Laughter during sex

Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
I love hearing (er..um..reading) about all the laughter going on
01/14/2010
Contributor: Mp4 Mp4
I can't remember any specific times we've laughed off the top of my head but it seems to happen quite frequently.

Apparently I really tighten up and pulse while laughing so it's not entirely a bad thing.
01/14/2010
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
I love to laugh any time, and during sex.

My ex once told me it killed his mood when I laughed, and that actually killed mine. I stayed with him for a long time and I won't go through that again, it's very frustrating. It's a requirement. I need to have fun doing it, or I don't feel like I can entirely let go and be fully myself.
01/14/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
I generally end up giggling a lot during foreplay, and sometimes while having sex if I'm trying something new and I'm feeling uncomfortable. The laughing makes me feel more at ease, lol
01/20/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by Chilipepper
Laughing is essential to our sex. Being ADHD, my boyfriend can't help but joke, laugh, and be silly, which - as a result - relaxes me. Sometimes it feels less like making love with a 1980's Johnny Depp look-a-like and more like Robin Williams ... more
The answer is out there somewhere....maybe it's all about the laughter!
01/21/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
With Sigel there isn't much laughter during sex but before and after we have to be careful not to wake the kids. Once with Arch, however, I was moaning and saying how good it felt and then farted...he couldn't help it the situation was just too ridiculous that he started laughing. We ended up rolling around the bed in near tears, was good though.
01/21/2010
Contributor: Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
We're always relaxed enough with each other that if something's amusing of course we laugh. The best one so far was when we were going at it during the summer and the freakin' ice cream truck stopped at the corner in front of our house, which is the side our bedroom is on. That dippy twinkly music they play was practically blaring, and it took me about 5 seconds to realize we were bopping right in time to "All Around the Mulberry Bush." Both of us cracked up so bad that we actually had to stop what we were doing until the truck left.
01/21/2010
Contributor: Gary Gary
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Originally posted by Victoria
Oooh yeah, that's true. Although, I laugh a lot more than you do!
The laughing I could tolerate, but the pointing got to me
01/21/2010
Contributor: Rockin' Rockin'
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Originally posted by Alan & Michele
We're always relaxed enough with each other that if something's amusing of course we laugh. The best one so far was when we were going at it during the summer and the freakin' ice cream truck stopped at the corner in front of our house, ... more
Oh man that would have made me laugh, too. I love silly coincidences liket hat. Great story!
01/21/2010
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
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Originally posted by Alan & Michele
We're always relaxed enough with each other that if something's amusing of course we laugh. The best one so far was when we were going at it during the summer and the freakin' ice cream truck stopped at the corner in front of our house, ... more
That is really funny! I know how that can be - I am very beat oriented
01/21/2010
Contributor: Backseat Boohoo Backseat Boohoo
I laugh often, especially during foreplay. I mean, it is forePLAY, after all. If you can't wrestle or joke or tickle or whatnot, what kind of playing is it?
01/21/2010
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
My boyfriend and I do a lot of fairly intense BDSM-type role playing and a lot of it involves gender-based degradation and humiliation. Sometimes during particularly intense periods of verbal abuse I flip him over or whatnot and wink at him because I (loving him and all) worry it might be too much. This has brought on lotz of giggles.
01/22/2010
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
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Originally posted by Owl Identified
My boyfriend and I do a lot of fairly intense BDSM-type role playing and a lot of it involves gender-based degradation and humiliation. Sometimes during particularly intense periods of verbal abuse I flip him over or whatnot and wink at him because I ... more
Also, on the occasions that I bottom I have a really disconcerting tendency to laugh hysterically when I'm being hit in the face. I don't know why, but usually I signal for my partner to stop because my stomach hurts from laughing far before I would ever signal to stop because of the pain.
01/22/2010
Contributor: KinkyShay KinkyShay
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Originally posted by Rockin'
Do you laugh during sex? Does your partner laugh?

