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Ladies, the better the sex, the less you want sex?

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Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
A woman posted in another thread "With a finger in my rear I cum so hard I don't need sex for a week." This got me wondering.

My wife has said to me before "If sex is great, then you should be satisfied. Since you're always bugging me for sex then I must not satisfy you." I always make her cum at least three times. She makes me wonder if I'm killing her sex drive and that maybe I should just worry about me and leave her unsatisfied.

If your man was making you cum multiple times, every time......
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The better it is, the more I want it.
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She's right. The better it is, then I shouldn't be in the mood for a long time.
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10/07/2012
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Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
Sounds like a way to cop out of sex to me. From what I understand, the more a female orgasms, the more she wants to continue to do so. So the thing for me (and many others if I'm correct) is that if I go without sex for, say, a week, then I'm less inclined to want to have it after that week. If I just had sex last night, I'm more inclined to want it again the next night.
10/07/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
Yes, if I have sex weather it is good or bad, I want more!!
10/07/2012
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I'll start by saying that everyone is different. Everyone has a different sex drive, and everyone needs (& wants) differing amounts of sex. Even the same person needs and wants differing amounts of sex throughout their lifetime.

With that being said (just a caveat to make sure we aren't judging someone by someone else's criteria or life experience) we have a great sex life, and it just makes me want more. Sure, I might be satisfied for a day or 2 after an outstanding night, but then I'm going to start thinking about how great it was, and I'll start wanting more before long.

I think actually for me, when the sex is bad I want less of it - rather than good sex making me want less of it.
10/07/2012
Contributor: wetone123 wetone123
I agree with indiglo, "I think actually for me, when the sex is bad I want less of it - rather than good sex making me want less of it."
10/07/2012
Contributor: skeeterlynn skeeterlynn
I can go months without sex. But then when I get sex, good or bad, I want more of it. If he's bad, then I'm not going to continue trying with him. If he's good, then I'll want it all the time. Bad sex makes me want more sex, but not with him. It makes me just wanna find someone else or do it myself.
10/07/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
Why would I want less of something that feels so good? I think the comment you posted isn't meant to be literal--I think she just meant, it's good and I feel so satisfied, that the satisfaction lasts all week. But it's figure of speech to underscore how good it feels. I've never heard of anyone wanting LESS good sex, or orgasms killing your sex drive.
10/07/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Istanbull
A woman posted in another thread "With a finger in my rear I cum so hard I don't need sex for a week." This got me wondering.

My wife has said to me before "If sex is great, then you should be satisfied. Since you're ... more
I never have such good sex that I don't want to repeat it!
10/07/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
About 95% of the guys I have been with I have wanted it over and over again! I have been told I am a nympho an that most men can't keep up with my sex drive. To be honest if I could have sex everyday I would be down for it.
10/07/2012
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
If it's good keep giving it to me lol. I can go for a long time without it, which I've done due to circumstances that happened one right after the other, but I don't want to.
10/07/2012
Contributor: Sirena Sirena
LESS??? HELL NO!!! The better the sex, the MORE I want it. Sex is like a drug, I want more and more and more! I would be at it everyday if the hubby and I didn't have opposite schedules and days off. I mean seriously, who wants it less? It is not like when you are hungry and you eat until you are full then don;t eat again until you are hungry again.
10/07/2012
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Sounds more like a problem of sex drives not matching up than anything else.
10/07/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
We have a great sex life, and I always want more...he is the same way, so it works out wonderfully
10/07/2012
Contributor: sexfairy sexfairy
The better it is, the more I want it! Definitely! I love sex in general, but if it is bad and unsatisfying I slowly loose my interest in having it (since I know it will be unsatisfying anyways). When it is good I want more, more and more!!!
10/07/2012
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
I have a hard time believing anybody would want less sex after having great sex. Just doesn't compute.
10/07/2012
Contributor: mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
Well, I personally would want more. But I think a lot of us here on Eden love sex, or we wouldn't be sex toy enthusiasts.

I know quite a few less...sexually driven people who would agree with your wife. What I would do personally is find ways to make sex as a whole harder to resist if I was in this situation.

Best of luck in figuring things out! Mostly sounds like a case of mismatched sex drives which could be occurring due to any variety of reasons from time of day to stress levels!
10/07/2012
Contributor: jr2012 jr2012
in my life, amount of sex is directly related to how happy and relaxed I am in the rest of my life. Great sex when I'm stressed will not really leave me wanting more.
10/08/2012
Contributor: Alyxx Alyxx
Great sex usually makes me want more sex.
10/08/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Well - I love this question. I've been operating under the assumption that the better/stronger my wife's orgasms are - the more she would want to have sex - but that does not seem to be the case.

I have never been able to link the two. Recently - just after a huge multiple orgasm, I asked her; 'if its that good - why don't you want it more often?'

She never answered - her overall impression is that I want sex too often - regardless of the number or strength of her orgasms.
10/08/2012
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
when it's goooood, I can't get enough!
10/08/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Istanbull
A woman posted in another thread "With a finger in my rear I cum so hard I don't need sex for a week." This got me wondering.

My wife has said to me before "If sex is great, then you should be satisfied. Since you're ... more
Sorry...that ain't me. "With a finger in MY rear, I cum so hard, I want him to make me cum again, right away....and then the afterglow is so intense, I want him again, as soon as he can perform". That is how it works for me. The better he is, the more I want him!!!!
10/08/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
More sex all the time!
10/08/2012
Contributor: AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by sexfairy
The better it is, the more I want it! Definitely! I love sex in general, but if it is bad and unsatisfying I slowly loose my interest in having it (since I know it will be unsatisfying anyways). When it is good I want more, more and more!!!
This is how it is for me, too. When the sex feels good but isn't orgasmic, I eventually lose interest. The less often I had sex, the less I missed it.

Right now the sex is the best it's ever been and I want it as much as I did when we first got together 19 years ago. Maybe even more!
10/08/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
Usually makes me want it more.
10/10/2012
Contributor: Forever Hers! Forever Hers!
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Sorry...that ain't me. "With a finger in MY rear, I cum so hard, I want him to make me cum again, right away....and then the afterglow is so intense, I want him again, as soon as he can perform". That is how it works for me. The better ... more
Yum
10/10/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
meh, if it's good then I'm thinking about it all day and I want it even more
10/10/2012
Contributor: heather-mooney heather-mooney
more!
10/10/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Istanbull
A woman posted in another thread "With a finger in my rear I cum so hard I don't need sex for a week." This got me wondering.

My wife has said to me before "If sex is great, then you should be satisfied. Since you're ... more
The better it is, the more I want it.
10/10/2012
Contributor: hem hem
Better sex certainly doesn't make me want sex less. However, everyone has a different body that responds in different ways, so please don't disregard your wife's feelings even though most people here seem to disagree.
10/10/2012
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
The better it is the more I like it.
10/10/2012