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Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
Whether your a guy and we're talking about you cumming or your a female who squirts, if you're getting a handjob, blowjob or cunnilingus, do you notify your partner before you cum or squirt, or do you just let it fly?
I notify.
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Contributor: vulvalicious vulvalicious
My husband and I notify sometimes and sometimes not. Neither of us request it, and are okay without it. Sometimes I want to be more vocal and tell him, tell him what he's doing to me, be explicit. Similarly I sometimes want to hear this from him. Other times I just like the sounds of sex, the breathing, the bodies moving and I don't want any words to get in the way.
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Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
My GF knows when I am about to cum and she swallows anyway. If I was hooking up with someone new, I notify.
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Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
Whether your a guy and we're talking about you cumming or your a female who squirts, if you're getting a handjob, blowjob or cunnilingus, do you notify your partner before you cum or squirt, or do you just let it fly?
I like getting warning so I can get myself prepared so I don't gag
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Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
My wife doesn't like to be notified anymore before I cum. She thinks she "knows" when I'm going to so she likes it when I don't "ruin" the moment.
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Contributor: Sunny Meadows Sunny Meadows
I like it when he says it for some reason it is not really a notifaction per-say. It just really turns me on and he knows that.
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Contributor: sugar&spikes sugar&spikes
nope
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Contributor: Alyona Alyona
I notify before cumming or squirting if I'm with someone new.
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Contributor: tortilla tortilla
doesn't bother me either way
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Contributor: Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
My boyfriend and I are in a long-term committed relationship, but we still let each other know.
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Contributor: Feisty Feisty
Even though we are comfortable with each other, we still notify one another.
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Contributor: Beck Beck
My notification is more like dirty talk. Like "OMG, YES, I"M GONNA CUM!!!!"
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Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I have been with the same partner for awhile. He just seems to know from by body, my breathing, etc., that I am about to orgasm. Sometimes, I just say "Yes"; just before my orgasm.
He knows I squirt at times so he is not surprised....luvs it!
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Contributor: Kitka Kitka
We don't notify each other, it just seems silly to me. Anyway I don't mind being surprised but honestly at this point I can tell when it's about to happen.
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Contributor: Sera26 Sera26
He let's me know.
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Contributor: Sweet-n-Playful Sweet-n-Playful
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
Whether your a guy and we're talking about you cumming or your a female who squirts, if you're getting a handjob, blowjob or cunnilingus, do you notify your partner before you cum or squirt, or do you just let it fly?
I don't give notification, but I do like notification from my man so I can line up right to receive it
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Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
I can tell if he's about to cum, but he usually says something anyway. I haven't been able to squirt yet, but I still announce my orgasm, because that's just what comes out of my mouth when it happens!
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Contributor: brevado brevado
As long as it's not in my eyes, I don't care when
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Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
Whether your a guy and we're talking about you cumming or your a female who squirts, if you're getting a handjob, blowjob or cunnilingus, do you notify your partner before you cum or squirt, or do you just let it fly?
I notify even tho I'm in a comfortable relationship
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Contributor: Sirena Sirena
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
Whether your a guy and we're talking about you cumming or your a female who squirts, if you're getting a handjob, blowjob or cunnilingus, do you notify your partner before you cum or squirt, or do you just let it fly?
I especially want notification more so with blow jobs than anything. It is a bit of a turn on as well.
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Contributor: Raymaker Raymaker
I think I wouldn't help but want to know when to brace myself. Even more than that, as others have said, the notification is also sexy in itself.
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Contributor: libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
Whether your a guy and we're talking about you cumming or your a female who squirts, if you're getting a handjob, blowjob or cunnilingus, do you notify your partner before you cum or squirt, or do you just let it fly?
he always lets me know
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Contributor: libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by Martiniman
Whether your a guy and we're talking about you cumming or your a female who squirts, if you're getting a handjob, blowjob or cunnilingus, do you notify your partner before you cum or squirt, or do you just let it fly?
he always lets me know
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Contributor: Thumper Logic Thumper Logic
Most of the time, I'm with someone who doesn't require notification
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