My boy and I had a good laugh during sex tonight, and I was pleased that it didn't ruin the mood or slow us down. Does laughter happen at all during sex for you? What makes it ok to laugh? ... more
My attitude is if you can't have fun and be silly during the most intimate of acts, why do it? I adore being silly and cracking up in bed. Being involved in BDSM I love this all the more. Mixing sex, bdsm, and giggling is one of my favorite things in life.
02/04/2010
Contributor: ordinaryak ordinaryak
When we first started having sex my Boyfriend was very serious about it, if i would make a joke he would get a little upset and think i was making fun of him or impling he was doing a terrable job and he would clam up on me but after being together for a while he now knows i dont mean anything when i joke around ( like how when i give him a hand job and he cums in my hand how it looks like alien goo when i spread my fingers XP) and he laughs along with me and makes some funny jokes himself.
02/18/2010
Contributor: imp imp
Laughter is as essential as breathing
02/18/2010
Contributor: ajlq ajlq
Quote:
Originally posted by Rockin'
Do you laugh during sex? Does your partner laugh?

My boy and I had a good laugh during sex tonight, and I was pleased that it didn't ruin the mood or slow us down. Does laughter happen at all during sex for you? What makes it ok to laugh? ... more
I have slept with men before that if anything seems amusing, it makes them go to an insecure place and they immediately get defensive and presume I'm laughing at their physique or method. I like to laugh when I'm enjoying myself, it's not a "that's really funny! HA HA look at your tiny useless penis!" thing, it's an "I'm having a great time being with you and doing this!" kind of thing. But I've learned that it can wind up being a mood killer for him which turns it into a mood killer for me so I try to be careful. Now, the last man I was with enjoys himself too and once one of us starts laughing, we both start laughing, even when our mouths are full, and I think it enhances enjoyment for both of us! (Sex is damned funny, in my opinion. And plenty of funny stuff happens during sex!)

Summary: there's no universal rule and for each it's different. Just be careful who you're laughing around because they might take it as "laughing AT" instead of "laughing WITH"...especially if they aren't laughing!
02/19/2010
Contributor: pinkzombie pinkzombie
Quote:
Originally posted by Rockin'
Do you laugh during sex? Does your partner laugh?

My boy and I had a good laugh during sex tonight, and I was pleased that it didn't ruin the mood or slow us down. Does laughter happen at all during sex for you? What makes it ok to laugh? ... more
Never had any big laughter moments....
11/23/2010
Contributor: catalunalilith catalunalilith
i laugh often during foreplay and in 'slow' parts. Not usually that much during active/physically intensive parts
07/07/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
We laugh all the time together! and during sex is no different even find time to fight during to just makes each time different
07/09/2011
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
My husband laughs (giggles) when he gets excited sometimes. When I first met him, I thought he was laughing AT me and got pretty offended, but it doesn't bother me anymore.
07/09/2011
Contributor: Scott Ghost Scott Ghost
Usually when laughter happens it's because something happened. And then the mood gets killed.
07/09/2011
Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
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Originally posted by Alan & Michele
We're always relaxed enough with each other that if something's amusing of course we laugh. The best one so far was when we were going at it during the summer and the freakin' ice cream truck stopped at the corner in front of our house, ... more
Fantastic story! Yeah, whenever I hear music, I tend to move to the beat.
07/09/2011
Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
Quote:
Originally posted by ajlq
I have slept with men before that if anything seems amusing, it makes them go to an insecure place and they immediately get defensive and presume I'm laughing at their physique or method. I like to laugh when I'm enjoying myself, it's ... more
I don't think that I could stay in a relationship with someone who couldn't laugh during sex.
07/09/2011
Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
I really enjoy laughing during sex. It doesn't happen that often, but when it does, it's great. It's so relaxing. And if he's inside me when I laugh, I can really feel myself clenching around him. He likes it too.
07/09/2011
Contributor: Love Bites Love Bites
Me and my guy rarely have sex time where we don't laugh.we can laugh,because we are in love and comfortable with each other.usually we laugh if one of us messes up,or makes a face.sometimes I get frazzledd and flail and we end up laughing until we are out of breathe,yet that never ruins the mood and we always finish.its fun and relaxing that we can laugh together during sex-it means we are enjoying ourselves and each other.
07/09/2011
Contributor: EJ EJ
We laugh a lot during sex too and it only seems to add to the enjoyment. I can never remember a time when it turned out to be a bad thing.
07/25/2011
Contributor: Peggi Peggi
We laugh often during foreplay, and occasionally during, if we aren't too involved. If something silly happens, of course we will pause to laugh! We like to keep the mood light and fun!
10/11/2011