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Contributor: SimpleTeaser SimpleTeaser
Do you have anyone that is open minded and doesn't mind discussing sex, toys, experiences, etc. offline? Or, are you only able to share these discussions with people online such as the EF forum?

This is one of the things I love about discovering the EF forum! I'm able to be open and discuss various topics, read experiences, participate in polls, etc. I don't have anyone that I feel comfortable enough with, to really sit and talk about these things.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes
45  (51%)
No
18  (20%)
Prefer privacy offline
26  (29%)
Total votes: 89
Poll is closed
02/19/2012
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Contributor: Sir Sir
I am extremely open. I do not find it to be wrong to talk about, so if people get put off by it, that's their problem.
02/19/2012
Contributor: Woman China Woman China
My family... hell no. They know I am a sexual person, but I don't discuss it with or around them unless they bring up the topic first. My co-workers... goodness gracious no!!!! I like my job! They are out to get me fired as I tell them they might be English teachers but they cannot speak the language. Everyone else, yes. I am very open. We have sex discussions in the classroom, condom talks, sex safety, toy talk... I'd love to talk to them about toys, and I do with small groups, but I have to be very careful.
02/19/2012
Contributor: Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
I am able to be more open online due to some level of anonymity.
02/19/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I don't mind discussing sex with people if they're willing to. My friends aren't too comfortable talking about sex, they were quite surprised to learn about me hanging-out on a SEX forum and own toys.
02/19/2012
Contributor: Wild Orchid Wild Orchid
When it comes to general discussion of sexuality I'm just as open. But there's no way I'm gonna tell my friend (or anyone else) what my fetish is.
02/19/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
I'm happy to talk about toys and sex to just about anyone that will listen aside from my mom. My mom LIKES to talk about those things. Like, way too much for my comfort level. I don't need to know what makes her orgasm the best. She's my mom. Ack. We stay a medium level of open about sex where when she tells me more than I want to know I go "UGH...MOM!"
02/19/2012
Contributor: Tagmstr Tagmstr
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Originally posted by - Kira -
I'm happy to talk about toys and sex to just about anyone that will listen aside from my mom. My mom LIKES to talk about those things. Like, way too much for my comfort level. I don't need to know what makes her orgasm the best. She's ... more
lol I don't know how I would feel if my mom was like this.
02/19/2012
Contributor: bsgs bsgs
i dont really talk to anyone in person, there are a few people though...on here, i can talk about anything
02/19/2012
Contributor: eroticmutt eroticmutt
Quote:
Originally posted by SimpleTeaser
Do you have anyone that is open minded and doesn't mind discussing sex, toys, experiences, etc. offline? Or, are you only able to share these discussions with people online such as the EF forum?

This is one of the things I love about ... more
I am just this open with certain people in real life, but not everyone- obviously SOME privacy with certain individuals is a necessity. It wouldn't do to be this open with coworkers etc
02/19/2012
Contributor: TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
extremely open. I work in a brick and mortar sex store so people usually assume I'm open to talk about those things.
02/19/2012
Contributor: ellejay ellejay
I'm open to anyone who wishes to hear about it.
02/19/2012
Contributor: richsam richsam
Quote:
Originally posted by SimpleTeaser
Do you have anyone that is open minded and doesn't mind discussing sex, toys, experiences, etc. offline? Or, are you only able to share these discussions with people online such as the EF forum?

This is one of the things I love about ... more
yes
02/19/2012
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
I don't mind discussing sexual topics on line or offline. However, I don't think it's necessary to talk about my experiences/ fetishes/ etc. It's nobody else's damned business except mine and my partner's.
02/19/2012
Contributor: blacklodge blacklodge
I'm pretty open with my friends and my mother.
02/19/2012
Contributor: Lucky21 Lucky21
I am open with my immediate friends to a degree. I think on some level, our society is ok with the sex, but as long as it's kept in the bedroom. I'd love to be able to talk to other people openly about things, but as open as I am, I'm fairly private.
02/19/2012
Contributor: Eliyahu Eliyahu
Nope...only offline person that knows my proclivities is my wife.
02/19/2012
Contributor: <3BF <3BF
I can be open, but not around everyone. I have plenty of friends that I wouldn't dream of talking about the kinds of things I am comfortable posting online under a pseudonym. By the same token I am lucky enough to have some people I can be open with, including, thank god, my sexy lover
02/19/2012
Contributor: Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
I want to say yes, but it's really only with my closest friends (which is very few). I am more open than what most people consider 'normal', even when I'm not trying to be though lol.
02/19/2012
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
In general I am pretty private about sexuality stuff, but amongst friends I have no problem talking about anything really.
02/19/2012
Contributor: Subbi Subbi
None of my friends or family are that open. So the only people I can be open and honest with are people here at EF (since they like the same stuff I do) and my significant other. He loves anything to do with sex!
02/19/2012
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
more open online
02/19/2012
Contributor: SadoMas SadoMas
depends
02/19/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Only with my boyfriend, I have no one else to talk to besides on EF
02/19/2012
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
No. I don't discuss sexual things with anyone offline.
03/26/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I am open both on and offline.
03/26/2012
Contributor: SeductivelyCute SeductivelyCute
I'm pretty open about it with certain friends but maybe not as open as I am online, but stil open.
03/26/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by SimpleTeaser
Do you have anyone that is open minded and doesn't mind discussing sex, toys, experiences, etc. offline? Or, are you only able to share these discussions with people online such as the EF forum?

This is one of the things I love about ... more
I am pretty open, online or offline.
03/26/2012
Contributor: lisasharrer lisasharrer
Quote:
Originally posted by SimpleTeaser
Do you have anyone that is open minded and doesn't mind discussing sex, toys, experiences, etc. offline? Or, are you only able to share these discussions with people online such as the EF forum?

This is one of the things I love about ... more
yes
03/26/2012
Contributor: Lickable Lollie Lickable Lollie
I have a few people that I talk to about it...or at least I did. I kinda became obsessed with Eden and started talking about sex TOO much to my friends... I should have been more careful with who and when I talk about it.
03/26/2012